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In order to make their children's hearts healthy and happy, many parents will buy some small pets for their children as their children's playmates, because small animals are cute and innocent, can heal children's hearts, and can help children establish a healthy and sunny psychological environment. Some parents will buy rabbits, and some will buy pet dogs, all for the physical and mental health of their children.
But some parents not only do not pay attention to their children's mental health, but also become the culprit of harming their children, hurting their children's hearts over and over again. We see many parents selling their children's pet playmates on the Internet, regardless of their children's sad crying, only thinking that they can sell for a few dollars, this practice not only hurts the hearts of children, we can also see the lack of education of these parents.
A friend who is a teacher submitted to me a student whose mother not only cooked her child's pet rabbit, but also forced the student to eat it.
In the spring, the class organized a small animal observation diary activity, each child needs to raise a small animal to observe its life, and write a diary to record, some children record the little turtle, some children record the chicken, although the child's heart is not yet mature, but they all maintain the innocence of children, careful and careful care of small animals.
But one day, a student was half an hour late and did not show up, and the parents did not call to explain the situation, until the next day the little girl came to school with swollen eyes, her mother still kept pushing her shoulders, and from time to time scolded the little girl "What cry!" What is there to cry about! Isn't it just a rabbit? ”
The teacher first calmed the child's emotions, and when the child's mood was stable, he asked her what happened.
"Mom cooked my friend!" The little girl's emotions collapsed again, tears could not stop flowing, the teacher was also startled by the little girl's words at first, and later understood the cause and effect of the matter in the little girl's intermittent telling.
It turned out that yesterday, the girl's mother directly killed the little rabbit of the girl's observation diary and ate it, at that time the girl did not know, only smelled the burst of aroma from the kitchen, at noon meal, she looked at the meat on the table was also curious, she kept asking her mother what kind of meat it was, but the girl's mother prevaricated the girl while coaxing her to eat it.
After the girl swallowed, the mother laughed and told the girl the truth, the girl could not accept that her good friend was killed, let alone that her mother coaxed her to eat her good friend. The teacher went to the girl's mother alone and explained to the other party that children at this age need to pay attention to mental health, but the other party did not care, "It's just a rabbit, dead and dead, children, forget tomorrow." ”
This mother's words deeply stung this teacher, in fact, many parents are like this, in their eyes, the child is a child who will never grow up, it is really fun to watch them cry and roll, but they do not realize their own bad taste, how much psychological shadow and psychological trauma will be brought to the child.
I hope parents can understand that in order to educate their children well, parents must first respect their children, treat their children as an independent person, respect his thoughts, respect his emotions, if parents do not have compassion, then how to expect children to be kind?
Topic: Can you accept parents eating their children's pets?