I always feel that a woman with a lot of experience, a woman with a lot of stories, an independent woman, she is naturally beautiful and full of charm. --Lu Qiu Luwei
Although in this new era everyone emphasizes the equality of men and women, in some respects the requirements of women seem to be more stringent, and women are often affected by identity limitations, external pressures, and the evaluation of others. But many people forget that being yourself and living the life you want is the most important thing.
We are daughters, we can be wives, we can be mothers, but we are ourselves first. Daughters don't necessarily have to obey their parents' arrangements, wives don't have to surround the stove, and mothers don't have to give up their careers for their children. If we want to, we can do every role well, and if we don't want to, we can not be any role and just be ourselves.
Actress Yu Feihong has become the best version of herself.
Nortel School Flowers Maverick
Yu Feihong was born in the gentle and beautiful Hangzhou, her parents are high-achieving students, the family literary atmosphere is rich, the enchanting and beautiful Hangzhou water will raise her beautiful and colorful, but her personality is not like a gentle beauty, on the contrary, some ghost horse elves, from a young age she has her own ideas.
Father from childhood to her very strict but very careful way, he does not suppress the child's nature, just teach her to cultivate morality, it is rumored that when she was a child, Yu Feihong was curious about the structure of the fan to tear it down, and the father did not harshly rebuke him, the father's education method had a profound impact on her.
Her appearance advantage made her selected as a young actor when she was in elementary school, and although her parents did not approve of it, she also agreed with her own insistence and the persuasion of the crew. Since then, Yu Feihong has filmed a number of film and television dramas, and she has gained unprecedented freedom and happiness in acting.
So Yu Feihong did something that seemed very stupid to outsiders, she had been admitted to college, she gave up her studies and decided to re-apply for the Beijing Film Academy, and her parents were also very angry, but they did not interfere too much, but patiently communicated with their daughter and handed over the decision to their daughter.
Yu Feihong firmly in his heart, resolutely and resolutely admitted nortel, at that time, there was also a little episode, she accidentally infected with hepatitis A on the way back to participate in the Nortel interview, needed isolation treatment, when it was about to take the college entrance examination, so the hospital gave the green light, accommodated for 3 days, and returned to the hospital for treatment after the examination.
After many tribulations, Yu Feihong became a Nortel student, in the beautiful nortel, her appearance is not inferior, known as Nortel School Flower, and later in her junior year, through the introduction of friends, she participated in the Chinese-American Wang Ying's movie "Happy Luck Club".
In the movie, she was praised by everyone for her remarkable performance, and more resources found her, but she faced many acting invitations, and once again made an act that everyone did not understand, she refused the opportunity of big red, returned to Nortel as a teaching assistant, and also cooperated with Andy Lau in the film.
After becoming a teaching assistant, she was not satisfied with the status quo, she quit her job as a teaching assistant and went to study at the University of California, Los Angeles. After 3 years of study, there are still many resources to find her, which is still an unexpected choice, and she has chosen to play a "little three" in "Holding Hands" in many roles.
You know, even if the little three in the play are very good, they gain a lot of insults, and even the better they act, the more they scold. But Yu Feihong chose this role just because he liked it and felt that he was suitable. In this play, she portrayed the character into a three-point, vivid and vivid, and the audience praised her.
Subsequently, she also played the amazing fairy in "Little Li Flying Knife", and she already had a place in the show business circle that she began to turn to the director's circle, because she was interested in the plot of the novel, and with the support of her friend Wang Shuo, she began to direct and shoot film and television herself.
This research is 10 years, and she spent 10 years of painstaking efforts to shoot the movie "Love Has an Afterlife". She has been insisting on love, there are several 10 years in her life, it is admirable to spend 10 years for a movie, although the income benefit is much different from the investment, but the reputation is very good, and Yu Feihong also won the award.
From giving up your studies to pursue your dreams again, refusing to listen to resources from your heart, to studying abroad, choosing the roles you like, and then to working hard for movies. What could have been smooth sailing in life became tortuous in Yu Feihong's choice, but it was full of meaning. She is maverick, her thoughts are jumping, and she has also gained a lot, such a beautiful, independent and strange woman, and her emotional life has also attracted much attention.
Emotional issues Unique insights
Yu Feihong, who is now 51 years old, still maintains a cold girlish feeling, and what makes everyone regret is that until now she still has not had a happy marriage, and she herself, her view of marriage is also very different, she believes that marriage is not a necessity, she prefers freedom to the shackles of marriage. Live your own little life alone.
She was asked about marriage, and she also admitted that although she was not married, she had her own fixed partner, but she did not want everyone to pay too much attention, she thought that her film and television works were made for everyone to see and let everyone judge. But emotional issues are her personal ones, and in private life, she doesn't want to get much attention.
In fact, Yu Feihong has always been sought after in terms of feelings, and during her college years, she was popular because of her high appearance, and many classmates and even boys outside the school wanted to know her. In the face of many suitors, Yu Feihong was not moved, she focused on her studies, and everyone thought of many ways to see Yu Feihong.
It is reported that there is also a suitor in order to see Yu Feihong while walking more than 500 kilometers on the train, Yu Feihong is very moved, but she understands that touching is not love, and the two have not passed out any good stories. After officially stepping into the show business circle, Yu Feihong also met two important men in her life. But the relationship only stops at friends.
The first is to meet Wang Shuo at the celebration banquet of "Holding Hands", Wang Shuo was shocked by Yu Feihong's beauty, and after that, he not only tailored the role of "Amazing Hong Immortal" for her, the film directed by Yu Feihong was successfully completed with the encouragement and help of Wang Shuo, Wang Shuo responded to Yu Feihong's needs, Yu Feihong also spoke highly of him, and the two were two-way friendship.
The second man is Dou Wentao, compared to the contact at work, the personal relationship between the two of them is deeper, if Wang Shuo is Bole is a confidant, then Dou Wentao is a "blue face girlfriend", the two often talk to each other, accompanied by each other when the mood is low. The two have reported gossip many times, but for the relationship between the two, the mystery is broken, and netizens have not waited for further development.
epilogue
Now Yu Feihong, still methodically doing what she loves, not hyping up and not comparing, emotionally still maintaining her attitude, netizens said that she lived out her best appearance.
Maybe the rhythm of her life is not what we want, but her attitude to life should be what we have to learn, a long way, throughout her life, no matter what role we become, but we only do ourselves.