That year, Hou Yaowen met a special girl during the filming of the TV series "Special Police".
Her name is Yuan Yin, and she is the newly promoted heroine, full of vitality and a sweet smile. Unlike other actresses, Yuan Yin has no shelves and works very diligently and seriously. Even after more than ten hours of continuous shooting, she was still engrossed and did not show any fatigue.
Hou Yaowen looked at Yuan Yin's focused side face, and a warm current surged in his heart. This little girl will go far, he thought.
The two played against each other repeatedly in front of the camera, and their hearts were unconsciously close. In his spare time, Hou Yaowen often takes care of Yuan Yin's acting problems, and Yuan Yin jokingly calls him "Teacher Yaowen".
In and out of the play, they became close friends.
On the day of the finale, Hou Yaowen held Yuan Yin's hand and said to her earnestly: "Always keep a simple and kind heart, I believe you will succeed." If you encounter any difficulties in the future, remember to feel free to contact me.
Yuan Yin listened, and her eyes suddenly burst into tears. For the first time, she felt that there was really such a person in the world who could be relied on.
The relationship between Yuan Yin and Hou Yaowen continued to ferment after the end of work. In the face of strong opposition from her family, Yuan Yin resolutely chose to follow her heart. In 1993, the two hearts were finally married in the sacred marriage hall.
Soon after their marriage, they welcomed their first child, a cute little girl named Niu Niu. Niuniu's arrival made this small family more warm, and Yuan Yin decided to temporarily pursue an acting career and teach her husband and children at home.
Niuniu's birth was a happy event for both Yuan Yin and Hou Yaowen. But not long after Niuniu was born, Hou Yaowen began to be busy with his performance career, and he often went out and couldn't accompany his family.
Yuan Yin took care of Niuniu alone, and her daily life began to become boring. Whenever she sits in an empty home, Yuan Yin will think of the intimacy with Hou Yaowen in the crew, and life was so full and happy at that time.
Looking back now, the gap between the reality of married life and her dreams made Yuan Yin feel dazed and lonely.
At this time, a neighbor named Yang Lei began to come to help Yuan Yin take care of Niuniu. Yang Lei's husband Dai Zhicheng is Hou Yaowen's nephew. The two families were originally very close, but now they are even closer.
Dai Zhicheng treats Niuniu as his own, and often brings some small gifts to visit her to make her happy. Sometimes Yuan Yin went to the mall to buy groceries, and Dai Zhicheng would also offer to help take Niuniu home.
Gradually, Dai Zhicheng became an important pillar in Yuan Yin's life. Unlike the radiant Hou Yaowen on the performance field, Dai Zhicheng is more like a considerate and good man.
Whenever Yuan Yin encountered any difficulties, he was always the first to appear and help.
After coming and going, the relationship between Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng became closer and closer. Once Yuan Yin suddenly felt unwell and called Dai Zhicheng late at night, and Dai Zhicheng rushed over to take her to the hospital without saying a word.
Yuan Yin realized that there was really such a meticulous person in the world who could rely on her.
Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng's relationship became increasingly close, which made Yang Lei a little concerned. But she told herself that it was just a normal relationship between the two families and that she couldn't think about it.
However, on the night of Chinese New Year's Eve in 2004, Yang Lei received a text message from Dai Zhicheng to break off relations after the recording of her program.
"Let's get a divorce. A few short words ended their marriage for many years. Yang Lei was caught off guard, and the whole person fell into collapse.
She never expected that her husband would suddenly be so decisive about herself.
During her hospitalization, it was rumored that Dai Zhicheng decided to divorce because of Yuan Yin. Yang Lei was in agony, she felt like a discarded toy, and all this happened without her knowledge.
Dai Zhicheng's decisive decision to divorce gave Yuan Yin the courage to divorce Hou Yaowen. She believes that happiness can only be achieved by following her heart. It didn't take long for Yuan Yin to remarry Dai Zhicheng in a flash.
This series of events happened so suddenly that the outside world is speculating whether Dai Zhicheng intervened to cause the breakdown of the two marriages. Hou Yaowen also couldn't believe that his wife and nephew had betrayed him.
When Yuan Yin filed for divorce, he begged her to think about it again, but it was too late.
In the face of criticism from the outside world, Hou Yaowen was reluctant to admit that Dai Zhicheng caused his divorce. With the righteousness of the rivers and lakes, he clarified to the public that this was purely a matter of husband and wife's feelings. However, no one can understand the pain and pain in the heart.
As soon as the news of Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng's marriage came out, it immediately caused an uproar in the music industry. Everyone is talking about Yuan Yin's approach, which completely deviates from the ethical concept of the industry.
How could Hou Yaowen, as a junior uncle, endure that his nephew had robbed his wife? In the eyes of many people, this was a great disrespect and harm to Hou Yaowen.
Yang Lei also suffered a huge blow. She originally thought that she and Dai Zhicheng would grow old, but they were abandoned for no reason. She couldn't help but wonder what she had done wrong and deserved to be treated like this.
For Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng, however, they firmly believe that their feelings should not be affected by the dissent of others. Yuan Yin believes that as long as you follow your heart, you can achieve happiness.
The criticism from the outside world was self-defeating, and she chose to block it.
So, when Yuan Yin put on a white wedding dress and walked into the wedding hall under Dai Zhicheng's gentle gaze, she knew that her choice was correct. This is the love she dreams of, even if she hurts other people in the process.
The newlywed life is very sweet and happy, and Yuan Yin feels unprecedented steadfastness and satisfaction. Dai Zhicheng was nervous and considerate to her, and cared for her as if she were his own princess.
Yuan Yin smiled knowingly, she knew that this was the destined other half.
Years go by, and many years later, the things that were in a hurry back then have gradually faded out of people's memories.
In 2007, Yuan Yin wrote a text in memory of her ex-husband on the day of Hou Yaowen's death. In the article, she said that Hou Yaowen's role as a husband in her life was not successful, but other identities gave her a lot of warmth.
This is her last farewell to the deceased him as an ex-wife.
Time flies, and Yang Lei has slowly walked out of the painful shadow of the divorce that year. She is no longer haunted by the past, but lives more and more cheerfully and optimistically. Occasionally met Dai Zhicheng at work, and the two were no longer the embarrassment and estrangement of the past, but just shook hands politely and greeted each other, and then parted ways like strangers.
And Yuan Yin and Dai Zhicheng have walked hand in hand for 18 years. The happy married life diluted all kinds of criticism from them. Now they have looked down on the past and just want to live each day in the present.
Dai Zhicheng still takes care of his wife meticulously, and Yuan Yin has also learned to cherish it.
The protagonists in the story have accumulated life experiences and lessons in this wind and rain. The emotional turmoil of the past will eventually disappear in the long river of time, leaving only a positive heart.
It is true that loving someone is a freedom, but it also needs to be treated with wisdom. The breakdown of a marital relationship will undoubtedly cause harm to others, and we need to put ourselves in the shoes of others as we pursue our own happiness.
However, the nature of love is irrational. It transcends secular authority, transcends the boundaries of Xi. Perhaps for Yuan Yin, being with Dai Zhicheng is the real voice in her heart, even if someone suffers in the process, she will not hesitate to do so.
We should not judge the choices of others lightly. Everyone has their own difficulties. Maybe Yuan Yin did experience a lot of difficulties at that time, so she made up her mind to leave Hou Yaowen.
The failure of love and marriage is not entirely the fault of either party.
In reality, there is no perfect answer to many things. We all see things from different standpoints. The important thing is that when we see the helplessness of others, we learn to empathize, understand and be tolerant; It takes wisdom and courage to examine your choices.
This is the path to maturity in life.