Children come to this world will gradually grow up, grow up, it can be said that this is the easiest thing in the world, as long as time does not stop, the basic material conditions are met, children can grow older, taller, weight gain, childhood, adolescence, youth... However, growth is not the same, in addition to natural growth, we refer more to the growth of psychology, cognitive growth, ability growth, spiritual growth and so on. Children are always an iceberg in our eyes, and we can only see a part of the water floating on the surface, a small part of the point, and their larger parts, more content are hidden under the surface of the water. The more the child grows, the more so it is, because he is an independent person, he has his own life environment and his own needs and ideas. Only by reading children can we provide better education and promote better growth of children. Of course, growth needs a process, growth will only be slow, the process of its growth will also be accompanied by a series of problems, children are under the guidance of education, in the slow solution of problems to achieve self-growth. Love children unconditionally, because they are still on the road to growing into angels.
China Daily Comics (Author: Hao Yanpeng)
The child is not yet an angel
The child is still on the road to becoming an angel, and he or she is not an angel yet. Since they are not angels, there will inevitably be some shortcomings and some problems, such as uncivilized behavior, violations of discipline and so on. Teachers in the new era should tolerate children's weaknesses, tolerate children's growing problems, and be able to understand and feel the subtlest motives and reasons for children's mistakes. That is, this is the fault of the child, it is a problem that arises in the growth, do not confuse the child with the adult, do not make those requirements for the adult to him... This is the real education, the real love for children, and the concern for children's growth.
Man is a symbolic animal. Only through education can we master symbols, have a spiritual life, and become a spiritual person in the true sense. People do not come to this world born with many abilities, calves and ponies will stand, walk, and run as soon as they are born, but human beings have to go through a long period of feeding to live independently. The vast majority of human abilities are formed and developed in acquired education. People also do not have the innate concept of right and wrong, the ability to judge values, and the pursuit of ideals and beliefs, all of which need to be cast by the education of the day after tomorrow. The common goal of family education, school education and social education is to cultivate people with sound personality, physical and mental health, rich spirit, mission and lifelong growth.
Cherish life and enjoy life. The most difficult thing in the world to learn is how to cherish life and enjoy life. Of all the shortcomings of a child, the most serious is the contempt for life. What is the meaning of life? Where does life come from? What is the responsibility, mission, and happiness of life? How to cherish life and enjoy life? Wait a minute. Family education and school education must attach great importance to the education of life, enthusiastically organize sports activities, cultivate more than one sports hobby, develop the habit of lifelong exercise, and extend the length of life; stimulate the interest and passion for learning, enhance their own knowledge and ability, and broaden the breadth of life; actively guide children to establish a correct outlook on life, values, and world outlook, stimulate the pursuit of ideals, enrich spiritual connotations, and enhance the height of life; cultivate the feelings of loving the party, loving the motherland, loving the people, loving life, loving art, and loving labor. Enhance the happiness of life. When life has a length, width, height, and happiness, children will enjoy the joy of life, feel the meaning of life, and cherish the value of life.
You love the child as a person
Loving every child is the responsibility of a teacher. Children are the hope of a family, the future of the motherland, and the strength of the nation to take off. Loving every child is the most basic emotion of teachers engaged in education, the starting point of education, the destination of education, and the touchstone for testing teachers' professional ethics. Teachers should become the child's most solid arm, listen to the child's inner words, let him be truly happy, let him gradually overcome his own character weaknesses in happiness, and let the child grow naturally in the world of love, grow by himself, grow freely, and grow consciously in the world of love.
Unconditional love for every child is a teacher's feeling. No teacher will say that he does not love children, but many times we may not realize whether we love the child as a living person, or the score of the child, the performance of the child, and so on. Because this score and performance are related to their own assessment, and the assessment results are related to their own performance and promotion, of course, it is also related to their own face and so on. If you love a child only because of good grades and good performance, then this is not real teacher love at all, not noble love, but utilitarian love, short-sighted love. If it must be said to be "love", it is also the teacher's "love" for himself, "love" for his own interests. Teachers must have a sense of professional ethics, you love the child as a person, not his grades and performance, let alone his future status. The more problematic the child, the more risky, the more need for sufficient attention and cultivation; the more difficult the learning of children, the more inferior, the more need for help and motivation. The icing on the cake is beautiful, and the charcoal in the snow is even more noble. Unconditionally fall in love with each child, constantly give children the strength of the spirit, and promote the child's comprehensive growth, healthy growth, happy growth, and sustained growth.
Teachers should strive to be role models for their children's lives. Teachers teach by example every day, accompanying and watching over the growth of children. The impact of teachers on students is enormous, even lifelong. The teacher is the teacher of the child's life, the teacher will naturally become the child's role model, what kind of person the role model is, the child is likely to become what kind of person. The teacher's words and deeds will silently penetrate into the child's heart, and will affect the way the child behaves, learns, and lives. For children who lack ideals, teachers should use their own ideals to ignite the fire of children's ideals; for children who pursue ideals, teachers should use their own passion for education to make the fire of children's ideals burn more vigorously.
Motivate children to grow in love
Give your child a happy childhood. People with humanity are bright, and education with humanity is bright. Earnestly take the child to live every day together, and strive to let the child learn life with great interest invisibly every day, and leave a beautiful and unforgettable story for the child's childhood. Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, once warned educators not to discriminate against students who performed badly and had poor grades: there was Watt under your teaching whip, Newton in your cold eyes, and Edison in your ridicule. Mr. Tao emphasizes here that the untapped and hidden unlimited potential of children should not be ignored. But as teachers, we must not understand that only the children who will become Watt or Edison in the future deserve our respect and love. The love of teachers needs to be sprinkled on every corner of the classroom, so that every child can feel the education with temperature and warm the hearts of every child. I think of Sukhomlinsky's first suggestion in his One Hundred Suggestions for Teachers, which is to remember: "There are no and no abstract students", and the emphasis is on "knowing people, knowing people". Teachers should know every child, understand every child, strive to read every child, truly love every child, give every child hope, and motivate every child to grow up happily.
Let education bathe in the glory of humanity. Let us treat every child kindly, treat the child as a real person, actively guide the child to establish a correct outlook on life, promote their personality, exert their potential, and become a better self. Every child in our classroom is, first and foremost, a living individual. We should consider from the perspective of appreciating life, first of all, how to help him become a social person from a natural person, a person with physical and mental health, a person with ideals, passion, wisdom and responsibility, a person who can integrate into society and be welcomed, a person who taps his potential to promote different personalities, and a person who can grow for life. In life, it is a blessing to have children; it is a blessing to be able to become a teacher-student relationship with children and accompany children through a good time; and it is the greatest blessing in life to create an education suitable for each child's development, help each child grow better, and cultivate better people for the new era.
Create beauty in the persistence of education. Teachers are like chefs, skillfully matching and scientifically cooking these selected materials. As a result, the same raw materials, after different processing and creation processes, will produce different delicacies. The role of teachers is not only to spread the good that has existed, but also to create the good things of the new students. Teaching is that we will create these foods, not only for ourselves to taste, but also more for others. In this process of teaching and learning, through sharing, sharing, impacting, and creating, we make ourselves physically and mentally strong, and at the same time make more children strong. The process of education is a process of teachers and students growing together, and it is a beautiful journey. In this way, a beautiful and attractive education can make everyone feel the consummation of yesterday when the next circle is drawn on the annual ring, and stand at a new starting point with satisfaction to innovate education! To create a better future for children!
Let every child become an angel
Only the growth of the teacher can bring about the growth of the child. Growing up is not the same as growing. Growing up is related to the body, it is related to years. Growth is about the heart, it's about learning, it's about the spirit, it's not about time. As a teacher in the new era, no matter what stage of your educational career you are in, you need to continue to grow. Growth is a responsibility, but also a mission entrusted by the times, because only the growth of teachers can bring about the growth of children, and only by cultivating the habits and abilities of children's lifelong growth can we shoulder the burden and mission of the future. Learning also has objective laws and can span different age groups at the same time. An old teacher can also be as curious and charismatic as a child, dare to challenge authority, and have his own independent opinions. It can also be very innocent, very childlike, very enthusiastic, very creative, not affected by the world, passionate and scrappy. Teachers should embrace growth, sing about growth, and grow forever!
Teachers need to set an example in their hearts. A good teacher has his own example in his own growth process, and he has his own model - like Confucius, like Yu Yi, like Li Jilin... In this way, we ourselves can continue to move forward. Any action to pursue a dream is a rewrite of reality, an act of breaking habits, and of course there will be resistance. As educators, we are engaged in the work of spreading the good and creating the good, and if we can turn the spread of the good into a profession and an instinct, our efforts will be more effective with half the effort. Teachers should also be kind to themselves, and the real kindness to themselves is to cherish time, relax and make people rich. Discover the charm of the teacher profession, be a person who is good at enjoying educational life; cultivate healthier and richer hobbies, be a person with a taste for life; grow up with students, be a person who constantly forges ahead and surpasses in the process of education; constantly challenges the highest peak of self, and is a person who creates miracles and writes legends of life.
Dream-building children become angels. Every child is a living, so different being, they do not come because of us, they come because of the desire for life. "Moisturizing things silently", education is a thing that does not have to be rushed, to adhere to the faith, to give children a happy childhood, to let children develop in all aspects of morality, intellectual, physical and aesthetic work, to wait for flowers to bloom, to firmly believe that children can eventually become angels, which is the teacher's greatest respect for children. Children are free, freedom needs guidance, needs to establish rules, needs civilized upbringing, and needs the love of teachers; but we must not control the child's life in the name of love, we must use sincere love, rational love, wisdom love, and artistic love to awaken the child's inner self-consciousness, activate the child's inner potential, and let each child open a flower of his own with his heart.
Loving children, unconditionally, giving children a smile, giving children warmth, giving children delicate and selfless love, this is the responsibility and mission of teachers in the new era; wisdom loves every child, gives children expectations, gives children inspiration, and gives children noble and broad love, which is the innovation and dedication of teachers in the new era. Day by year, accompanying growth, watching the years, one day, children will become our proud angels!