Wu Yuehong, the only daughter of the Wu family, is deeply loved by her parents, if she marries better, Wu Yuehong's life is almost perfect.
No woman can be carefree after marriage, and do not have to worry about the tedious affairs of her in-laws' family. Compared with Xu Fengqiao, who is in charge of a large family, and Lin Shaochun, who worries about the Sun family, Wu Yuehong, as the eldest daughter-in-law, is really much luckier.
But these are not the life she really wants, try to ask no woman is willing to accept a loveless marriage, what Wu Yuehong really needs is not carefree, but Sun Shijie's love.
On this point, her marriage was bumpy and embarrassing, and it brought great harm to the process of her life.
If you love too much, you will lose yourself
Wu Yuehong is the simplest of the four concubines, but her marriage is the most unsatisfactory.
Su Yingxue was separated from her husband on the second day of marriage, and even a letter was not passed for three years, and she was called the worst woman in "Yulou Spring".
But I think Wu Yuehong is also very sad, after marriage, even if her husband does not love her, he always belittles her openly and secretly. In Sun Shijie's eyes, she simply looked down on Wu Yuehong and was not feminine, which prevented Sun Shijie from being interested in her.
I have to say that when you get married, you must find someone who is happy with each other in order to get more happiness. Those one-way feelings always have to experience an unforgettable period of grief.
Sun Shijie didn't like Wu Yuehong, even if she tried hard to show herself, she couldn't enter his heart. Sun Shijie used his favorite type to ask Wu Yuehong, and Wu Yuehong's origin doomed her to never meet his requirements.
In fact, if Wu Yuehong didn't love her husband like Su Yingxue, she might have a better life. Su Yingxue will betray her marriage precisely because she does not love Sun Junhao, Wu Yuehong is just the opposite of her, Wu Yuehong loves Sun Shijie more than herself.
In this one-way marriage, Wu Yuehong's efforts were trampled on by Sun Shijie, who knelt in front of her and begged his parents to take a concubine, holding another woman and leaving, leaving Wu Yuehong with a decisive back, even if she cried to the ground, Sun Shijie was not distressed at all.
This is probably the saddest picture in the relationship between men and women. Even so, Wu Yuehong still did not hate Sun Shijie, she could not accept that Sun Shijie loved other women was one thing, but her heart for him was still genuine.
Wu Yuehong loves Sun Shijie so much that she loses herself, and she will study hard until she sees him turn around indifferently and give everything for other women.
Love to a desperate situation only reborn
Sun Shijie broke with the family and lost his official position for the sake of Taoyao, all at all costs, what an affectionate love.
And he never thought about how Wu Yuehong should live the rest of his life after he left, even if he didn't like it, she was his wife, so it was reasonable, Sun Shijie shouldn't be like this.
Just when we all thought that Wu Yuehong, who loved Sun Shijie to the bone, would be sad and sad because of Sun Shijie's love for Taoyao, she would be sluggish, but the result was unexpected.
Probably there is no way out, love to a desperate situation, only rebirth, change the tragedy.
Seriously, Sun Shijie's fault this time was great, but his departure actually taught Wu Yuehong to grow up. Without Sun Shijie, Wu Yuehong can still drink tea and chat with the concubines, she used to treat Sun Shijie as her own, and by this time, she also found that no one could not live without anyone.
It seems to be left behind, but Wu Yuehong has unlocked a new charter for life, she teaches those weak people martial arts, gives full play to her own specialties, and uses her ability to help more people, which is a very meaningful thing.
Before, Wu Yuehong was trapped by marriage and did not see through life, but now she has found that life is not only love, there are more valuable things that need her to do.
However, in Wu Yuehong's body, there is still a big pattern lurking, she did not complain because of the misfortune of marriage, did not hate Sun Shijie, and saw Sun Shijie secretly helping out selling calligraphy and paintings on the street.
Although a big reason is that she still loves Sun Shijie, she has not lost the pattern of being a person. Wu Yuehong didn't know that Sun Shijie's money from selling paintings would be given to Taoyaohua, but she didn't care about this, she just didn't want to see Sun Shijie too difficult.
As she said: "Although he doesn't want to live with me, but I also hope that he lives freely, since he was a child, he has been the spoiled son of the old man and wife, and he has not suffered much, marrying me is greatly wronged, and now he has found someone he likes, I am willing to fulfill him, but seeing that he is not doing well, I can't stand by and watch." ”
Saying this, Wu Yuehong's heart must be more uncomfortable than ever, but as she said, she can be fulfilled, but she can't stand by and watch the man she loves suffer.
This is the realm that only a woman with a large pattern can have.
Live yourself
Falling in love with a man who does not love himself is the greatest sorrow in life, and it is not worth being sad for this man.
However, there are still so many women in the world, for a love word, let themselves hurt to the end, which seems to be a tragedy that cannot be changed from ancient times to the present.
In fact, in a woman's life, there is not only love, but also family affection and friendship, which we need to pay, and we have our own life path to take. If you see through this, when you are hurt by love, you will heal quickly.
Wu Yuehong is sad for Sun Shijie, but she heals herself quickly, not that she doesn't love deeply enough, but she sees through life.
She used her own big pattern to complete Sun Shijie and Taoyao. Is it worth it, Wu Yuehong didn't think about this, she was originally a person who didn't care about gains and losses.
But Wu Yuehong is fortunate to regain her life after regaining herself, living not so tired, in this tragedy, Wu Yuehong redeemed herself. In life, you should do meaningful things to make yourself feel worthwhile.
Therefore, women must remember: love someone again, do not lose yourself, your life is sometimes more precious than loving someone, because some men are not necessarily worth your efforts.
Do not complain about yesterday's sorrows, but only rejoice in tomorrow's happiness
Wu Yuehong's heart is very big, not that she can't understand Sun Shijie, but she can tolerate all joys, angers and sorrows.
Her marriage is so unhappy, exchange sincerity for ruthlessness, she can still face it with a smile. She did not blame anyone, but accepted all the pathos that fate had given her.
Wu Yuehong is a woman worthy of a man's sincere love, she may not be a gentle and virtuous woman, but she is a very kind woman.
She does not harm others, only helps others, and will rejoice in the joy of others. Look at your own life: do not complain about yesterday's sorrows, only rejoice in tomorrow's happiness.
The fulfillment of Sun Shijie and Taoyao further highlights Wu Yuehong's big pattern, she did not continue to make trouble, but started her life again, such women are ultimately loved by men.