With the change of the times, "traffic actor" has become a hot word, and everyone has mixed praise for actors, believing that only those who have professional ability to resist can be called actors.
However, there is no shortage of excellent actors in the show business circle, and Guo Jinglin is one of them, and he has played many large and small roles over the years.
Like "Yuan Longping", "New Bright Sword" and so on are very classic film and television works, he is low-key on weekdays, only thinking about acting well, so he has also been respected by many people.
However, along the way, his career seems to be moving forward steadily, but there is also a sad experience behind it, and it has been 13 years since his wife's death, and he has never thought of remarrying.
Ask what the world's situation is, maybe when you walk into Guo Jinglin's life, you can find the answer.
Guo Jinglin was born in an ordinary family in Beijing, the family is not very rich, but it is also warm and happy, and later with the birth of her sister, the original family is happily greeting the arrival of this new life.
But no one could have imagined that her sister was born with mental retardation, and there were complications, and the family was like a thunderbolt on a sunny day after learning the news, but no one was willing to give up.
In this way, in order to treat her sister, her parents almost spent all the family's savings, almost all the hospitals she could go to, and her mother quit her job to take care of her sister wholeheartedly.
Because of his sister's illness, his parents gave almost all their energy to his sister, and naturally there was less time to pay attention to him.
However, Guo Jinglin did not complain at all, and at a young age, he was very sensible, took the initiative to help his parents share the housework, and also took on the responsibility of taking care of his sister.
Although life was more difficult at that time, it was fortunate that Tong Xin had always been with him, the two had been green plum bamboo horses since childhood, and Tong Xin also brought a lot of happiness to Guo Jinglin's childhood.
At that time, Guo Jinglin's home was near Beijing Renyi, and sometimes he would play with his friends on the stage in the Renyi Courtyard, and gradually planted a seed of drama actors in his heart.
After slowly growing up, Guo Jinglin became more and more obsessed with performance, so he expressed his thoughts to his parents, and at first his parents strongly opposed it, thinking that there was not much of a future, or it was better to be a soldier.
But in the matter of being an actor, Guo Jinglin was very insistent, and later his parents could only promise to let him try it, just when he was in high school, he saw the news of recruiting actors.
Guo Jinglin did not think much about deciding to try the water, he had no acting experience, he seemed a little rusty during the interview, coupled with his nervousness, originally thought that there would be no more following.
Fortunately, the interviewer thought that he was a very potential person, and as long as he trained and studied, he could participate, which meant that he was selected.
At the age of 16, he starred in his first film, "The Company of Previtticher", which also strengthened his conviction and believed that the path he wanted to take was not wrong.
However, his father always thought that he was not doing his job, always saying that he was not in tune, fortunately, at that time he had the support of Tong Xin, and slowly the feelings between them quietly changed.
From the green plum bamboo horse to the lover relationship, they became each other's first love, is the most beautiful look of love, at that time Guo Jinglin was full of spirit, it seems that their future has been grasped in their hands.
He also worked hard for it, and later was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy, which meant that he and Tong Xin were going to start a long-distance relationship, at which time Guo Jinglin began to hesitate.
He was afraid of breaking his love because he went to pursue his dream, and Tong Xin also saw his hesitation, so he gave him a reassuring pill to let him rest assured that he would realize his dream, and Tong Xin would always wait for him.
Tong Xin has always been empathetic, and when Guo Jinglin encountered difficulties and wanted to retreat, she has always silently encouraged him, which has also become a kind of spiritual sustenance for him and a driving force for him to move forward.
During his school years, Guo Jinglin worked very hard, so that one day after completing his studies, he could bear the burden of the family and be able to marry Tong Xin as a wife.
However, tiangong was not beautiful, in his junior year, his mother's body was not as good as a day, Guo Jinglin was very worried, so he decided to return home to take care of his mother.
Guo Jinglin felt very sorry for his mother, and he had not really filial piety to his mother since he was a child, so he wanted to buy a coat for his mother on the way home.
At that time, he really did not have any financial resources and could not borrow any money, so he went to the hospital to draw a tube of blood himself and got 400 yuan to buy a dress for his mother.
However, when he returned home, he found that his mother's condition was no longer optimistic, and it was not long after that, her mother's condition began to deteriorate, and she was eventually isolated from the world forever.
The mother's departure has left the family in tatters, the father has lost the strength of the past, relying on alcohol to numb himself every day, and the sister on the other side still needs to be taken care of.
So Guo Jinglin had the idea of dropping out of school and wanted to go home to take care of his sister, Tong Xin was heartbroken after learning about it, but said that Guo Jinglin should not give up his studies, after all, there was still a year to graduate.
As for the family affairs, let him not worry, so Tong Xin took on the heavy responsibility of taking care of his sister, and Guo Jinglin returned to school to continue to complete his studies, which Guo Jinglin was very touched, and Tong Xin has become a family imprinted in his heart.
Carrying the burden of the whole family, and not wanting to live up to Tong Xin's expectations, Guo Jinglin worked harder in school, and the school teachers also loved him very much, and he also became the key training object of the teachers.
After graduating from university, he was admitted to the China Youth Theater with excellent results and became a very professional drama actor.
Guo Jinglin was very happy, and with a job, he could give his family a good life, but what he did not expect was that on the day he was going to report, he found that the theater was being rebuilt, so his work was temporarily shelved.
Before he had a formal job, he held 198.5 to make ends meet, and in order to save money, he tightened his pants and belt every day.
After a period of time, he was invited by the crew of "The Woman Who Walked the Gobi" to co-star with Ding Jiali and Du Zhiguo, and this drama also became the key for him to enter the show business circle.
After this drama, he also made a name for himself in the show business circle, and successively filmed some film and television dramas, but there has been no fire, and with some income, he feels that it is time to give Tong Xin an explanation.
So in 2002, he proposed to Tong Xin and married his beloved woman back home, their married life was very happy, and Tong Xin also became the woman behind him, silently supporting him.
It is also under the nourishment of this happiness that Guo Jinglin's acting career began to improve, not only as a director and directed "Wang Ji Food Stalls", but also played a leading role in many film and television dramas, and his reputation became famous for a time.
With countless fans in the superb acting circle, his career is getting better and better, and his time at home is getting less and less, but Tong Xin has never complained, but he understands him very well and lets him take care of his body.
Guo Jinglin thanked Tong Xin from the bottom of his heart for his efforts, so as long as he had free time, he would go home to accompany his wife, and when everything was developing in a good direction, fate tricked him.
Five years after marriage, they had their first child, and Guo Jinglin was very happy, and during that time, he held Tong Xin like a baby, afraid of bumping.
Just when the two were immersed in the atmosphere of joy, the heavens made a big joke to them, and Tong Xin was diagnosed with breast cancer during the obstetric examination, and the child needed to be beaten up for treatment.
This news immediately made Guo Jinglin fall into the abyss, between his wife and children he did not hesitate to choose his wife, and it was at this time that the "Yuan Longping" crew found Guo Jinglin and let him play "Yuan Lao".
But looking at his wife in front of him, he really couldn't leave, so he pushed away this hard-won opportunity, and Tong Xin kept enlightening him after learning about it, repeatedly promising him that he would cooperate with the treatment, and even threatened him by giving up the treatment.
Guo Jinglin also knew his wife's good intentions, so he took it, in the crew he was worried about his wife all the time, fortunately, the shooting time before and after was not long, and Tong Xin, who had improved, relapsed again after Guo Jinglin's shooting.
This time Tong Xin's illness became more and more serious, and finally he could not defeat the disease and passed away forever, and Guo Jinglin just watched his beloved person leave in his arms, and for a while he was so sad that he could not help himself.
The departure of his wife hit him hard, and from this moment on he felt that he had lost everything, that time he did not want to go out, and could not come out of his sadness for a long time.
A few months later, he won the "Yuan Longping" Huabiao Award for Best Actor, and when he delivered the acceptance speech, he choked up several times, "I hope my mother and wife can come to see him."
This joy of success he could not share with Tong Xin, even if the career was successful and won the awards that countless people wanted, but he still felt empty.
Without his wife's company, he became less talkative, rarely saw him except for his daily shooting, and people around him kept saying that he was looking for another companion.
In this regard, Guo Jinglin just smiled and said, "It is enough to have Tong Xin in this life, my heart is not big, I can only hold one person", just like this, in the more than ten years since Tong Xin left, he has always been alone.
Now 52 years old, he still chooses to spend a lot of time filming, perhaps only to keep himself busy will not feel lonely, his preference for Tong Xin has touched countless people, which may be the most beautiful look of love