Dear friends, what is your ideal?
The ideal of Osaka sauce is simple and rough,
That is economic independence, becoming a rich woman!
Today Osaka sauce tells the story of a Japanese woman,
It should be the driving force for many sisters
Because I can't stand gender discrimination in Japan,
She fled the United States for 30 years.
Obsessed with the work you love,
Won the President's Award in an industry that was once dominated by men!
Monthly salary rose to 15 times what it was originally in Japan,
Finally, he returned to his hometown and returned to Japan to buy his own house.
Find a boyfriend and enjoy a sweet love~
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The Japanese variety show "Can I Go to Your House" meets a middle-aged man and woman on the street, who have just finished eating and drinking at an izakaya and are on their way home.
Originally, Osaka Sauce thought they should be husband and wife, but in fact, they were a couple who had lived together for five or six years, and they did not register their marriage
Uncles and aunts' homes were at Kichijoji Temple, and on the way home they briefly introduced themselves.
The uncle, 59, is the president of a news agency.
The eldest aunt is named Yukimi, who is two years older than the uncle (yo, or sister-brother love~), previously worked in the United States, and retired back to Japan.
Their home is in an upscale apartment, and just from the outside it looks grand.
So the photography brother asked: Is this apartment bought by two people for half of each?
Yukimi replied: "This is my home." The price is to buy several imported cars Oh ~
And because she is not loan-ism, it is paid in cash!! (Cows!) Rich Sister!! ）
On the side, her boyfriend Hasegawa smiled and squinted: This is not my home, I moved in silently
However, the daily expenses of meals and utilities after cohabitation are all AA systems.
The other two people's income assets are completely separate, each does not know how much money the other has, and if they want something, they buy it with their own money.
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Although they live together, the two do not insist on accommodating each other, but the mode of "seeking common ground while reserving differences".
For example, there are two TVs in the living room of the home, and two people watch one each. Because in the United States for more than 30 years, Yukimi has long been accustomed to watching foreign programs, and her boyfriend Hasegawa does not know English, so he simply watches each other.
The clothes are also washed separately.
Here is a little fun fact, the washing machine at home is made in Germany, and the buttons on it are all standard German.
Hasegawa said that when he first started using it, he didn't know how to use it. For about half a year, I found out how the clothes were dirty and smelly after washing.
Later, I realized that I did not press the button of "automatically put laundry detergent", resulting in only water for clothes for half a year.
The housework part is the part that each of them is good at.
For example, the bathroom cleaning is done by her boyfriend Hasegawa, who cleans it once a week.
Yukimi was in charge of cooking, and her boyfriend Hasegawa praised her cooking as delicious, "I couldn't imagine that she had been in the United States for 30 years and could still make Japanese food so delicious." ”
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Speaking of which, the photography guy asked about Yukimi's experience of living in the United States.
Yukimi said that she was originally a university student in Japan, and at that time, the "Equal Employment Opportunity Law for Men and Women" had not yet come out, and women worked very simply, unless they were very good researchers, most of the women were generally working to serve tea and pour water.
The young woman did not want to bury herself, so at the age of 21, she made up her mind to study in the United States, which was 30 years.
In the United States, Yukimi works for a game company, mainly responsible for changing Japanese games to English and turning them into products suitable for American culture, and the games he handles are Popular IP such as Pokémon and Mario.
Yukimi confessed that when she was young, the game industry was really a patriarchal society, and she once encountered a meeting when the other party said to her face, "Talking to women about this kind of thing is just a waste of time." ”
But she always believes that hard work will be rewarded accordingly. After that, she concentrated on her work, and did not have time to care about feelings and marriage.
She worked for the well-known game company SEGA (Sega Corporation) for about 6 years and won the President's Award from SEGA!
And her salary has also doubled from the same level as the Japanese recent graduates at the beginning to 15 times!
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In 2014, Yukimi, who was in her 50s, wanted to enjoy her life and chose to return to Japan.
When she first returned to China, Yukimi was invited by her old classmates to play at her own izakaya, and Hasegawa was a regular visitor to this family sake house, and the two got to know each other.
The two of them found out that Hasegawa's hometown was Kokubun-ji Temple, and Yukimi was a junior high school student at Kokubun-ji Temple, and it turned out to be a fellow countryman! When the fellow saw the fellow, the two tears flowed, and the relationship between them suddenly pulled in a lot.
Later, Hasegawa and Yukimi often went to the tavern together for a drink. Once the two of them drank very late, Hasegawa missed the last train home, there was no way but to go to Yukimi's house for one night, of course, this time is very pure to sleep apart Ha.
As everyone knows, this is to lure the "wolf" into the room, and then Hasegawa likes to stay at Yukimi's house after drinking like an addiction, and then little by little marks in Yukimi's house, intentionally or unintentionally leaving his belongings. (Oh man, it's definitely premeditated!) ）
Finally sensing that something was wrong, Yukimi asked him, "What are you doing here?!" ”
Hasegawa replied, "It's very comfortable here. ”
Yukimi asked, "You like me, don't you?" ”
Hasegawa said, "Maybe it's like this." ”
In this regard, Yukimi's home was completely invaded by Hasegawa! Yukimi felt incredible on the one hand, and at the same time felt very happy with him, this was the first time she had spent so much time with the same person, and felt the happiness of being in love at the age of 20 or 30.
After living together for 7 years, the two still have no intention of getting married.
Yukimi explains, "If you get married, you have to save like this, you have to make a plan, and it takes too much thought. "She likes to live happily every day, without spending a lot of effort, without thinking too much about the state
They are a couple, also like a two-person team.
Living together, traveling around together, going for a walk in the park together at night, chasing Netflix TV series together, drinking and eating together, having the same feelings and the same values, these ordinary daily lives are happy moments for them, so it doesn't matter if they don't get a license
It was so sweet for them to look at each other and smile at the time of this passage!! Woohoo, bring Zheng's dog food!
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