Many people feel that marrying into the rich is worry-free, that is too many people can not live a happy life, but for Shen Lijun, 27 years old to marry into the rich, her "nightmare" has just begun.
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In 1983, Shen Lijun was born in an ordinary family in Shanghai, because she was good-looking and a beautiful billet since she was a child, so when she became an adult, she chose to embark on the road of modeling.
It is said that she can also be regarded as the "originator of Internet celebrities", during the modeling period by a game brand, she made an endorsement, unexpectedly, it actually won public attention on the Internet, which is a little red.
But fortunately, more than that, in 2006, the 23-year-old Shen Lijun was invited to star in the movie "The 601st Phone", which at that time could be described as a "big coffee gathering", starring Cecilia Cheung, Zhou Bichang, Hu Ge and others.
To have such a good opportunity, Shen Lijun also learned a lot of things, in 2009, she finally waited for the opportunity to make herself popular: "Family Has a Happy Event 2009", although she is not a professional, the object of her cooperation is Gu Tianle.
With the fame and influence of Gu Tianle, Shen Lijun also became popular overnight.
It is easy to step into the entertainment circle with only two dramas, and I have to admit that Shen Lijun's luck is really good, of course, her strength and efforts cannot be ignored.
Seeing that the future is bright, Shen Lijun and Li Jiaxin have the same marriage goal: they must marry the rich in the future.
In 2010, Shen Lijun met a rich second generation at a friend's wedding, although the other party's ordinary appearance is not so perfect, but the two chatted very happily, in words, Shen Lijun felt the thoughtfulness and humor of the man, and also understood the superiority of his family background, so soon, the two fell in love.
Young people in love is full of passion, in just 8 months, Shen Lijun married into the rich.
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After getting married, Shen Lijun's first task was to give birth to a fat doll for her in-laws, but because she was relatively weak since she was a child, her husband also found a high rate of sperm deformities after examination, so the road for the two to have children was not smooth.
It was not easy to get pregnant, and there were symptoms of threatened miscarriage, and in desperation, hundreds of injections of fetal protection injections were given, and Shen Lijun had severe morning sickness, and almost the entire pregnancy period was spent in bed.
After giving birth to the child, Shen Lijun lochia for about 3 months, bleeding, weakness, sweating every day, when getting out of bed, the legs are shaking, although the family also hired a nanny, but whether the mother-in-law or her, do not trust the nanny to take care of the child alone, so Shen Lijun endured pain is also taking care of the child herself.
At the most devastating time, she woke up many times in the middle of the night, nursing and changing diapers, which made her exhausted, the child was crying, and she was also quietly crying.
But what she didn't know at all was that at this time, her husband already had someone else outside, and in the name of work, he often came out early and returned late, and after work, he had to play mahjong every day.
Going home is almost one or two o'clock in the morning, and even sometimes only come back in the morning, Shen Lijun yearns for the happy and warm picture of a family of three after having a child, which has never happened, but her communication with her husband is getting less and less.
But she is distressed about the hard work of her husband, and she also wants to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, although it is late, many times she also sits on the sofa and waits for her husband to come home after putting the child to sleep.
After her husband returned, he watched TV and played with his mobile phone, and then slept on the sofa, saying almost nothing to shen Lijun, and sometimes he felt that the children at home were noisy.
Gradually, Shen Lijun became like a nanny, every day at home in addition to bringing a baby, she will also personally cook for her husband and in-laws to eat, but unfortunately her husband often thinks that her craftsmanship is not good, and there is no country aunt to make it delicious.
Her husband also loves to be clean, and asks her to clean the house spotlessly, to the extent that white gloves can't feel the dust, and the clothes, to be folded to the same model as in the store, and the children's various bottles and cans must be arranged at any time.
In the long run, Shen Lijun found that she and her husband's three views were not compatible at all, but she had given up her career, used her husband's family's money, lived in someone's house, and if she left, she simply did not have the ability to raise her children to grow up.
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What was even more out of her plans was that when her son was just over 2 years old, she accidentally became pregnant with her second child.
But when she was 5 months pregnant, she suddenly learned from other people that her husband had other women outside, and the two had been living together for a long time, and he often took her out to play with friends, almost everyone knew.
Shen Lijun did not believe it at first, after all, she felt that the man she knew was considerate and kind, and although there were changes after marriage, he was also because of his busy work and could not betray himself.
But it turned out that Shen Lijun was wrong, and by checking the call logs and mobile phone location, she found that her husband contacted the woman almost every day, and did not go to the company at all every day, and went to another home from home.
In a fit of anger, after her husband came back drunk one day, she broke down and cried, slammed her mobile phone on the table, and boldly proposed to her husband: "I want a divorce, the second baby in my belly is gone!" ”
Unexpectedly, her husband changed his strong style of the past, he took Shen Lijun's hand, and opened his mouth to admit his mistake at the first time: "I was wrong, I will not have a next time!" ”
Shen Lijun's heart softened after listening, and she easily forgave her husband, and the two did stop for a while, and she gave birth to a daughter smoothly.
Shen Lijun originally thought that if she made such a fuss, her husband should change, but she did not expect that after a period of time, her husband's behavior would be even worse.
Not only did he not disconnect from the women outside, but he also generously bought a car for others, and even accompanied her back to her hometown, the two went out to play, and also did not hesitate to post photos on social platforms.
But at this time, Shen Lijun was facing a dilemma.
Divorce, then she has no money, no job and no house, certainly can't raise two children, and she doesn't want her two children to grow up to become like a father, not divorced, then she is suffering physically and mentally every day.
In the process, she also learned from others that her husband had originally had a marriage, and the reason for the divorce was "red apricot out of the wall", but when she questioned her husband, her husband explained: At that time, she was young and did not understand things, and was forced to marry by her parents, but felt inappropriate, and left.
With her own inner entanglement and the persuasion of her mother-in-law, Shen Lijun finally decided to endure it for a while and divorce when the children grew up.
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Unfortunately, it didn't take long for the young Shen Lijun to discover that she had cervical cancer, which she attributed to her long-term depression and mental torture.
After she told her husband the news of her illness, she waited for a complaint: "Isn't it just with children?" So temperament, people still go to work, some foreigners still bring a group of children, what can you do well? You can't do anything! ”
Shen Lijun felt very cold, but there was nowhere to complain, she had to take a step back, you don't care about me, you should always care about your children!
She told her husband: You can have a woman outside, but the child is yours, and you have to be responsible for the child!
Unexpectedly, the husband's answer was very cold-blooded: "You take care of the child, and when you can't move, you are gone, I will take it!" ”
Shen Lijun was very angry and very upset, so she said to her husband angrily: "Now you can also divorce me and go to live with that woman!" ”
The husband was even more ruthless, directly throwing down a sentence: "I don't divorce you, in order to take care of the aftermath for you!" ”
Shen Lijun couldn't help but give her husband a slap, and this slap completely made her an enemy of everyone in this family, and although the original mother-in-law was protecting her son, she would more or less care about her.
When the mother-in-law learned about this, her heart was full of resentment towards Shen Lijun, and she felt that the marriage between the two had reached this point, and all the faults were in Shen Lijun.
Having a child by herself bears everything, and when she is sick, she can't get care of herself and is complained about, Shen Lijun can't find the meaning of life, and she has the idea of leaving.
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She had thought many times about taking her two children with her, because she didn't want the woman outside to be the stepmother of the children.
And the child's parents will let the husband say to let the nanny go, let the driver go, the child has a high fever Husband is playing cards calmly, and then directly proposed to send the child to the full day care school, Shen Lijun is really not at ease to leave them with such a father.
Because of the long-term discord between parents and mothers, the son has become very sensitive and anxious, and the daughter is also very fond of crying.
But whenever she saw the children playing happily and cutely, she could not bear to selfishly deprive them of their right to live.
On September 10, 2018, Shen Lijun was 35 years old, married into the rich for 8 years, she chose to leave a long text, jumped down from the 28th floor, and ended her life.
At the end of the text, she says to the children:
"You brothers and sisters must love each other, although you can't see your mother, but your mother will always love you, and the brightest star in the sky is your mother!" You must read more books and read more, eat more vegetables and fruits, eat less big fish and meat, read well and exercise more, and grow up healthy and happy! ”
Many people sighed: "If she doesn't give up her career, how good", today, Shen Lijun's social platform dynamics are still stuck in 2018, she is beautiful and happy in the camera.
Yes, life is for herself, women should be independent, not bet their whole life on a man!