Mi Dad came home: Deep father-son love

During the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, Mi Dad came home. Xiaomi was very happy and said that he had waited for this day for a long time, as if he had not seen Mi Dad for a long time. It's just ten days apart.

In order for Xiaomi to smoothly enter junior high school, it is no longer a loan student. When the school started in September this year, we chose to let Xiaomi return to Nanning City, where the hukou is located. Due to the impact of the epidemic, this year's job is not easy to find, Mi Dad stayed in the original city of Beihai to continue to move bricks to support the family, I resigned and took Xiaomi back to Nanning to go to school, so I and Mi Dad lived a separate life in two places. Mi Dad has always felt guilty, thinking that he can't accompany Xiaomi every day, but in the face of realistic pressure, he has to separate, fortunately, the two cities are not far apart, and it can be reached by car for three hours. However, no one expected that this would deepen the feelings between father and son.

When Xiaomi was in elementary school, in order to accompany Xiaomi more, Mi Dad strongly requested that Xiaomi go to primary school in Beihai. Because our hukou is not in Beihai, we will not hesitate to spend a high price to enroll in the nearest school as a loan student. But with the growth of Millet, there are often contradictions between father and son. Either because of disagreements, or because of the annoyance of tutoring homework, father and son are like a pile of dry wood, which ignites at one point. I was caught between them, and I was often torn between them. It is not to do Xiaomi's ideological work, or to scold Mi's father for being naïve and unable to live with children at an old age. Sometimes I also pessimistically wonder if one day I am gone, whether their father and son will be incompatible.

In order to let Xiaomi adapt to life in Nanning in advance, he and I came to Nanning a month early. Just come to Nanning, Xiaomi is very curious about the city. Although he was born here, he left at the age of 1.5 and followed Mi's father's work, so he was not deeply impressed by this place. Later, when I returned to beihai, I only passed by as a tourist. For him, everything was a new beginning. Taking advantage of the summer vacation to satisfy his curiosity, I took him to hang out in the streets of Nanning City every day. During that time, I asked him if he missed his life with My Father, and he said that it was better to be apart for a while, otherwise he would always quarrel.

New schools, new classmates, new environment, Xiaomi quickly adapted to it after school. Every day is happy, as soon as I get home, I will twitter and tell me about what I have seen and heard in school, and I will closely follow the teacher's teaching in my studies, and my homework will be completed on time, especially when I participate in the school's after-school services, and I have basically finished my homework before returning home. In this way, he has more free time at home, and I can't accompany him all the time because I have to be busy with housework. He began to feel lonely, and because of this, he began to miss MiPa. It is better to say that it is better to be a family together, and when my mother is busy, my father can play with me. Once this kind of longing is formed, it is out of control. Every day, whether it is noon or afternoon when I come home from school, I must call his father and video, just like a little couple in love. On the first weekend of school, Mi Dad came back once, xiaomi not only pestered dad to talk about the east and west, but even slept with dad (Xiaomi slept in a room by herself when she was five years old, and never asked her dad to sleep with him. When I'm sick, I just sleep with me). Today's attachment to Xiaomi once made Mi Dad feel unaccustomed. At the same time, it is also self-reproach, thinking that when the family was together before, they often did not accompany Xiaomi well, did not communicate with Xiaomi patiently, and did not give Xiaomi enough warm fatherly love.

This time home by the way to spend the Mid-Autumn Festival, Mi Dad plans to let go of everything, a good companion to Xiaomi, in order to relieve the usual thoughts. Seeing such a deep feeling of longing between their father and son, I think that all my previous worries can be put aside, after all, "blood is thicker than water", and it is even more "if father and son are in love, they are deep in father and son, but there is only father and son love."