Marriage is sacred, a good marriage should end from one, and the two go through this life hand in hand, rather than parting ways for various reasons on the way.
In the besieged city of marriage, no one can get happiness casually, only serious management will get it.
If you keep prevaricating with marriage, then you will naturally get the punishment of marriage.
Compared with passion, long time together, is the most important.
It is true that passion is important in marriage, but when the passion is over, you will find that a marriage sustained by passion simply cannot go far.
The most important thing about marriage is the long stream.
If you want to have a happy marriage for a long time, both husband and wife must do these two things, otherwise the marriage will be particularly painful.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >01: Respect and appreciate each other</h1>
We all marry with a beautiful purpose, but the road to marriage is not an endless plain, it has many gullies and ravines, so in marriage, it is important for both husband and wife to respect and appreciate each other.
If it were not for the program "Happiness Trio", we may not find out how harmonious the marriage between Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie is, they are old husbands and wives, the passion has long passed, and the reason why they can come to the present is because of mutual respect.
In a couple relationship, if you know how to respect your partner, then the other half will naturally give you the best feedback.
In the program, Zhang Guoli practiced words, Deng Jie came to join in the fun, originally she could not write well, but Zhang Guoli still satisfied her, respected her, let her write, Deng Jie wrote for a while and then got bored.
Soon she went out, and not only that, she also let Zhang Guoli out. Although Zhang Guoli was very reluctant, because of respect and love for his wife, he still agreed.
The two of them wandered outside, letting us see the appearance of a happy marriage, and it turned out that a happy marriage was really not complicated, as long as we were careful.
After walking, Zhang Guoguo, who hardly cooks at home, makes breakfast, and Deng Jie rests and meditates, but because Zhang Guoli has not cooked before, he is not familiar with these links, he has been asking Deng Jie, and Deng Jie has been patiently answering.
Imagine what would happen if we had such a problem in our lives?
When your partner keeps asking you what you think is something very simple, what will you do, I believe that most of them have already been angry, and even say that the other party is original, which is disrespectful in the end.
But they didn't have it at all, they got along very well, and we couldn't see Deng Jie's impatience at all, and it turned out that this was the secret of marital happiness.
In our married life, many people feel that marriage should be full of passion, of course, this is indeed very important, but after the passion?
What are we going to do, whether the marriage will continue or not, we can't let the marriage always be in passion.
Most marriages in this world are actually the same, it all depends on how we manage, if the management is good, then it is a good feeling, if the management is not good, then it will naturally fall into pain.
In marriage, mutual respect is really important, if there is respect, marriage can be happy for a long time, without respect then marriage is the most likely to break down.
After getting along for a long time, it is inevitable that you will find contradictions in each other, we are not perfect, so we must learn to be more tolerant, you feel that your partner has a bunch of problems, maybe the other party still thinks you have a bunch of problems.
Only by mutual tolerance can the marriage continue and be happier.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" >02: Learn to reflect and communicate in a timely manner</h1>
A writer once said:
In my life, there were a hundred thoughts of divorce, and fifty urges to strangle each other.
This is deeply true.
Love is sweet, but marriage is different, love is simple, marriage is complicated.
Two strangers from acquaintance to acquaintance, never recognize each other for a lifetime, this is indeed not a simple thing, even so, then there is nothing, as long as you learn to reflect, timely communication is enough.
There was a friend who used to argue with her husband a lot, we thought her marriage was coming to an end, but we didn't expect her marriage to be very happy, we asked her the secret book.
The friend laughed and said:
"Where are the secrets, we just know how to reflect and will communicate in time."
Seeing that we were confused, my friend told me about their way of getting along.
Between husband and wife. There is no one who does not quarrel.
However, if after a quarrel, each does not communicate, then the marriage will fall into a painful mode, naturally missing out with happiness.
Although friends often quarrel with their husbands, after each quarrel, they will not not speak, but reflect on what is the reason for the quarrel, so as to avoid it next time.
Because the communication is particularly timely, there is not much estrangement between them.
Even if it is a quarrel, the feelings do not change much, but in the quarrel, the feelings become stronger.
In married life, it is really important to know how to communicate in a timely manner.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >03: Conclusion</h1>
In "The Great Inner Secret Agent Zero Zero Hair" played by Liu Jialing and Zhou Xingchi, the two will often quarrel over some things, but quarrelsome, Liu Jialing said:
"If you're not hungry, I'll cook you a bowl of noodles to eat."
After this sentence was said, the relationship between the two suddenly eased up a lot, and quarrels in marriage were inevitable, but as long as you know how to repair, then it will be long-lasting.
The rest of your life is not long, may you know how to respect each other in your marriage, and communicate with each other in time if there is a problem, if you do this, it is difficult to be happy in marriage.