#婚恋手册 #
I once when I and my husband were married for nearly seven years, once fell into a state of extreme anxiety, not for our love has no confidence, but in this information age, open the mobile phone can see some bad news, such as so-and-so star divorced, so-and-so star cheated, etc., it is strange that people small two people often high-profile show love before, as if afraid that others do not know, and now announced divorce, feel that this face is not a general ring. In addition, some of the friends around me are also there, and some of the children are in junior high school, and in the end they still can't get rid of the fate of divorce! So during that time, I was extremely insecure and quite sensitive.
Fortunately, now that we have been married for ten years, although with the precipitation of time, we will no longer put love on our lips anytime and anywhere, but all love is reflected in various details in life! Knowing that he was afraid of the cold and that the temperature dropped a little, I would remind him to take his coat and go out. Knowing that he has a habit of drinking in the summer, he will put the wine in the refrigerator and refrigerate it before he leaves work. Sometimes there are unpleasant things at work, even if he doesn't say it, I can guess it, because I love him, so I know his joys and sorrows. Sometimes I can even know what he is going to say or do next. I used to joke with him that I was a roundworm in his stomach, so if I had any bad thoughts behind my back, I wouldn't be able to hide from my eyes! He would give me a cold look and tap my head with his finger, without words, but I could feel that this was still the same person I had known more than a decade earlier.
What I didn't expect was that more than a decade later, we tacitly agreed to read each other in one eye. He would bring me my favorite snacks on the way home from work after receiving a message from me, and would also call me before going out to socialize and tell me that if I sent him a message halfway through, he would return the video to me and let me see who was next to me. These habits have been maintained from love to now. It turns out that the love after marriage is no longer the mountain alliance and sea oath made when he was young and crazy, but he is used to the days of each other's company, the so-called seven-year itch, scratching will pass!
In fact, the "seven-year itch" is all in people's hearts, if people change, feelings change, even if it does not take seven years, it will come to an end, so time is not the real reason to defeat love. There is a saying that love needs freshness, and freshness is never about doing old things with new people, but doing new things with old people! We don't have to fear the "seven-year itch", as long as we meet the person who knows your cold and warm, understands your sadness and joy, then there is no "seven-year itch", only seventy years of warmth. If you meet such a person, you deserve the rest of your life, may you have a tacit understanding with each other, go through a thousand sails, and still be able to accompany each other!
The enviable love is never how vigorous the love is, but after many years, the sideburns are white, and the person next to the pillow is still you!
Time is quiet and junyu, fine water lingers with Juntong, and prosperity ends with Junlao!
At the end of the article, what I want to tell you is that the "seven-year itch" is just a cheat in people's hearts, as long as it is a person who really loves each other, they can unravel this cheat, so everyone must have confidence in their own love and have confidence in your love. Then there is the fact that married life will become flat over time, so you should remember to keep it fresh, I think freshness is much more important than ritual. I wish all lovers will eventually become dependents!