1. The shadow of domestic violence after marriage
Less than half a year after marriage, Mano suffered domestic violence from her husband. Her husband is tall, 180 centimeters tall, weighs more than 200 pounds, and is a "giant" with a large physique. At first, Mano thought that his burliness was a warm force that gave him protection.
However, the reality is far more brutal than Mano imagined. In just half a year, this man who claims to "love her as deep as the sea" has abused her as many as 7 times. Each time, his big powerful hands would land on Mano Nuo's petite body, beating her all over her body.
Mano curled up helplessly in the corner, tears could not stop flowing, and the love he once had was destroyed again and again. The most terrible thing is that her husband actually imprisoned her in a rental house, and she is like being locked in a hell from which she cannot escape, and life is worse than death.
Until one time, the sound of Mano being beaten alarmed the neighbors. Kind neighbors quickly called the police. When the police arrived at the scene, they saw Mano, who was covered in scars, and his eyes were gloomy.
The girl who once proudly said that she would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle is now in an embarrassing situation. Not only did she not sit in the BMW, but she didn't even have the courage to cry on the bike.
The divorce lawsuit has been inconclusive, and the shadow has shrouded Mano, and the former "dream of worshipping money" has long been shattered.
2. The proverbial "BMW crying"
Back 14 years ago in 2010, Ma Nuo was 22 years old, at the age of youth and ignorance. That year, she participated in a blind date reality show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", but because of the remark "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle", it caused an uproar and controversy across the country.
Overnight, Mano transformed from an obscure college student into a household name and a rising star in the entertainment industry.
Since then, Mano has been labeled as a "gold worshipper" and "BMW girl" by the world, and has become a well-known "originator of the first generation of gold worship". Although she came forward afterwards to explain that it was just a momentary anger, the brand of "money worship" has been deeply imprinted on her body and lingers.
This label is like a shackle that imprisons the trajectory of Mano's life. No matter what she sings or does in the entertainment industry, there are always people who use this sentence to satirize her, ridicule her, question her motives, and point fingers at her.
And she herself is powerless, she can only let public opinion determine her fate.
Ironically, when Mano said the sentence "BMW crying", he just wanted to stabilize his psychological state, but he didn't expect this angry sentence to become the fatal key to her life, and she was destined to make mistakes again and again, trapped in the label of "gold worshipper", and embarked on a "road of no return".
Third, the short-lived popularity is all over the country
It is said that misfortune comes from the mouth, and blessing comes from misfortune. Although the label of "money worshipper" brought endless criticism and controversy to Ma Nuo, it also made her popular overnight, making her popular all over the country and becoming a household name.
Opportunity is reserved for those who are prepared. Ma Nuo saw the pearls, seized this popularity, and took advantage of the situation to open the door to enter the entertainment industry. In just a few years, she quickly became popular and became a well-known "traffic flower".
At that time, Mano was undoubtedly the most eye-catching focus in the entertainment industry. Fans flock to her, she won the first place in the micro-film, and also cooperated with Yang Mi, Xu Zheng and other first-line stars to shoot movies.
It is rumored that Ma Nuo originally had an important role in playing against Yang Mi in "Chunjiao and Zhiming", but unfortunately it was all deleted later.
Despite his mediocre reputation, Mano still gained the support and popularity of a large number of followers in a short period of time. Countless boys and girls are crazy about her, and she did live in the center of the stage of her dreams for a short time, and was watched by the whole country.
Mano, who was full of confidence, didn't expect that this glory was just a flash in the pan. After enjoying the pinnacle glory of being noticed by the whole country, her fate soon began to decline, embarking on a faded and forgotten "point of no return".
Fourth, chasing dreams gradually faded away without results
Mano's career in the entertainment industry is like a meteor that once bloomed with dazzling light, and soon left the scene after burning out, and no one cared about it.
Although after the peak period of national attention, she also starred in film and television works such as "Safe Haven" and "Falling in Love with Virgo", but her acting career just couldn't really open up the situation and get rid of the label and doubt of "gold worshipper".
Most of the crew arranged for her to play the image of a gold-worshipping girl who "acted in her true colors", which made Ma Nuo fall deeper and deeper, and finally became a prisoner of the "label". You see, no matter how good her acting skills are and how hard she works, in the eyes of the media and the audience, she is just a "money worshipper".
Except for occasionally singing love songs on variety shows and selling cuteness to maintain some attention, Mano seems to have no other way, and there is no way to make a splash.
She tried to prove herself in the entertainment industry, but unconsciously fell into the quagmire of "gold worshippers" and fell deeper and deeper, unable to extricate herself.
Once upon a time, Mano was the "future star" of the entertainment industry and was pinned on high hopes. But in this way, she was gradually swept away by the big waves and buried by the smoke and dust of the times.
In the end, the originator of this "gold worshipper" had to leave the scene, gradually faded out of the public's field of vision, and became a generation of "epiphany".
5. The cost and lessons of the point of no return
Looking back, Mano's life can be called a portrayal of "no return". The golden sentence of "BMW crying" seems to give her life a road sign rashly when she is ignorant and unconscious in the future, and she is destined to make mistakes again and again and embark on a "road of no return".
Ma Nuo was originally just an ordinary Beijing girl who should have broader development prospects. But as soon as she opened her mouth, she said the big words "BMW crying", and the ensuing career development direction, social evaluation and media discussion firmly nailed her fate to the narrow dimension of "material" and "money".
The label of "money worshipper" seems to have become a shackle that she can't get rid of, hindering her from pursuing her dreams in the entertainment industry. What's even more suffocating is that she also paid a heavy price for this label in her life.
Once upon a time, she laughed at herself, "Not only did I not laugh in a BMW, but I didn't even have the courage to cry on a bicycle."
Married life has fallen into the haze of domestic violence, and life has hit walls everywhere, this "lucky girl" who was born with a golden key back then, but now her situation is embarrassing.
The divorce case has been inconclusive, the ex-husband is full of malicious slander, the former "money worship dream" has long been shattered, and Mano seems to never see a way out of happiness again.
Mano's lesson shows that material possessions, while important, are not the same as happiness. We should cherish the inner satisfaction and the emotional connection between people.
Only by remaining sincere and sticking to our self-values can we truly find the path to happiness and not be deceived by money and fame.
Sixth, life realism is more cruel than the script
Some people say that Mano's life is simply a realist tragedy. As the young girl who was ignorant of the world back then, she casually said an angry sentence of "I'd rather sit in a BMW and cry", but inadvertently wrote a life script for herself.
And real life is often more brutal and realistic than any script. Ma Nuo devoted himself to the entertainment industry to pursue his dreams, and this road is destined to be a bone and a hard nail.
She thought that with her outstanding conditions and the hype of "BMW Crying", she would be able to gain a foothold in this circle.
But she didn't expect that she could only be trapped in the label cage of "money worshippers" in the end, unable to truly release her potential, and was forced to leave the scene gloomily. After just a few years of dazzling peak, Mano's road to stardom is like a burning meteor, falling suddenly.
When she gave up her dream and returned to real life, fate gave her a blow to the head. A marriage with happy expectations made her suffer the nightmare of domestic violence.
The husband who claims to "love her as deep as the sea" is full of muscles, but he shows no mercy to the weak Mano .
Domestic violence, captivity, assault...... Mano managed to escape from a hellish marriage, but even after the divorce, he was not able to get the freedom he deserved.
The ex-husband was unrelenting, slandered and slandered everywhere, in a vain attempt to drag her into the abyss again.
Yes, who would have thought that Mano, who was proud to say that he would "rather sit in a BMW and cry", is now in such a miserable situation? Not only did she not sit in the BMW, but she even lost the courage to cry on the bicycle.