Author: Iceberg Snow Peak
After this year, the old man will have passed 66 years.
When I didn't go to school, wearing open pants, a stranger asked my mother: How old is this kid, you see that he has a fat head and big ears.
Remember going to school, carrying a schoolbag from school, a distant relative asked: This kid is so tall? Dozen?
I also remember that I was going to be a soldier, and an elder in my village asked my mother: This child looks like he has grown up, five big and three thick, and has a good life.
After returning to the place, some people praised that the young man is very handsome!
The years are not spared, from children to youth, from youth to middle age, from middle age to old age, a full 66 years of ups and downs.
I don't know when the era of being called "handsome guys" is gone, and the original shouting of big brother on the street has also been changed to shouting uncle. These changes in title are changes in my appearance and age. Some people say that a young mentality is a young one. Yes! The mentality has not been old, but the body has not listened to the command. It used to take two steps up the stairs, but now you have to hold the handrail slowly. At each physical examination, the most language I can understand on the list is: degenerative diseases.
I belong to the man who loves beauty, and I dress neatly all year round, even if I don't wear shorts when I go out in the summer, I think that dressing is respect for others and respect for myself. That's it, dressed as a gentleman, pretending to be a humble gentleman, polite, and has long been old. Often in exchange for a sentence: you look so young! This word "obvious" is enough to show that you are old. If I understand, you understand, and everyone understands, I don't need to explain it specifically. And every time at this time, knowing that it is a lie, he will also be secretly happy, as if time has been turned back, and the "sweet dream" feeling of yesterday's Fanghua reappears on the branches.
The light is like water, gurgling all the way, washing away the prosperity, the years of "looking at the green sky with white eyes, bright as a jade tree in front of the wind" have long withered in the wind, the dashing beautiful boy of the year, when toasting and drinking, often looks at the green sky, and the era of handsome posture like a jade tree in the wind is gone. If someone asks the old man "high life"? I can answer without absorption: "Six out of sixty old men."
Indeed, after eating dumplings on the first day of the first lunar month of this year, I bowed to my mother and bowed my head to my mother, and I entered the threshold of sixty-six.
The ancient saying: Thirty stands, forty does not confuse, fifty knows the destiny of heaven, sixty and obeys, seventy and does what the heart desires. The ancients were quite insightful. What age understands what and what to do, as if there are gods commanding in the shadows. I am in the middle of sixty and seventy, I have gone through most of my life, and my mind needs to be peaceful. I have a relatively thorough understanding of the value and meaning of life, so no matter what others say, I will have a number in my heart. Especially after looking down on fame and fortune, I completely understand the truth that life does not bring death and does not bring away, so for any kind of words, it can sound pleasant.
As the saying goes, life is 70 years old, and people live to be 70 years old, which is a very long life in ancient times. Climb up to seventy! Not to mention whether I can climb or not, I have understood that in this life, I am such a bad old man, ordinary as a leaf, unique. I haven't become an expert in my life, I haven't done anything celebrity, I haven't done great things, and I've been mediocre all my life.
Since the years do not spare people, I cannot spare the years. The years make me grow old, I rely on the years to grow old, in the embrace of the years, continue to make the dignified life inclusive, even if it is whipped, sharpened, must be nourished. I hope that I will become more and more mellow and peaceful, no matter how unfair and unreasonable things I encounter, I will no longer complain, no longer sad, and calm down to bear it. If it is wrong to take a step forward and a step back, without hesitation, I will go to the side. The mountains are heavy and the water is restored, and it is also a time of bright flowers. It turns out that there is still a road next to the road.
Sixty-six, I am grateful for all the gifts of life - smooth and tortuous, smooth makes me happy and optimistic, twists and turns make me calm and thoughtful, regardless of adverse obedience, I accept it with indifferent feelings. The sorrows and joys of life are all senders, are the uninvited guests who temporarily come to your life, treat guests, you have to show the feelings of treating guests.
Sixty-six, if I can live a few years healthy, if someone praises it to my face, I will be proud, but not arrogant, only say with a silent smile: Less trouble for the children; If, out of the public, some people criticize behind their backs, do not get angry, turn around, and the wind and smoke will be clear: I beg your pardon. All existences have causes and consequences of existence, laughter and scolding are left to him, and spoil and not be shocked. I'm not paranoid, quietly enjoying the time in front of me with my feelings.
Half window cherry red, half window willow green, a new spring of the Year of the Rabbit is coming to the window. In spring, everything in front of me is so gratifying, like the fragrance of flowers, no matter how subtle it is, it can be caught by my nose, no matter how light it is, it can drill into the bottom of my heart, cut a wisp of sweet fragrance and quietly treasure it, and rippling into a smile on my face.
Sixty-six, the impetuous mind seems to have been injected with a tranquility agent by the years. The mind is still, and only when the mind is calm can it perceive what you want and what you don't want. What does not belong to you, let it go with the flow, do not retain, do not regret, and what remains is your share of fate, cherish it. With a grateful mood, I carefully inventory and savor what I have, and I found that I was still rich: I had a stable pension, a stable family, excellent children, a healthy wife, and an old wife who loved me. All of this is priceless treasure, and it can be done and cherished. Thinking about it like this, there is happiness swaying in the depths of the mood, and this happiness slowly deduces into the kindness in the heart and the confidence on the face. No matter how dark the surroundings are, if you have a light in your heart, you will walk a good road. Clean and clean, walk beautifully on the road of life. Setbacks, failures, no matter what they have been, no matter what they will encounter again, can not change my outlook and love for life, life, above all else! Love, will grow old, friendship, will wither, nothing can replace life, life will continue, never leave, until the end of life. With the life you want, be flexible and attainable, and reach the strongest alliance with life, you will never be decadent and depressed again.
Is it getting strong? No, it's getting a little softer. Like a ball of cotton, absorbing the sun and moon, experiencing ups and downs, growing into a warm ball; Like a lake of autumn water, precipitated with suspended impurities, clear and clear; Like a small grass, regardless of the terrain, weak and humble, but secretly deteriorated; Like a pale and colorless flower, each petal is so light and thin, and the branches are soft on and off the branches; Like a white cloud in the clear sky, blown by the wind, flickering east and west, flowing and soft. This softness comes from an increasingly compassionate heart. I want to be gentle to the family, and even softer to the children. Let yourself be like a spring breeze, like a spring rain sown, more like a seed, can blossom and bear fruit.
I like to listen to the theme song "Borrow Another 500 Years from the Sky" in the TV series "Kangxi Dynasty", every time I hear this familiar melody, the domineering scene, people are surging, a pioneering and enterprising, strategizing on the battlefield, opening up territory, standing at the peak of history. We didn't compare with the Kangxi Emperor, I just want to borrow this lyrics and surging my mood at this time.
Yesterday went with the wind, and the flower armor rushed to the ancient.
