In 1979, they met, Hou Yaowen and the gentle Liu Yan
In the summer of 1979, a dance play "Swan Lake" was being rehearsed in the theater. Hou Yaowen met Liu Yan for the first time who played the heroine Odjeta, and saw her wearing a white light gauze dance dress, spinning briskly in the spotlight, like an angel.
Hou Yaowen couldn't help but fall for it - the woman in front of her, who exuded a bookish atmosphere, had a quiet and gentle gesture.
What amazes Hou Yaowen even more is that although Liu Yan is tall, she is not clumsy at all in the dance, her every movement is so light and elegant, dancing like an elf, filling the stage with vitality.
Hou Yaowen took the initiative to invite Liu Yan out to dine together, hoping to find out more about this beautiful and gentle dancer. Unexpectedly, the two fell in love at first sight, and the three views were very compatible.
Soon, they held hands and entered the palace of marriage.
In the days after marriage, Hou Yaowen felt as if he was in the spring breeze. Liu Yan not only has a touching appearance, but also a gentle and considerate personality. She took good care of Hou Yaowen as if she were her own child.
It didn't take long for Liu Yan to give birth to a lovely daughter for Hou Yaowen. The warmth of day after day makes Hou Yaowen feel happy, down-to-earth and stable, as if this is the ideal destination he dreamed of.
The career is successful, and the change of heart is gradually drifting away
As he grew older, Hou Yaowen's career also rose rapidly like a high-rise building. With his excellent language talent and excellent skills, he gradually emerged in the cross talk world.
The laughter of the audience was like thunder, the flowers on the stage were endless, and the days of fame and fortune made Hou Yaowen addicted.
Gradually, he was attracted by the world of flowers and flowers in the outside world, and those singing and dancing flowers and branches deeply touched his heart. Especially the shallow chanting and low singing of the popular female singer Wei Wei has an inexplicable fatal attraction to Hou Yaowen.
That year, Hou Yaowen took the initiative to invite Wei Weiwei to live together. As long as he is free, he will find ways to be with Wei Wei.
At home, Liu Yan waited for more and more days. Every time he thinks of the affectionate young man he used to be, Liu Yan can't help but shed tears of regret. She understands that the most fearful thing about a relationship is to change her mind, but this truth is useless, and in the end, she failed to save this marriage that is no longer perfect.
drama is love, and a new love of happiness is regained
After divorcing Liu Yan, Hou Yaowen met Yuan Yin during the filming of a TV series. The woman in front of her has a petite and delicate figure, and a pair of watery eyes with a hint of charm.
The two have a lot of rivalry in the play, and Yuan Yin's vivid and realistic performance impressed Hou Yaowen. This appreciation gradually sublimated into an indescribable emotion.
After a sip after a shooting, the alcohol seemed to make Hou Yaowen unguard, and he gently held Yuan Yin's hand. "I admire you, not only in the play, but also in life.
You are like a breeze in this scorching summer, and I like your gentleness and generosity. Yuan Yin bowed her head shyly after hearing this, and a faint flush appeared on her face.
This off-the-play relationship finally surpassed that in the play, and the two quickly established a relationship, and soon held hands and entered the marriage hall. At this time, Yuan Yin was immersed in this sudden new love, and she believed that she could bring Hou Yaowen sincere dedication and eternal happiness.
Loneliness is easy to think about non-separation
Life seems to be happy after marriage, but with his career on the right track, Hou Yaowen has more time to go out to work. Yuan Yin has been at home alone for a long time, and it is inevitable that she will feel empty and lonely.
She looked at the ceiling and remembered the sweet words and tenderness that Hou Yaowen told her when the relationship was just confirmed. Now it feels like everything has changed, the sweetness between husband and wife is gone, replaced by coldness and loneliness.
At this time, Hou Yaowen's nephew Dai Zhicheng came to visit his uncle's house. He took care of Yuan Yin, who gave birth to a child, stewed soup to help him sleep, and took care of his diet and daily life. This was in strong contrast to Hou Yaowen's coldness, which made Yuan Yin feel a trace of undeserved joy in his heart.
She will be slightly nervous when Dai Zhicheng approaches, and she will also close the distance intentionally or unintentionally when the two are alone. This subtle feeling made her both novel and shy.
Gradually, the two sparked more and more sparks, and the desire to burn the prairie also secretly sprouted when they were tacitly alone again and again. Yuan Yin knew the taboo of this relationship, she wanted to escape but was nostalgic for the happiness that made her fresh and throbbing.
In the end, in the middle of a silent night, she chose to dedicate herself to Dai Zhicheng, even though she knew it was wrong.
In 2007, the butterfly flew again
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 2007, the news of Hou Yaowen's sudden death came to Yuan Yin, who was in her early thirties. Hou Yaowen, the most familiar person, died suddenly, and Yuan Yin was in extreme grief, and many memories of married life came to her heart.
She remembered the sweetness when she first married Hou Yaowen, the vision and planning for the future when she gave birth to her daughter, and the warmth and affection in the life of the husband and wife...... Everything is falling into vain.
At this moment, she truly realized the preciousness of marriage. Perhaps, she and Hou Yaowen should not have come to the end, but the bits and pieces of the past are the most precious memories of her life.
Under the impact of this thought, Yuan Yin re-examined whether it was worth continuing between herself and Dai Zhicheng. Maybe this is the second chance that God gave her, so that she can be a new person and be happy.
So, she chose to hold Dai Zhicheng's hand and start a new life for the two. After experiencing this double bath of soul and life, she is no longer the woman in the frivolous scandal back then, she hopes to cherish the present and regain happiness and stability.
Conclusion
When we look back at the life after this scandal, we will find that Yuan Yin is so lucky, because she finally found a soulmate. We should not judge the private lives of others, but we should not emulate the selfish parts of them.
Relationships need to be consistent and contented, which is a necessary element for a long-term marriage. As the saying goes, if there is no one to share in the lonely days, it is difficult to guarantee that there will be no thoughts of non-separation.
Therefore, husbands and wives must learn to support each other. Spending time together requires heart-to-heart talks, communication, understanding each other, and cherishing each other's existence.
This will require unremitting efforts on both sides. Life is full of turmoil, and each of us has taken detours, lost and fallen in the experience. So, we don't have to be judged, because everybody is struggling.
No matter what the past is, the most important thing is that the future is still promising, and fate gives us the right to choose again. I hope that everyone can cherish the moment, cherish everyone around them who inspires them to continue to move forward, and regain happiness and stability.