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This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

author:The world of poetry

In "Divine Eagle Hero", sixteen-year-old Guo Xiang, after seeing Yang Guo's "amazing side", fell in love and could not extricate himself.

However, Yang Guo already had a little dragon girl, and what he never forgot was the "sixteen-year" appointment with the little dragon girl.

Guo Xiang's feelings for Yang Guo are destined to be a unrequited love affair.

No one else can empathize with this kind of pain.

The Fengling Ferry port first met, and when they saw Yang, they were mistaken for life.

I only hate that I was old and remembered the deceased before the cliff.

This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

There is no more helpless encounter in the world than this.

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is like sowing a seed in the fall and waiting for the next spring to be harvested, and it is destined to be empty.

Another Lefu poem with the literal meaning of "Junsheng I was not born, I was born Junjun is old", I believe you will not be unfamiliar:

Festivals

Don Zhang

Junzhi concubines have husbands, and give concubines double pearls.

The sense of the king is lingering, tied in a red robe.

The concubines' high-rise buildings are even raised, and the good people hold the Mingguang Li.

Zhijun's heart is like the sun and the moon, and the husband vows to live and die together.

Jun Mingzhu wept bitterly, hating not meeting and not marrying.

The author, Zhang Yuan, was the eldest disciple of Han Yu, who was not as famous as Li Du, Yuan Bai, Han Meng, Liu Liu and others in the star-studded Tang Dynasty.

However, this sentence "return the pearl of the king with tears, hate not to meet and not marry" has been passed down to this day, and has also won him a reputation for eternity.

Its literal meaning is a married woman's steadfastness to her husband, a gentle and firm rejection of her admirers:

You know that I already have a husband, and you still want to give me a pair of pearls.

I miss you in my heart and tie the pearl to my red dress.

My tall building is connected to the Royal Garden, and my husband is on duty at the palace with a long sword.

I understand that your intentions are worth learning from day to day, but I have sworn to live and die with my husband.

So I can only return the pearl to you with tears, regretting that I did not meet you before I got married.

Is this scene quite like the scene in the classic movie "The Dream of the Covered Bridge"?

"Feeling the lingering feelings, tied in the red robe", more like the heroine Francesca, in the four days of family outings, and the photographer Robert Jinkai briefly encountered and entangled.

And "return the pearl to the tears, hate not to meet when not married", and more like Francesca can not give up the existing family after all, choose to say goodbye to each other.

This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

Marriage, no matter how vigorous it begins, will eventually go flat.

Of course, unexpected love does bring long-lost hearts and warmth, but that kind of happiness cannot last.

The kind of vigorousness that hits the heart is ultimately invincible to the marriage in the long stream of thin water.

Therefore, only by keeping the marriage can we keep the bottom line of happiness.

In heaven wish to be compared to a winged bird, in the earth wish to be a branch.

The festival woman in the poem euphemistically expresses her attitude of rejection, with affection and righteousness, courtesy and courtesy, and is a wise person in marriage.

However, the poem also has a subtitle: "Send Dongping Li Sikong Shi Dao".

Behind this subtitle is the true meaning of the poem.

It was thrilling, and even related to the author's life and death at that time.

This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

After the Anshi Rebellion, the prosperous Tang Dynasty had long been blown away by the rain and wind with the death of Xuanzong.

Many jiedushi (feudal officials who commanded the frontier army in the Tang Dynasty) supported the army and respected themselves, dividing one side and making the people unhappy.

While they were vigorously engaged in military activities, they also co-opted the literati and the central officials, and some unscrupulous literati officials often attached themselves to them.

Li Shidao, on the other hand, was the envoy of the Pinglu Ziqing Festival at that time, and was one of the hot towns at that time.

Li Shidao took a fancy to Zhang Zhi and seduced him with fame and fortune, hoping to make him attach himself to himself and serve himself.

Zhang, like his teacher Han Yu, advocated national unification and opposed the division of the country.

In the face of Li Shidao's solicitation, Zhang Zhi was embarrassed to directly refuse, so he wrote this poem and gave it to him.

Zhang Shu used the technique of "vanilla beauty" in this poem (in ancient China, the relationship between men and women was often used as a metaphor for the relationship between a monarch or a superior and subordinate, and this method of expressing emotions was called the vanilla beauty method, which was widely used from the "Book of Poetry" and Qu Yuan).

After ideological struggle, he finally rejected the pursuit of an amorous man with a loyal wife, and hinted to Li Shidao his determination to be loyal to the imperial court and not to be co-opted and bribed by high-ranking officials in the feudal town.

This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

It is said that at that time, although Li Shidao was slightly unhappy, he had no choice - the other party said "no", but he saved face for you, so polite and courteous, what else can be said?

Some people may say, why doesn't Zhang Zhi have something to say, and why should he use the vanilla beauty technique around the bend?

In fact, this is not forced by the situation.

In 815, Li Shidao, dissatisfied with Emperor Xianzong's cutting of the domain, sent assassins to assassinate Wu Yuanheng, the chancellor of the xianzong clan, and seriously injured Pei Du in yushizhong.

Shocked for a moment, Zhang Juyi's friend Bai Juyi took a look at it and had work to do.

He immediately wrote to the emperor, saying that this was a disgrace that had not been seen since the founding of the country, and that "it is urgent to catch thieves and shame the snow country."

Bai Juyi, who was the crown prince at the time, was not qualified to write to the emperor.

As a result, some powerful people who were easily offended by Bai Ju took the opportunity to accuse the emperor of Bai Juyi for trespassing and "flashy and unscrupulous."

Bai Juyi, who did not understand politics, quickly touched a nose of ash, and was first demoted to the history of Jiangzhou Assassin, and then to Sima of Jiangzhou.

Of course, his greatest gain was to obtain the famous "Pipa Line" and the ancient jiqing - Yuan Shu's confessional poem "Wen Lotte Zhi Jiangzhou Sima", which was also written after that.

These two great poets were both belittled for their outspokenness, and how could Zhang Yuan, who had high emotional intelligence, not know the power of the officialdom?

This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

If he is not careful, he will be degraded at best, and he will be worried about his life.

However, he had to firmly express his point of view and preserve himself before he had to adopt this tortuous approach.

Zhang Zhi did escape the disaster with this poem.

In February of the fourteenth year of Yuan He (819), the chancellor Pei Du sent troops to attack Yun Prefecture (東平, Shandong), and the evil Li Shidao was killed by the general Liu Wu, and the Ziqing Qilai lands were restored to the Tang Dynasty.

The situation of the division of the town has greatly improved, and Zhang Yuan's poem has also been handed down due to his superb writing skills.

According to Feng Zhen's record in the Yunxian Scattered Records, Zhang Zhi was Du Fu's younger brother.

The most crazy demon's star-chasing move is to burn Du Fu's famous poems into ashes one by one, mix them with honey, and eat three spoons every morning.

One day, a friend came to visit him, saw that he was burning Du Fu's poems again, eating ashes, and inexplicably asked:

"Why did you burn Du Fu's poems and mix them with honey and eat them?"

Zhang Zhi said: "After eating Du Fu's poems, I can write poems as good as Du Fu'!" ”

My friend couldn't help but laugh when he heard it, and he didn't know if Du Fu would laugh and cry.

This love poem, everyone can recite, but it is the most euphemistic rejection of a man to another man

Whether it was because he ate Du Fu's famous passage or not, and the inspiration was bursting, Zhang Zhiwan rejected Li Shidao's sentence "Return the Jun Mingzhu with tears, hate when you don't meet and don't marry" for thousands of years, and has been sung endlessly for people for thousands of years.

The famous lover monk Su Manshu also used these two sentences as "A bowl of merciless tears, hate not to meet when unshaven."

How much love and how much hatred there is in the world, it is not worth a word of missing.

In the endless time of tens of millions of years, in the boundless sea of thousands of people, if you can just meet, neither "I was born before I was born, I was born with a king is old", nor is it "hate when you don't meet and don't marry", such an encounter can really soothe life, and only then can we say with confidence in the desolate world: "Oh, it turns out that you are also here!" ”

【Copyright Notice】The author of this article is Wei Wuji, a new media person, the founder of a cultural company, the author of best-selling books, the main business of entrepreneurship, amateur writing, publishing books, playing collections, exchanging poetry books and collections

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