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Once. Singer Zheng Jun and his wife Liu Yun cook at home, because Zheng Jun's life experience is not very sufficient, when cooking, he is busy, which provokes Liu Yun to be unhappy and has a lot of complaints, because he is dissatisfied with Zheng Jun, he speaks louder, it sounds a bit like a quarrel
At that time, their son was also next to him, when he saw his mother yelling at his father, his son was not happy, he looked at his mother's face for a while and found that his mother was still like this, and then the son went around behind Zheng Jun, walked behind his mother Liu Yun, and after thinking for two seconds, he suddenly hit his body with his head, and it looked like the collision was quite hard
02
At that time, Liu Yun was very strange and asked his son what was wrong? The son's answer was: You just said my father
Seeing this, everyone found that the son was reluctant to train his father with his mother, although Zheng Jun also explained that there was no just talking about things. But the son still insists that his mother can't use that attitude...
03
It is this small scene that makes people feel warm in their hearts. Have couples with children experienced this as well? If two husband and wife argue in front of the child or talk louder, the child will think that you are quarreling, they will be very sad, although he does not persuade adults to stop, but they will really be sad
Introverted children may skim their lips and silently cry, extroverted children will be like Zheng Jun and their sons, using violence to stop the strong side, in fact, adults often think that children do not understand things, in front of her to say what is not important, but in fact, children know more than you think, to understand more
04
Xiaoba believes that today Liu Yunxun Zheng Jun will be hit by his son, if one day Zheng Jun also trains Liu Yun in this way, I believe that his son will also bump into his father, because in the eyes of children, whether fathers or mothers should not be treated like this, really, in fact, many children love us more than adults imagine
Seeing this, I remembered an interview that Faye Wong gave in her early years, when a host asked her, do you think you have to explain your divorce to your children? Faye Wong's attitude is: Of course
05
Faye Wong feels that if two people decide on a good thing, if the child is more sensible, then adults must take care of the child's psychology in dealing with the issue of divorce, such as parents can not quarrel in front of the child, or a very unpleasant thing happens
Children's hearts are fragile, and they are sensitive to the love of their parents and mothers. Faye Wong's point of view is that we should pay attention to the way and skills of communicating with children
06
Seriously, not many parents can carefully observe this side of the child, just like the news said, a child with depression, he and his parents spend a day together, the heart will have 100 suicidal thoughts, but none of the parents will find out
Because of carelessness, we always ignore their subtle thoughts, the chin feels that parents who know how to get along well in front of children will be easier to provide a warm and loving living environment for their children, and children who grow up surrounded by love must be sunshine and easier to perceive happiness in their hearts, and they also know how to love others
epilogue
Every child comes into the world is a blank sheet of paper, his personality, level of gratitude and the way he treats others have a lot to do with his parents' education and life atmosphere, what do you think?