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Lu Liping and her son Zhang Boyu
Lu Liping is a well-known acting actress, has been popular for more than 30 years, she starred in "The Story of the Editorial Department", "The Year of the Dragon Police Officer", "The Years of Burning Passion", "Bigfoot Horse Queen", "Shi Guangrong and His Children" and a series of film and television masterpieces.
Lu Liping has won the Audience Favorite Actress Award of the Golden Eagle Award of Chinese Television, the Best Actress Award of the "Feitian Award" of Chinese TV Drama, and the Best Actress Award of the "Golden Horse Award" of Taiwan Film. The Beijing Qunxing Performing Arts School, which she founded, has trained a large number of film and television performing talents.
Lu Liping had two failed marriages, and in December 1999, she remarried her son Zhang Boyu with the famous football player Tao Wei. In August 2001, the two went through divorce procedures.
Now That Lu Liping and Tao Wei have been divorced for 21 years, she has married the famous actor Sun Haiying for three years and harvested belated happiness. And Tao Wei's fate is very tragic, making people feel sad and sigh...
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Young Lu Liping
Lü Liping was born in Beijing on April 3, 1960, the son of a historian of the Chinese Academy of Social Sciences and a doctor mother. Lü Liping has 3 brothers and sisters, she has an older brother named Lu Xiaogang above her, and a younger brother below.
Although Lu Liping is not beautiful in appearance, she has outstanding literary and artistic talents and has always been the backbone of the school's literature and art.
In 1977, Lü Liping's older brother Lü Xiaogang was admitted to the acting department of the Beijing Film Academy and became a classmate of Zhang Fengyi.
Lü Xiaogang has a very strong relationship with Zhang Fengyi and often invites Zhang Fengyi to play at home. Zhang Fengyi came from Yunnan, his family was in Kunming, and he often went to Lu Xiaogang's house to rub rice.
Zhang Fengyi, who is 1.76 meters tall, looks handsome and has a masculine temperament, and Lu Liping fell in love with him at first sight.
Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi
Lu Liping was 4 years younger than Zhang Fengyi and was a high school student at the time. Because of her admiration for Zhang Fengyi, in 1980 she was ready to apply for the Beijing Film Academy, and if she could become Zhang Fengyi's little sister, love would be much smoother.
Who knew that there was no enrollment in nortel's acting department that year, and Lu Liping was admitted to the acting department of the Central Academy of Drama.
Zhang Fengyi is a straight man of steel and will not be courteous to girls, especially a girl like Lu Liping, who is not outstanding, and is not included in his love category at all.
In 1981, when Zhang Fengyi was about to graduate from college, Lu Liping begged her brother to be a matchmaker for herself. Lu Xiaogang also has a good impression of Zhang Fengyi and intends to complete his sister.
Lu Xiaogang said bluntly to Zhang Fengyi: How about I introduce you to a girlfriend? Zhang Fengyi asked: Who? Lu Xiaogang replied: My sister.
Young Zhang Fengyi
Zhang Fengyi did not express his position, but only asked: Are you such a brother? The brother gave feedback on Zhang Fengyi's attitude to Lu Liping, and she not only did not flinch, but stubbornly came up: I must catch up with Zhang Fengyi!
Lu Liping is very good in the Chinese Opera Acting Department, and often has directors come to the school to invite her to go out to shoot. But Lu Liping refused, because there were only 6 girls in the class, and many male students rehearsed sketches to find her to play, if Lu Liping went out to shoot film and television dramas, they could not rehearse sketches.
Interestingly, at that time, the whole class of boys also held a meeting, and all raised their hands to vote, not allowing Lu Liping to go out to shoot a scene.
Therefore, Lu Liping is very confident in the business and feels that she will not lose to Zhang Fengyi.
Poster for the movie Shoko the Camel
Stills of Zhang Fengyi's "Camel Xiangzi"
In 1981, after graduating from university, Zhang Fengyi was assigned to work at the Emei Film Studio in Sichuan.
Before graduating from college, Zhang Fengyi starred in the movie "Camel Xiangzi". In 1982, the film was released nationwide, and Zhang Fengyi became famous in one fell swoop.
This made Lu Liping a little anxious: Zhang Fengyi was handsome and had such a good career, and she was worried about being pried away by other girls.
So Lu Liping often asked her brother about Zhang Fengyi's situation, and learned that Zhang Fengyi did not talk about his girlfriend, so she relaxed her heart.
In May 1984, Lu Liping performed the graduation drama "Wilderness". In this drama, Lu Liping played the heroine "Jinzi", she deliberately left a ticket, and entrusted her brother to give it to Zhang Fengyi.
"Ge Ling" and "Li Dongbao" in "The Story of the Editorial Department"
At that time, Zhang Fengyi was filming in Beijing, and Lu Liping was worried that he would not come, and specifically instructed her brother to "escort" him to the scene.
Zhang Fengyi did not let Lu Xiaogang "hold" and rushed over by car.
After watching Lu Liping's performance in "The Wilderness", Zhang Fengyi was completely calmed: this is a rare good actor!
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At the end of the performance, Zhang Fengyi took the initiative to present flowers to Lu Liping and praised her for acting well. Lu Liping asked with disgust: Will you still underestimate me? I'm not a little girl, I'm a college graduate.
In the cotton alley near the Chinese opera, Lu Liping recounted her love for Zhang Fengyi over the years and the hardships she had to pay for his career.
Young Zhang Fengyi
Zhang Fengyi was touched by her fiery love, and the two established a romantic relationship.
In June 1984, after graduating from university, Lu Liping was assigned to work at the Shanghai Film Studio.
In 1987, Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi held a simple wedding in Shanghai. After marriage, in order to end the separation of the two places, Zhang Fengyi was transferred from Emei Film Studio to Shanghai Film Studio.
On January 26, 1988, Lü Liping gave birth to her son Zhang Boyu in Beijing. The mother-in-law is far away in Kunming, Yunnan, and it is the mother who takes care of Lu Liping's confinement.
Lu Liping has a strong personality, Zhang Fengyi is cold and resolute, not much to say, and the personalities of the couple are very contrasting. When the passion fades away, personality differences and the distractions of life trivialities make Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi often stumble.
Lu Liping and her son
In 1991, Lu Liping and Zhang Fengyi went through divorce procedures, and she lived with her 3-year-old son Zhang Boyu.
After the divorce, Zhang Fengyi was transferred to the China Youth Art Theatre in Beijing.
In 1992, when 4-year-old Zhang Boyu was in kindergarten, Lu Liping wanted her son to go to school in Beijing because there were parents here to help take care of it.
In addition, Lü Liping is a northerner and does not adapt to the cold and wet winter in Shanghai, and in 1992, Lü Liping was also transferred to beijing to work at the China Youth Art Theater.
After the divorce, when Lu Liping went out to shoot a scene, she entrusted her son to her parents.
Lu Liping
In 1995, Lu Liping co-founded the Beijing Qunxing Performing Arts School with a friend, and she served as the principal.
Because of Lu Liping's golden signboard, the school does not worry about the source of students.
At the time of the divorce, Lu Liping was only 31 years old, and the kind people introduced her to the object, and Lu Liping was worried that her son would be hurt and never dared to accept it. However, at her age, without the nourishment of love, how cruel it was to her!
In March 1996, Lu Liping took her son to watch a basketball game at the Xiannongtan Gymnasium in Beijing. Under the introduction of friends, she met the football player Tao Wei.
Tao Wei was born in Beijing on January 11, 1966, six years younger than Lu Liping. His parents were ordinary people with two older sisters.
Lu Liping and Tao Wei
Tao Weiyuan is a defender of the Beijing football team, selected for the national youth team and has played in Tahiti. In 1994, Tao Wei transferred to the Sichuan Quanxing football team.
When he met Lu Liping, Tao Wei was preparing to retire. At that time, Zhang Boyu weighed 100 pounds when he was just 8 years old because of overeating and lack of exercise, becoming a small fat mound.
Tao Wei said to Lu Liping: Children who are so fat will affect physical development. A sentence touched the sore spot of Lu Liping, who has been worried about her son's obesity. She forced her son to diet to lose weight, and his son played cat-and-mouse games with her, often stealing snacks at home, resulting in weight rebound.
Tao Wei said enthusiastically: Give BoYu to me, and I will take him to run and lose weight. Lu Liping naturally couldn't ask for it.
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Tao Wei
A few days later, Tao Wei began to fulfill his promise, and he drove to Lu Liping's house at 5 o'clock every morning, and then took Zhang Boyu to run.
He took Zhang Boyu from Lu Liping's home to Xiangshan, coming and going for more than 20 miles.
Zhang Boyu couldn't run on the way, and Tao Wei inspired him. For the first week, zhang Boyu could not walk with sore legs after running, so Tao Wei carried him back to the car and then sent him home.
After 3 months, Zhang Boyu lost more than 10 pounds, and after 5 months, he lost more than 20 pounds in total.
After Zhang Boyu lost weight, he became cute and healthy, and he no longer had a cold and fever without moving. Lu Liping is full of gratitude to Tao Wei!
Lu Liping and her son Zhang Boyu
In October 1996, Lü Liping funded a football club at the foot of Xiangshan Mountain in Beijing, with Tao Wei as the general manager and legal representative.
Because of frequent contact, the two gradually developed feelings.
Tao Wei is 1.76 meters tall, handsome in appearance, burly and strong, and is quite attractive to Lu Liping, who has had marital experience.
But Lu Liping has concerns in her heart, she has divorced and brought a son, while Tao Wei is unmarried and single, and the conditions between the two are not equal. She was worried that Tao Wei would change his face after marriage, which was not good for Zhang Boyu.
Tao Wei saw Lu Liping's thoughts and promised: How do I treat Zhang Boyu now, and how I will treat him in the future.
Zhang Boyu
Zhang Boyu and Tao Wei have a deep affection and said to Lu Liping: Mom, I am willing to live with Uncle Tao. In this way, Lu Liping ate a reassuring pill and established a romantic relationship with Tao Wei.
In January 1999, Lu Liping and Tao Wei held a wedding in Los Angeles, USA. Lu Liping remarried with her son and unmarried man Tao Wei, which triggered heated discussions among the Chinese people.
Many people are not optimistic about this marriage and feel that the two are not equal. But Lu Liping and Tao Wei's friends feel that they are a good match: both have careers, are public figures, and are the most classic stylistic match.
However, falling in love is easier said than done. Due to the lack of sufficient understanding before marriage, coupled with the age difference, experience and life concept of the two people, Lu Liping and Tao Wei often stumbled in life.
From top to bottom: Li Xiaomeng, Feng Gong, Lu Liping
As a lu liping with a history of marriage, she has her own requirements for life, but Tao Wei cannot understand her spiritual needs and it is difficult to enter her inner world.
Lu Liping encountered troubles in her work life, Tao Wei's explanation was not to the point, often the more he comforted, the more annoyed Lu Liping was.
This is not the life that Lu Liping wants, rather than two people tied together and hurt, it is better to be separated.
In 2001, Lu Liping openly and honestly talked to Tao Wei about divorce.
Tao Wei lives with Lu Liping, the pressure is also very large, he is at a loss, no matter how to do Lu Liping is not satisfied, so Tao Wei does not have illusions about this marriage.
Lu Liping
When Lu Liping filed for divorce, Tao Wei did not retain it.
In August 2001, Lu Liping and Tao Wei went through divorce procedures. The marriage lasted only more than two years and then passed away with the wind, which made many people sigh.
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After the divorce, Lu Liping transferred the football club, and Tao Wei no longer served as general manager and legal representative.
After two failed marriages, Lu Liping has no hope for feelings and feels that it is good to live alone.
Poster of "The Years of Burning Passion"
In 2001, Lu Liping took over the TV series "The Years of Burning Passion" and met the famous actor Sun Haiying.
Sun Haiying was born in Liaoning in October 1956, four years older than Lu Liping. Sun Haiying has a bumpy life and is a man with a lot of stories.
At the age of 17, he was admitted to the Tibet Military Region Repertory Theatre, where he acted in both plays and porters. In 1977, Sun Haiying was transferred to the Dandong Repertory Theatre in Liaoning.
In 1979, Sun Haiying enlisted in the army for the second time and became an actor in the Fujian Military Region Repertory Theatre.
In 1985, Sun Haiying changed careers and was assigned to work in the Shenyang Municipal Bureau of Justice.
Sun Haiying
Sun Haiying has always wanted to eat the actor's bowl of rice, but he can't find the receiving unit, so he can only smash the iron rice bowl and become an individual actor.
As early as 1979, when Sun Haiying was still working in the Fujian Military Region Repertory Theatre, he married a pharmacist in the hospital, and his son was born in 1980.
When his son was two years old, he unfortunately fell out of bed and became cerebral palsy, after which he became incontinent. The wife was overwhelmed by the torment of life, left a letter to Sun Haiying, and ran away from home. Sun Haiying was single with her son and experienced many hardships.
In 1995, Sun Haiying's son died of illness at the age of 15. Sun Haiying's heart was torn apart and he struggled for years in the pain of losing his son before he came out.
Lu Liping and Sun Haiying
Like Lu Liping, Sun Haiying's life and emotions are very bumpy, and many of the two people's ideas are in the same direction.
During the filming of "The Years of Burning Passion", Lu Liping and Sun Haiying had a good feeling for each other, but Lu Liping could not make up her mind to remarry, and Sun Haiying talked with her for two days before Lu Liping decided to remarry him.
In May 2002, Lü Liping and Sun Haiying (Sun Haiying later became an actor in the Shenyang Repertory Theatre) registered their marriage in Shenyang.
After marriage, Lu Liping and Sun Haiying's marriage is very compatible.
Lu Liping
In an interview, Lu Liping said: Sun Haiying is down-to-earth and understanding, which is very precious. He understood me, understood me, and helped me share a lot of my worries. After marrying him, I can go out and work happily, and my heart is not tired. Thanks to life, thanks to Sun Haiying!
What is even more precious is that Sun Haiying regards his stepson Zhang Boyu as his own, he has no children of his own, and puts all his father's love on Zhang Boyu.
Sun Haiying spoke very straight, and repeatedly made remarks on Weibo, which was rebuffed by netizens. Lu Liping showed great tolerance for her husband, and although she did not defend her husband, she did not blame him.
On September 21, 2014, when Zhang Boyu and actress Zhang Moxi were married in Beijing, their biological father Zhang Fengyi did not attend, and Lu Liping and Sun Haiying attended in full costume.
Sun Haiying sent blessings to a couple
Sun Haiying held his stepson in his left hand and his daughter-in-law in his right hand, and the love on his face was unobstructed. Many netizens were moved, saying that Sun Haiying was Zhang Boyu's biological father and Zhang Fengyi was the stepfather.
After Zhang Boyu got married, he and his wife had not yet conceived a baby, and Lu Liping and Sun Haiying began to give birth. Now that Lu Liping and Sun Haiying are older, the two have taken up less drama and begun to enjoy life.
Married to Sun Haiying three times, Lu Liping found true love, and her heart was always very steady and stable.
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So after Tao Wei and Lu Liping divorced, what kind of unknown life situation did they have?
After the divorce, Tao Wei succeeded Li Weimiao and Yu Dachuan as a commentator for the Bundesliga on CCTV. He partnered with Huang Jianxiang, known as the "golden combination", the two cooperated tacitly, the commentary was very personal, and it was well received by fans.
Tao Wei (right) and Duan Xuan
Subsequently, Tao Wei cooperated with Duan Xuan to explain the Bundesliga on CCTV. In order to be competent in the work of commentary, Tao Wei often went abroad to watch football matches at his own expense and mastered first-hand information.
After divorcing Lu Liping, Tao Wei was once afraid of marriage, he had no children, and he was no longer married, so that his parents and two sisters were very anxious, and the family often urged him to remarry as soon as possible.
But finding a suitable remarriage partner is not an easy task. In 2010, Tao Wei was 44 years old, marriage was imminent, and his parents were so anxious that their hair was white.
In order to alleviate his parents' anxiety and find a suitable other half, Tao Wei began a blind date.
Tao Wei on the pitch
In 2011, under the introduction of friends, Tao Wei and Ms. Song met and fell in love. Ms. Song is a native of Zhangjiakou, Hebei Province, nearly 10 years younger than Tao Wei, and is engaged in ordinary work.
In August of that year, the two registered their marriage in Beijing.
In March 2012, Ms. Song gave birth to a healthy son in Beijing, with 46-year-old Tao Weixi as a father.
Tao Wei is a football player, with good physical fitness, never went to the hospital, did not take medicine once in several years, and is a health expert in the eyes of many people. Who knew that disaster had come without warning.
In the early morning of August 26, 2012, Tao Wei explained the first round of the Bundesliga match, which was played by Stuttgart against Wolfsburg, who knew that this became his life song.
Tao Wei
After explaining the football game, Tao Wei did not have time to rest, and in the morning he drove to Qingdao, Shandong Province, with 3 friends.
Due to traffic jams on the highway, 4 people stayed in a hotel in Jinan.
At about 8:00 a.m. on August 27, friends got up and went to the hotel for breakfast, but Tao Wei never came out, and no one answered his phone. Half an hour later, the waiter opened Tao Wei's door and found that Tao Wei was dead.
At that time, the police thought that he had killed him, and after investigation and evidence collection, the police concluded that Tao Wei belonged to sudden cardiac death.
Tao Wei's untimely death at the age of 46 pushed the family into the abyss of grief, and his son lost his father shortly after birth, which was heart-wrenching!
Tao Wei memorial service
Yet the tragedy is not over. In May 2013, Tao Wei's parents sued their daughter-in-law, Ms. Song, and their one-year-old grandson to the Chaoyang District People's Court in Beijing, demanding a division of 3 million yuan in real estate, deposits and other estates.
It turned out that Ms. Song had proposed to transfer all of Tao Wei's inheritance to her son's name before allowing the old man to visit his grandson, but they refused. Ms. Song took her son and left Tao Wei's residence.
According to the Tao family's parents, who are more than 70 years old, Tao Wei borrowed money from his sister to buy a house, and the borrowed money was not returned. Tao Wei has two cars under his name, as well as bank deposits and wealth management products.
After the death of her son, Ms. Song used the couple's common property to buy two houses in Zhangjiakou, and the Tao family's parents demanded that Tao Wei's inheritance be divided.
Lu Liping
Lu Liping and her son and daughter-in-law
After several mediations by the court, the two parties reached a settlement. In fact, they are all unfortunate people, the Tao family's parents lost their children, Ms. Song lost their husbands, and everyone has grief in their hearts.
It's just that Tao Wei will never know that after his unfortunate early death, his parents and wife are in court.
In August 2022, Lu Liping and Tao Wei have been divorced for 21 years, and she remarried Sun Haiying with her son and harvested belated happiness. However, Tao Wei unfortunately died young, so that his son lost his father at a young age, and his parents and wife were still in court.
The lives of Lu Liping and Tao Wei are very different, which makes people feel a thousand emotions!
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