Chinese New Year's Eve Night in 2004, which should have been a day of reunion for thousands of families, became the most painful day in the life of actor Yang Lei, because on this day, she suffered the betrayal of marriage...
At 8 o'clock that night, the CCTV Spring Festival Gala began as scheduled in the cheers of the audience, and Yang Lei at this time was particularly nervous in the backstage of the Spring Festival Gala, because soon after, she and Guo Donglin and Guo Da would perform the skit "Good People Don't Discount" to the national audience.
Sketch "Good People Don't Discount"
Fortunately, everything went smoothly in the show, and from the moment she stepped off the stage, Yang Lei's heart had only one thought: hurry home and have a reunion dinner with her husband. But what Yang Lei did not expect was that she would never be reunited again this night...
After stepping down, the first thing Yang Lei did was to take out her mobile phone, wanting to inform her husband that she could start cooking dumplings, but just pressed the mobile phone screen, a dazzling text message suddenly came into view, and Yang Lei instantly fell to the ground.
Yang Lei
Only to see that only two sentences were simply written on the text message, but It made Yang Lei completely lose the desire to go home: Let's divorce! I'm in love with someone else...
So, who is Yang Lei's husband? And who is the "other" he is in love with? Why did he file for divorce from Yang Lei on Chinese New Year's Eve Night?
The marriage of the two couples is rifted
Yang Lei's husband is a cross-talk actor Dai Zhicheng, the two people have always been a model couple in the circle, under the love of Dai Zhicheng, Yang Lei can be said to be a little grandmother treatment at home, what housework does not have to be done, the two people have been married for many years without children, Dai Zhicheng will pet Yang Lei into a child.
Yang Lei
Logically, such a loving couple will not have a reason to cheat, but what is the matter with Dai Zhicheng's text message? Is it because he is too busy at work and ignores his husband?
Thinking about this, Yang Lei hurried out and took a taxi to rush home, but after returning home, she found that her husband's things were gone, documents and other things were also taken away, and even Dai Zhicheng took away the mop he often used, leaving Yang Lei with nothing but the text message.
Yang Lei sat on the couch like a dead heart, and began to think about whether there was something wrong with her husband recently, but everything was normal to think about it, since her program was selected to participate in the Spring Festival Gala, she has been rehearsing on the stage, it is indeed ignoring Dai Zhicheng's feelings, but this is not going to divorce ah!
Yang Lei
Is it really possible that someone has seen a needle in the seam? Take advantage of the time when you are busy at work to take advantage of the void and seduce your husband away? Yang Lei thinks that their marriage is very solid, and if Dai Zhicheng cheats, it must be that he and the woman outside have this meaning.
At this time, Yang Lei suddenly thought of a person - Yuan Yin, Yuan Yin is Hou Yaowen's wife, and Hou Yaowen and Dai Zhicheng are very good friends in the cross-talk circle, and at the same time they are teachers and nephews.
At that time, Hou Yaowen was too busy at work to take care of his wife, so he had to ask Yang Lei to go to the house from time to time to care about it, but Yang Lei rehearsed the program every day during that time, and the time was not very abundant, so Yang Lei let Dai Zhicheng help instead of himself.
Dai Zhicheng
Dai Zhicheng went with Yang Lei at first, and then Yang Lei was too busy, and Dai Zhicheng began to go by himself. Hou Yaowen and Yuan Yin's daughter Yu Yu also liked Dai Zhicheng very much, even surpassing her own father. This is also the common sentiment of people, children are like this, who spends more time with her, she loves whom.
Who knew that under this coming and going, Dai Zhicheng had feelings for Yuan Yin outside of friends, Yuan Yin did not have such a meaning at first, but Hou Yaowen was often not at home, perhaps for Yuan Yin, what she needed was not only material, but also companionship.
At this time, Dai Zhicheng is the best companion for Yuan Yin, and Yuan Yin often cooks a large table of dishes to thank Dai Zhicheng. In this way, the two people began to get closer and closer, and finally Yuan Yin really couldn't stand her husband always traveling, so she filed for divorce.
Yuan Yin
Hou Yaowen knew that he did not accompany his wife enough, and did not ask too much, so he agreed. Dai Zhicheng saw that Yuan Yin had been divorced, could not hold back any longer, and also proposed divorce with his wife, but he did not dare to face his wife, so he just sent a text message and disappeared.
And here Yang Lei received the text message, locked herself in the house for several days, and finally figured out the ins and outs of things. She remembered that one night before, Yuan Yin called Dai Zhicheng to say that she was uncomfortable, and Dai Zhicheng was already asleep at that time, but finally she immediately got up and got dressed and rushed over, and sent Yuan Yin to the hospital.
Some things are like this, at that time, only the Tao was common, in fact, there were already clues, at this time, think about it, Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin are afraid that they have already come together.
Yuan Yin
After trying to understand the cause and effect of the matter, Yang Lei had a serious illness, the betrayal of her lover was more difficult for her to accept than the virus, and after the condition improved slightly, Yang Lei found the cross-talk actor Li Jindou and asked him to help persuade Dai Zhicheng to see if he could change his mind.
Unexpectedly, Li Jindou had already heard about The matter of Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin, and if this matter really started, no one would get any benefits, so he advised Yang Lei: "Don't save it, there is no hope."
Yang Lei
On October 14, 2004, some media broke that Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng had come together, although many people did not agree with this extramarital affair, but the original match of both sides did not say anything, but Hou Yaowen never performed on the same stage with Dai Zhicheng after that.
Marriage with a difference of 20 years
Hou Yaowen and his wife Yuan Yin are actually married for the second time, in 1990, Hou Yaowen and his original wife Liu Yan were arranged marriages by their parents, and as they spent more and more time together, Hou Yaowen found that the two people gradually had no common topic, although they already had a daughter, Hou Yaowen still proposed a divorce.
Hou Yaowen and Yuan Yin
After the divorce, the children were also taken away by his ex-wife, Hou Yaowen has been busy with his career, and later in 1993, when filming the TV series "Special Police", he met Yuan Yin, who came to the rescue, and Hou Yaowen fell in love with Yuan Yin at first sight.
At that time, when filming, the set actress was temporarily replaced, but the TV series had been filmed for three months, and it was very difficult to find actors temporarily, at this time the actor Wang Kuirong recommended Yuan Yin to the crew, Yuan Yin had just graduated from film school at that time, and playing a rival role with Hou Yaowen was a big challenge for her.
Yuan Yin
But Hou Yaowen is very willing to bring up the younger generation, not only often guide Yuan Yin to act, usually in the crew is also very concerned about Yuan Yin, the drama was soon finished, when leaving the crew, Hou Yaowen took Yuan Yin's hand and kept telling her to continue to work hard, if there are any work or life problems, you can ask him at any time.
After a few months of getting along, Yuan Yin also gradually developed love for Hou Yaowen, so the two people talked about yearless love not long after. Yuan Yin's family can't accept a man whose eldest daughter is twenty years old, even if he is a very famous actor, for the happiness of her daughter in the second half of her life, Yuan Yin's parents are particularly unoptimistic about their love affair.
Not only Yuan Yin's parents, the outside world has also speculated a lot about their love affair, some people say that Yuan Yin just wants to use Hou Yaowen's fame to climb up, and some people say that Hou Yaowen's old cow eats tender grass, and all kinds of public opinion are pressed on the heads of the two people, but Yuan Yin did not waver.
Yuan Yin
The two people knew each other for less than a year, Yuan Yin took the household registration book stolen from home, and Hou Yaowen received a marriage license, and after marriage, Hou Yaowen was very fond of Yuan Yin, not only used to spending money lavishly, but also let Yuan Yin enjoy it at home, and he went out to work to earn money.
In 1998, Yuan Yin gave birth to a daughter for Hou Yaowen, a fifty-year-old Hou Yaowen old woman, although not the first child, but this is his and Yuan Yin's first child, Hou Yaowen is particularly concerned about you, but because of the nature of his work needs to travel frequently, so the care for the child is still not enough.
In order not to let his wife who was alone at home with children be lonely, Hou Yaowen thought of his master and nephew Dai Zhicheng, so Hou Yaowen asked Dai Zhicheng's wife Yang Lei to spend more leisure time with Yuan Yin, Hou Yaowen and Dai Zhicheng The two families have a good relationship since childhood, so Yang Lei also agreed, even if he did not have time, he would let Dai Zhicheng go to visit.
Dai Zhicheng
Hou Yaowen absolutely could not have imagined that his practice of caring for his wife was to lure the wolf into the room and let Dai Zhicheng get the moon first near the water tower. If he knew that things would turn out to be unmanageable, I believe he would never have made such a decision.
Yuan Yin Dai Zhicheng married
With Dai Zhicheng's concern for Yuan Yin increasing, Yuan Yin also developed feelings for Dai Zhicheng, on the one hand, the considerate Dai Zhicheng, on the other hand, Hou Yaowen, who neglected to take care of her, Yuan Yin naturally chose the former.
Yuan Yin
Later, Hou Yaowen returned from a business trip and saw that Yuan Yin seemed very reluctant to be close to him, so he waved a big hand at Yuan Yin's birthday and gave Yuan Yin a sports car. This gift did make Yuan Yin happy for several days, but as Hou Yaowen left home again, Yuan Yin's excited mood gradually subsided.
Hou Yaowen received a phone call from Yuan Yin between performances, he thought that his wife missed himself, who knew that what came from the other end of the phone was Yuan Yin's extremely cold tone: "Let's get a divorce."
Hou Yaowen rushed back after the performance, but Yuan Yin insisted on divorce, and Hou Yaowen's repeated bitter requests failed to change Yuan Yin's thoughts. So Hou Yaowen had to give up, and Hou Yaowen felt that it was his lack of love and care for his wife that led to this situation.
Hou Yaowen
Later, Hou Yaowen left the house and property to his wife and daughter, and the two people were separated. When she first married Hou Yaowen, it was Yuan Yin's own insistence, but later this hard-won marriage was ruined by her own hands.
Of course, only the people in it can understand the emotional things best, outsiders are just a bystander in the end, and the most injured are Hou Yaowen and Yang Lei, who have been abandoned.
Yang Lei has been very depressed after signing the divorce agreement, and when she participated in the show, she also bluntly said that her ex-husband Dai Zhicheng had changed a lot, becoming a look she didn't know, and abandoning her family for her so-called love, which made her very disappointed.
Yang Lei
After Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng divorced separately, they soon came together, Dai Zhicheng regarded Yuan Yin's daughter Yu Yu as his own, in order not to let Yu Yu feel that she was neglected, Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin never had children again.
When you go to school, Dai Zhicheng undertakes the pick-up and drop-off work of the girl, and the parents' meeting and school activities are never absent, for the girl, Dai Zhicheng is not the biological father more like the biological husband.
When the outside world criticized their marriage, Hou Yaowen stood up to speak for his master and nephew, saying that his marriage had nothing to do with Dai Zhicheng, but since the two of them had not shared the stage, everyone knew that Hou Yaowen seemed to be defending Dai Zhicheng, but in fact he was defending his ex-wife Yuan Yin and his daughter Yu Yu.
Dai Zhicheng
Because of this incident, Dai Zhicheng's reputation in the cross-talk industry was not as good as before, and the invitation to perform was gradually reduced. In order to make a living, Yuan Yin had to come back to filming to earn money, although life was very hard, but Yuan Yin also enjoyed it.
Some people say that Yuan Yin's life of letting go of the young grandmother, but it is really difficult to understand that she is working hard outside, but for Yuan Yin, instead of living in an empty big house, it is better to live a life that is not rich with her beloved.
In order to take care of Yuan Yin, Dai Zhicheng even followed Yuan Yin to the crew and personally took charge of Yuan Yin's daily life, such a thing is indeed Something that Hou Yaowen could not take care of.
Dai Zhicheng
Although the marriage of Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin is not optimistic, for them, they do not care much about other people's opinions, as long as they can accompany each other is the greatest happiness, even if this marriage is doomed to be unacceptable.
Hou Yaowen died
At 18:30 on June 23, 2007, Hou Yaowen died of a heart attack at his home in Beijing. After four years of property entanglement, Yuan Yin received a huge inheritance of 15 million yuan, and Yuan Yin said in an interview with the media that her feelings for Hou Yaowen were like brothers and fathers, but she did not mention a "love" word, which has to be said to be really thought-provoking.
Yuan Yin
Hou Yaowen had countless honors in his life, and many of the apprentices he had trained were also leaders in the cross-talk industry, the most famous of which was Guo Degang. Now that Hou Yaowen has been dead for nearly 20 years, it has gradually been forgotten by many people, except for Guo Degang, who still misses his mentor every year, as if no one will be sad because of his departure.
Putting aside his personal emotional life, Hou Yaowen's contribution is very large, he has always adhered to the concept of "crosstalk is crosstalk" in his performance, never goes with the flow, and the portrayal of characters in the performance is also very vivid and vivid, and has very unique personal characteristics.
And now Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin are still living with love, and perhaps Yuan Yin can find her own happiness, which is also a great comfort for Hou Yaowen's spirit in heaven.
Until now, when Dai Zhicheng is mentioned, many people still look at it with a critical eye. According to the generations, Dai Zhicheng is Hou Yaowen's master and nephew, so the master and nephew married the wife of the master uncle, which is a reproachful thing in what era, and it is no wonder that everyone blames it.
But Dai Zhicheng's talent is also obvious to all, Dai Zhicheng, who was born in teasing, is very attractive to perform, not only saying that learning to sing is good, the works performed are also close to life, not too difficult to understand, but also loved by everyone.
Yuan Yin
When Dai Zhicheng was in the middle of public opinion, it was his partner Jiang Kun who supported him, which led to his failure to fall, and later in front of the camera, Dai Zhicheng called Jiang Kun a "god", which shows how much Jiang Kun helped him.
epilogue
Time flies, no matter how unbless Dai Zhicheng and Yuan Yin's marriage was, now the two people are also very harmonious and happy, although the marital infidelity should indeed be criticized, but some people say that they at least did not secretly Chen Cang, but chose to confess with the original partner, which is also a very responsible behavior.
Yuan Yin
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