In this world, there are two kinds of people. The first kind of person, when stepping into a new field, always has a passion like fire, but once the passion retreats, it will disappear; The second kind of person, seemingly warm and inconspicuous, but like a mountain stream, a long stream, is often easier to cultivate for a long time and achieve results. On the path of learning the law of seeds, there is no shortage of these two. Today, our three protagonists are the second of them. When they first came into contact with the law of seeds, they may not have any exciting arguments, even if they become volunteers, they are ignorant all the way, but they use an ordinary, down-to-earth and non-giving attitude, after "dormancy", thick accumulation, ushered in a rare and valuable change in life. If at this time, on the road of learning and practicing, you are in the stage of not getting the point, confused and tired, it is better to draw some strength from them.
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At a birthday party, she walked into her mother-in-law's heart
Lisa Tsui | Malaysia
Lisa Xu had heard about the seed law for a long time, but it wasn't until September 2019 that she walked into the book club and really got close to this group. Later, with the outbreak of the epidemic, the offline reading club was difficult to sustain, and Xu Lisha also followed everyone to continue to learn online. It was also during this period that she signed up for an online course on the Law of Seeds and began a new life of volunteering while learning systematically. All this seems to be so natural, but in Xu Lisha's heart, she is still ignorant. She didn't know what the seed law meant to her, and what kind of transformation it would bring to her life. At that time, she only knew that as a guardian angel of the community, her daily task was to forward fixed content to the group. That's what she did. She doesn't care what's going on in the community, much less how her friends' lives have progressed. This indifference lasted for some time before she realized that it was inappropriate. So, she began to slowly pay attention to the content sent by other volunteer partners in the group and began to like it. Although this is a simple action, it contains an important psychological transformation. At the same time, it also unconsciously plants good seeds of support and recognition for others.
A year passed like this, and when it came time for the group leader to change, everyone was promoting her. Although in Xu Lisha's view, she did not know how to be a group leader, everyone firmly put her in this position. Yes, the law of seeds is as simple as it is, it is the same as the law in nature, as long as you plant seeds in a fertile field, they will inevitably blossom and bear fruit. The change of identity and everyone's trust caught Xu Lisha off guard, but she also glowed with enthusiasm that she had never had before. She began to pay attention to the growth of each little friend and plan a longer future for this community, and every day was full of joy. In 2022, Lisa Xu carried out a large-scale 618 activity as a platform for volunteer services, and she applied for a new volunteer position. The computer broke, and she asked a friend to borrow it; Without the broadcast software, she braved the rain to go to the home of her volunteer partner and test it; Network caton, on-site application of seed law to solve; When orders kept coming, she rejoiced with other friends... In just over a year, Xu Lisha's status in volunteer service has been judged by two people compared with before. During this time, her relationship with her family also underwent a very big change. What makes her happiest is that the relationship between her and her mother-in-law has taken a qualitative leap.
Xu Lisha is 60 years old this year, and in the decades-long post-marriage time, the relationship between her and her mother-in-law has been very indifferent, because of the lack of communication, there has not been much emotional flow between two people who should be close. Xu Lisha decided to change. All along, the mother-in-law's birthday, it is the husband who is in charge. During the epidemic period, the husband could not return to China in Singapore, and Xu Lisha planned it herself to celebrate for her mother-in-law. At this special stage, it was inconvenient for everyone to travel, and under the premise of asking for the consent of her mother-in-law, she proposed to celebrate her birthday at home. The mother-in-law's family is a big family, just the brothers and sisters all attend to 5 tables, Xu Lisha prepared some small dishes that everyone loves to eat, and the rest are all purchased from restaurants, which is not busy, but also allows everyone to get together happily. On the birthday, relatives came to the house one after another, just like the New Year, it was very lively. The mother-in-law happily played mahjong with everyone and chatted about home. When it comes to eating cakes, this year's cake is very different from the traditional style of previous years, with a lot of gold coins designed on it, a golden tree, and candles replaced by fireworks. This is a money bag cake, customized by Xu Lisha, and she also deliberately put a lot of money on the golden tree. When the mother-in-law pulled up the golden tree, adults and children all cried out in amazement and excitement: Rich, rich... The golden tree grows longer and longer, and the mother-in-law is happier and happier. When Xu Lisha told her mother-in-law that all this money was given to her, her mother-in-law was even happier. She hung this long string of money around her neck, greeted her grandchildren, and distributed the gold coins on the cake to them, and the children were very happy, and the adults pretended to compete... This ingenious birthday party, Xu Lisha was particularly successful, and also planted a seed of love in her mother-in-law's heart. Now, whenever there is something, the old man will look for her; And she often calls her mother-in-law, whose hearing is not so good, she is willing to be a listener, listen to her mother-in-law, and nag about home. Xu Lisha told her husband that in the past 60 years, she has learned to be selfish, stingy, arrogant, and calculating... But in the past two years, in the process of volunteering, she has learned the opposite. In the eyes of the world, 60-year-old people are already the age to stop and enjoy their old age. However, Xu Lisha believes that this is just the beginning of her learning...
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With my son, the first 23 days
Ru liang | Changsha, China
In Ruliang, he is an independent entrepreneur. A year ago, however, she worked for a company. At the beginning of that year, a laugh-and-tearing thing happened. Without any prior communication, Ru Liang's boss enrolled her in a course and asked Ru Liang to pay all the tuition fees afterwards. This made Ru's conscience extremely dissatisfied, but she did not dare to express it truthfully, and under the "coercion and deterrence" of the boss, she had to pay the full cost of the course of "falling from the sky" on the same day. Later, she learned that another colleague had suffered the same treatment. That night, the boss personally opened a small stove for the two of them and shared the "story of the pen". After listening, Ru Liang had only one thought in his mind: it's over! It was a "mysterious" course, the boss was brainwashed and my money was lost. In March, the course began to operate, and Ru liang hardly read the group news; In May, two classmates dragged her to the weekly meeting, and she realized that here, everyone was talking about how to use the seed rules taught in the course to plant their own life goals. Watching everyone work so hard, Ru Liang's heart also lit a small flame, and she also wanted to change her ordinary life. Therefore, whether it is brainwashing or not, Ru Liang boldly promised to take up the position of volunteer. Later, in the volunteer group, whenever everyone discussed the results brought by volunteering, she was quite moved. However, at this time, she seemed to be experiencing a period of dormancy, silently observing, but did not invest too much enthusiasm. 5 months later, by chance, Ru Liang, who had been doing volunteer work silently, took over the responsibility of the coordinator of the Q&A meeting in the course. No one expected that it was this decision made to wish others well, but it became the most important turning point in her practice of the Seed Law. At that time, she didn't know what the position needed to do, let alone how to coordinate it. Therefore, she spent three days, sleeping and forgetting food, until she understood the work content and details of all the volunteer positions of the Q&A meeting, and completed all the docking work, and then she was completely relieved. At the subsequent review meeting, the teacher opened a small stove for the volunteers, and everyone could ask questions at will. Somehow, suddenly, Ru Liang's small universe exploded, and that night almost became her question spot, and the teacher answered all her questions very inclusively. Until now, Ru Liangdu still remembers that every word the teacher said at that time was like a treasure, and she took a lot of notes. When she got up the next day, she was inexplicably overjoyed, and when she went to the lecture again, she found that the lessons she had not understood before could be understood. For a whole week, whenever she had time, she went to listen to various courses and shared her happiness and harvest with her friends in the community.
In this way, Ru Liang was inexplicably stuffed into the course of the seed law by the boss, and unconsciously, he was immersed in the enthusiasm of the volunteer partners, became an active learner and practitioner, and began to enjoy the volunteer service. During this period, Ruliang planted a large number of seeds of companionship and support for others. In just two months, her real life began to shift. One day, her ex-husband, who had already blackened Ruliang, took the initiative to add her WeChat. She and her ex-husband have a child, when the child is 9 months old, they separated, during which they can only see each other once in two or three years, the child is both familiar and strange to her, which is a pain that Ru Liang has never dared to mention in his heart. Ex-husbands generally don't contact her, and every contact is because of the child's problems, and must be unhappy. That night, when Ru Liang saw from the video that in the dark room, the child stood there sadly, and the ex-husband kept counting down, making sure that the child wrote down the pledge and knelt down to admit her mistake, such a deadlock, until more than twelve o'clock in the night, before the end, her heart was broken. Therefore, as soon as she heard her ex-husband say that she quickly picked up the child, she set the earliest flight the next day at night, packed her bags, and did not even sleep enough for two hours, so she rushed to the airport. Although this time, Ru Liang won the opportunity to accompany the child for half a month, she was not happy at all when she saw the child. On a December day, the child was wearing a down jacket, but the clothes were dirty, the finger prints on her face had turned black, and there were various bruises on her neck, but she was still pretending to greet her casually. Ru Liang's heart was almost broken, and she was eager to take the child immediately and leave the family that had tormented her so much. In the next few days, Ru liang did his best to care for his son. Eat breakfast with him in the morning and wait for him in the hotel lobby in the evening to finish school and have dinner together. The child is very happy, and every time he sees her through the glass of the hotel lobby after school, he will jump to her side. Ru Liang tried to communicate with the child, whether to go with his mother. The child replied, not knowing. Later, she realized that in fact, the child wanted to stay in the city and stay with his father. When Ru liang returned to the city where she lived, she began to seriously think about her next goal. With the help of everyone, it took her nearly three months to finally sort out the emotional entanglements and settle down. She decided to respect her child's wishes, but at the same time, she also wanted to create more opportunities to spend time with her children. Therefore, she recorded the six-hour book every day and planted the three seeds of companionship and support, matchmaking, and fulfillment; Celebrate with your friends in the community and visualize the future. With repeated visualizations, the picture in her mind became clearer and clearer, and she even saw a child knocking on her door with a suitcase. More than two months later, coinciding with the summer vacation, the ex-husband bought a ticket, and the child really took the car alone and came to the city where Ruliang was located. Now, they have been together for 23 days and every day is very happy. For more than a decade, this is the first time.
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Work is tired and hopeless, in fact, from herself
Liang Cuiling | Qingdao, China
In 2021, when Liang Cuiling began to enter the classroom of seed wisdom, she was at the trough of her life. Liang Cuiling is engaged in the freight forwarding industry, since January 2019, she has been responsible for the workload of nearly 2 people, working overtime every day, even on weekends, can not rest well. For more than a year, the long-term overload operation has made Liang Cuiling think that she is about to be unable to do it anymore, and can only rely on practice in the yoga studio to get some short repairs. She felt like a failure, tired at work, not making money, and not seeing any hope. When I first saw in the video number that there was a course that taught the law of seeds, you can "plant your own heart", you were immediately attracted. After signing up, someone told Liang Cuiling that volunteering can quickly achieve her goals, and she applied on the same day.
At first, however, she didn't realize what volunteering had to do with achieving her goals. She is busy working and living as usual, and only when she is in class will she do some volunteer service, and even if she does, she will complete it as an ordinary task. With a desire to succeed, she signed up for one seed system after another, and appeared in the volunteer service team that was set up again and again. The project leader saw her positivity with "clumsiness" and began to mentor her. For example, teach her how to relax and volunteer; How to set motivation and combine volunteer service with personal goals... Finally, one day, she found her own role model to learn and practice, and there was a strong force in her heart that supported her and began to be more proactive in volunteer work. In the seed law, there is a very important tool called the four steps. The first step is to find someone who has the same goal as himself, that is, a seed partner; The second step is to make a plan to help each other; The third step is to act according to the plan; The fourth step is to be happy about the good things you've done. In this system, all goals can be achieved in four steps. Liang Cuiling was like a nuclear weapon that had achieved a goal, and began to use it to solve the problems encountered in the work.
Following the steps of this tool, she treats the client as her seed partner and serves wholeheartedly. Liang Cuiling found that every time she was fully committed to volunteering, the whole process would be very happy. Different from the short-term satisfaction at work, this happiness is like a wave of water in the heart, and it cannot be dissipated for a long time. Even when you think back, you will obviously feel a smile in the corner of your mouth. She experienced a deep sense of joy. At the same time, she was originally dissatisfied with her work status but had no ability to fight back, but she also slowly found that many troubles in life can actually be solved by using the seed law. Liang Cuiling changed. Before, she was extremely busy and nervous, often fretted by things at work, full of complaints and anger. Now, she is happy every day, more focused, more relaxed, not only that, but her relationship with her colleagues is also much more harmonious. Everyone was very supportive of her, the work became very smooth, and there was no longer a need to scramble to find someone to help temporarily save the scene. As her work becomes more and more efficient and fulfilling, Liang Cuiling is also able to calm down and do what she wants to do. She began to truly understand that the negative feelings that had been brought about by her work did not come from the work itself, but from herself. And this also verifies the core idea brought to us by the law of seeds - all external people and things do not come from things themselves, but from ourselves.
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