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In 2010, Ma Nuo, the female guest of the blind date variety show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", was criticized for saying, "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh in the back seat of a bicycle." It sparked heated discussions on the Internet and became an Internet celebrity.
Fourteen years later, however, her name is once again making headlines. This time, it was because she publicly accused herself of being abused by her husband for a long time, and she was going through the divorce process.....
Hutong girl becomes a "gold worshipper"
In 1988, Mano was born in an old hutong on the outskirts of Beijing. Ma Nuo's parents came to Beijing from their hometown in Anhui Province to work, but because of their low education, they ran into walls everywhere when looking for a job. In the end, I can only make a living by selling fruits in the downtown area.
The parents went out early and returned late every day to sell fruits, barely earning enough money to maintain the daily expenses of the family of three, and they cared very little for Mano.
Mano told the media in an interview that her family has been raising her as a boy in order to save money, and she can only wear old clothes from relatives and friends.
Mano has heard from her parents since she was a child that the family's economic conditions are not good, and she can't think about the things that other girls have, such as dolls, dresses, hairpins with diamonds, etc.
Her parents repeatedly told her that it was good to be fed and clothed, and that the more extravagant things were not something that their family could afford.
In the eyes of parents with traditional thoughts, all the pursuit of high standards in food, clothing, housing and transportation is shameful, which does not conform to the traditional virtues of thrift and thrift.
Mano has lived a submissive life at home since he was a child, and although he yearns for those material things, he never dares to ask his parents for them.
In 2005, after graduating from high school, Mano was admitted to the Beijing Institute of Modern Music. But in this year, her father died of illness, and Mano was also hit hard by it.
In order to alleviate the burden on his mother, Mano began to work part-time as a model car during college to subsidize the family. She is good-looking and has an outstanding figure, so she has also had many job offers.
But the organizers of the event always saw her as a college student and deliberately deducted her part-time salary, so even if she worked part-time for a few years, Mano saved very little money.
Four years later, Mano graduated from university and officially entered the industry as a graphic model. But she has neither fame nor a backer in related industries, so she can only barely make ends meet with a low salary.
"At the most difficult time, I only had 1,400 yuan left in my bank card. Mano said.
Unable to afford to rent a house near the company, Mano moved to live with a distant cousin. Even though she had been cautious enough during these days under the fence, after a few months, her cousin tactfully offered to Mano to let her move out.
A few days later, Mano dragged a few suitcases and found a dilapidated house to rent.
At this time, she no longer believes in the thrift and not too high materialism that her parents taught her when she was a child. Instead, I made up my mind - no matter what means I use in the future, I must become a rich man and live a life where I no longer need to look at people's faces.
It quickly occurred to Mano that for a young and beautiful girl like her, she could change her destiny by making a class leap through marriage.
In 2010, a blind date program of Jiangsu Satellite TV "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" is on the air. Mano signed up for the show with the idea that "even if you can't find a rich man to marry, you can become famous quickly and prepare for the future announcement".
During the recording, Mano did not miss every opportunity to be on camera, and every time he dressed himself up with red lips and pink face, which was extremely moving. Although she was only 22 years old at this time, she always exuded the charm of a mature woman.
As Mano wished, she quickly became popular after the show started. But she still felt that it was not enough to be famous just by her appearance, so she began to work the performance of the show again, and began to set up a "sharp and amazing" character for herself.
She would disdainfully joke when the male guests bluntly said that she had talked to seven or eight girlfriends, saying that she was not more than a fraction of the number of her ex-boyfriends, and she would also share her special habit of collecting thongs with the public.
And the most interesting thing is that Mano will always ask the male guests directly what their family background is and whether they are rich. At this time, some people on social media have begun to think that Mano has a tendency to love money.
In the subsequent episode of the program, not only did Manuo's money worshipper sit down, but she herself also made the front page headlines of major entertainment newspapers.
The reason is that in this episode of the show, there is a male guest who has just resigned and is temporarily unemployed at home, and he shared with everyone that his hobby in his free time is cycling.
The male guest fell in love with Mano at first sight and plucked up the courage to invite her to ride a bike with him when he had free time.
However, Mano sneered disdainfully, and said the sentence that became popular all over the Internet later: "I'd rather cry in a BMW than laugh in the back seat of a bicycle." ”
As soon as this sentence came out, it shocked the audience. Netizens launched a heated discussion on Ma Nuo's words, and most people accused Ma Nuo of worshipping money and money, and condemned her. But there are also a few netizens who think that she has a straightforward personality and is just saying what she wants.
In any case, Mano got a lot of spotlight attention, and the "If You Are the One" program team also received higher ratings as a result.
Later, in order to maintain Ma Nuo's popularity, the program team once arranged for a male guest to come on stage to mock Ma Nuo, saying that she should go to the beauty pageant and let the rich choose, so that she could sit in more than just a BMW.
Just when everyone thought that Ma Nuo would use his usual poisonous tongue to reply to the male guest, Ma Nuo shed tears at the show and left the venue halfway without even giving a specific response.
A few episodes later, she successfully held hands with a very ordinary male guest and left the show in a hurry. Soon after, Mano issued a statement on his social account, saying that he broke up peacefully with the male guest.
It became popular overnight, and it must be reversed
Later, in an interview with reporters, she explained that she was joking, just expressing that she wanted a reliable and stable man who could provide her with a good living environment, not an unemployed person who only knew how to ride a bicycle all day long.
Although not many people believed her explanation, at least the goal of fame she set before going on the show was achieved. With her own topicality, she has participated in several popular variety shows in a row, such as "Very Quiet Distance" and so on.
She couldn't match her previous college major and acting, and even received an olive branch from the film and television industry. In 2011, she starred in the micro-film "Little Girl" and also released her first music album.
In March of the following year, she participated in the popular movie "Chunjiao and Zhiming" at the time, collaborated with superstars such as Yue Wenle and Miriam Yeung, and released her second album a few months later.
In just five years, Mano has appeared in a total of 16 films and TV series. As long as there is an opportunity to make money, Mano can be said to be the one who comes, and he does not think about what suits him at all.
Because she was originally famous for her image as a "money worshipper", most of the roles she played were set in the same frame - dressed up in a fancy way, with only money in her eyes.
It was not until 2016 that netizens began to have aesthetic fatigue with the homogeneous roles performed by Ma Nuo. At this time, the Internet has been much more developed than six years ago, and a large number of new netizens have poured in, and Ma Nuo's remarks six years ago have been turned out by everyone.
Netizens have made a lot of abuse of her money-worshipping remarks and her behavior of making money by relying on her popularity in recent years. In addition, the major unscrupulous media contributed to it, and even spread rumors about Major's large-scale photos.
In the end, Mano was criticized by the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television, and the movie scene in which he had a cameo was deleted. Due to the sharp decrease in the number of notices she could receive, she herself could not stand these online violence, so she announced her retirement from the entertainment industry.
In January 2023, Mano married her husband, Mr. Liu. However, just eight months later, the two returned to Beijing, where their hukou was located, to sue for divorce.
In October 2023, Mr. Liu preemptively broke the news to the media, saying that Mano's "money worship" nature has not changed.
Mr. Liu said that he had swiped more than 200,000 gifts in Mano's live broadcast room before marriage, and after the two got married, he not only transferred a property in his name to Mano, but also lent her 270,000 yuan.
However, Mano has a very high desire to control his social connections and financial accounts, and he is short-tempered, and once the two quarrel, Mano will lose contact and block all of Mr. Liu's contact information.
Mr. Liu claimed that he had done a lot to save this precarious marriage, and even suffered from depression as a result, and once committed suicide by cutting his wrists.
But at the same time, Mano insisted on a different story. In January 2024, she posted a public response on Weibo and listed evidence, saying that she did not cheat on her marriage, let alone borrow money from her husband.
Ma Nuo not only didn't get any money from Mr. Liu, but also helped him pay off a debt of up to 1.6 million.
Not only did her husband not appreciate her sharing the ups and downs with him, but would beat and scold her when he was emotional, and in this marriage of just over half a year, Mano was abused by Mr. Liu as many as seven times.
While waiting for the trial, Mr. Liu continued to threaten and harass Ma Nuo for a long time, and also spread rumors and slander on the Internet. Mano also applied to the court for a writ of habeas corpus.
To this day, there has been no outcome in Mano's divorce case.
On the Internet, although there are still people who ridicule her for being self-inflicted, hypocritical and ignorant. But more netizens said that she had paid the price for her former youth and frivolity, and she also quit the entertainment industry, so she should no longer be everyone's after-dinner conversation.
In any case, we all hope that Ma Nuo's divorce farce can have a reasonable result as soon as possible, and we also hope that she can recognize her own direction in her future life, find the value of her life, and stop blindly pursuing fame, fortune and material enjoyment.