In November 2010, a sudden public lawyer's letter caused Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei to attract public attention again.
Less than a year after the marriage of the two was declared broken, Sun Nan suddenly "repented halfway" and sued the red sister in court.
Not only refused to pay the original agreed maintenance, but also demanded that the red sister hand over the custody of the child.
The ancients said: "a day husband and wife for a hundred days", even if it is a couple who are separated halfway, at least they must be well together and scattered.
However, Sun Nan suddenly "turned his face" after the two were separated for a year, making the scene so embarrassing.
As netizens commented, it is true that some are "not very men".
It is precisely because of this that after the incident broke out, Sun Nan immediately aroused the disgust of the masses and removed countless powders overnight.
However, in this situation of one-sided public opinion,
Sun Nan suddenly broke the "inside story" that was not disclosed when the two divorced.
It is not he who destroys the marriage between the two, but the one who buys the red sister,
It is precisely because of the "cheating" of buying Red Sister that he chose to divorce when he could not bear it.
As soon as this remark came out, it immediately caused a sensation,
You know, at that time, when the two divorced, buying a red sister has been treated as a victim by everyone.
But now that this conclusion has suddenly been "reversed", who can not be shocked?
In 2011, Sun Nan reconciled with Mai Hongmei, and the custody of the two children was finally taken over by Sun Nan.
At this point, in the marriage between the two, the last comfort of buying red sister was also ruthlessly taken away by Sun Nan.
However, time has passed, and now more than a decade has passed,
Looking back, things have changed completely.
After walking through this story, Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei also finally reached different ends, which is a world of difference at this moment!
So, was the thing that year really as Sun Nan said, the responsibility of buying the red sister?
After that, how did they go through this decade?
01
In 1993, at the CCTV gala, Buy Hongmei became popular with the sketch "Little Nanny" cooperated with Wei Ji'an.
After this night, the whole country knew the humorous and funny beauty of Buy Red Sister, and Sun Nan was no exception.
However, unlike others, Sun Nan looked at the red sister on the stage and had an extremely "bold" idea.
Only to see him, he turned his head and smiled at his mother on the side:
"Mom, see this beautiful girl, this is the daughter-in-law I found for you!"
In 1970, Mai Hongmei was born in an ordinary family in Pingdingshan, Henan Province, and moved her family to the northwest when she was in elementary school.
Like most ordinary people at that time, from an early age, the parents who bought the red sister hoped that she could join the army in the future.
So, in 1984, when she was 14 years old, she enlisted in the army and became a soldier in an art troupe.
However, due to the relatively young age, the performance experience is not enough,
In the first few years, buying a red girl did not have many performance opportunities.
(Buy Red Sister when you were young)
Fortunately, heaven never treats everyone who works hard, and buying Red Sister confirms the phrase "the harder you work, the luckier you get" with actions.
At an important performance, a sketch actor who was the lead actor suddenly had diarrhea and could not go on stage.
So I bought a red sister and got a rare performance opportunity under this coincidence,
And in this performance, she seems to be very calm, not timid at all,
Even the head of the performance praised it in particular.
It is precisely because of this, through this test, the buy red sister finally got the attention in the art troupe,
Later, he was also recommended to be admitted to the People's Liberation Army Art Academy, became a student of military art, and has since embarked on the fast lane of life.
Like buying a smooth life for Red Sister, Sun Nan's road to fame is also quite smooth.
In 1992, Sun Nan quit the Dalian Song and Dance Troupe and went to Hong Kong to develop.
In order to quickly become famous, he chose to join the Hong Kong Art Energy Animation Company and became colleagues with Andy Lau, Leung Chao-wai and others.
In the following years, Sun Nan showed his outstanding creative talent,
Rao is that his appearance is not outstanding, but his talent is enough to support his foothold in Hong Kong.
And because he always has two versions of Mandarin and Hong Kong when he writes songs, he sings Mandarin himself and gives the Hong Kong language to others.
This also made him meet a lot of "big guy" friends like Li Keqin and Gu Juji.
(Gu Juji and Sun Nan)
In 1996, Sun Nan returned with a song "Red Flag Fluttering" and entered the mainland market.
Unlike the obscurity he left, he is already a shining new star at this moment.
In 1997, Sun Nan landed at the Spring Festival Gala, and instantly became popular all over the country.
The following year, he caused a sensation in Asia with a music album "Meet Sun Nan".
Even Liu Huan bluntly said after hearing it that he was "jealous" of him, and Han Hong also praised him as a "strength singer".
However, compared with these achievements, there is a more important dream in Sun Nan's heart.
It turned out that when he was just an unknown little singer, he had inadvertently glimpsed the figure of buying red sister on TV.
After that, it sinks into it and can never be forgotten.
At that time, he boasted to his mother that he wanted to marry back the red sister.
Although he has never mentioned this matter in Hong Kong for so many years, it does not mean that he has given up.
He has been burying this dream in his heart, waiting for the day when he can take root and sprout,
And now, he finally waited for this opportunity.
02
In 2000, Sun Nan finally got the opportunity to buy a red sister "face base".
On a certain show, he first saw buy red sister in reality,
He was surprised to find that this girl was actually a typical "unpresicative" face, and she was even more beautiful and moving in reality.
This made Sun Nan more determined to marry the other party.
On Sun Nan's initiative, after just a few hours, he and The Two Sisters became close friends who talked about everything.
From the perspective of buying red sister, she was very surprised that this man knew her so well.
Obviously, the first time they met, it seemed like a close friend who had been together for many years.
Obviously, she did not know that the Sun Nan in front of her had been secretly in love with her for several years.
When he was about to separate, Sun Nan finally said the words that he had been holding back for a long time.
Only to see him solemnly look into the eyes of the red sister: "Red sister, can you marry me?" ”
At that time, the buy red sister only joked with the other party, and smiled and nodded in agreement.
But what she didn't expect was that the next day, Sun Nan actually took the household registration book to find her.
Only then did she understand that the man was serious.
For the other girls, a boy who had only known each other for less than a day confessed to himself.
It is inevitable that this boy will feel a little rash.
But probably because of the experience of staying on the grassland when she was a child, the red sister who bought it was accustomed to the straight-forward love of the herders.
On the contrary, he felt that Sun Nan dared to love and hate, and was very manly.
Therefore, she also turned out the household registration book and decided to accompany Sun Nan to "go crazy" again.
In 2000, Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei entered the palace of marriage together.
Perhaps due to fear of gossip, the two did not have a public relationship in the first year of their marriage.
Even if some careful media found some clues, the two also gave clarification at the first time.
However, "the paper can not contain the fire after all".
After hiding it for more than a year, Sun Nan finally took the initiative to open up the relationship between the two.
Because at this time, they had the crystallization of love - buying Baoyao.
It is said that after a woman has a family, it is inevitable that she will involuntarily put her energy into the family, like buying a red sister.
In those years, Sun Nan was in the ascendancy of her career, and she had to catch up with announcements from all over the country almost every day, and she had no time to take care of her family.
Therefore, buying a red sister had to put down her own affairs and turn to the family,
Later, it was fortunate to directly "retire" to the show business circle,
So much so that during that time, there was also a hot search on the Internet: "Where did the red sister go?" ”
In fact, in the love between Sun Nan and buying red sister, buying red sister is obviously the party that pays the most.
Although Sun Nan was the first to confess, buying Red Sister later became a passive party.
(Buy Red Sister and Daughter Buy Baoyao)
After Sun Nan proposed marriage that year, they thought of preparing for a grand wedding.
But at that time, Sun Nan did not save any money at all, so it was inevitable that he would be a little stretched when facing such a big event.
Just when Sun Nan felt extremely embarrassed, he still bought a red sister to help him break the siege.
In the face of this man who is about to become her husband, The Red Sister generously says that she has no money and is fine, she has money.
Finally, the two entered the palace of marriage as scheduled.
But on the day of the official marriage, Sun Nan only showed up because he received a notice, and got up to leave.
The disciple left the red sister alone to cope with the visiting guests, toasted everywhere, and broke the siege for Sun Nan.
I think that attending such a wedding with only a bride is a rare thing for those guests!
However, for these grievances, buying red sisters does not feel anything.
In her opinion, two people together always have to compromise with each other and be considerate of each other.
Sun Nan works hard for her livelihood, so what is she doing for her family?
But at that time, she did not know that it was this concession and connivance that eventually led to her tragedy.
03
As a virtuous wife, buy red sister every time Sun Nan goes out,
He will always carefully organize his clothes and encourage him to work hard.
But she didn't know that Sun Nan did go out and work hard, but not for work.
Most of the time, Sun Nan is trying to play golf.
It turned out that after marrying Buy Hongmei, Sun Nan fell in love with the sport of golf because of his friend Qi Qin.
Even later, at one point, it reached the point of "madness".
When facing the camera, Sun Nan once proudly shared his experience of playing golf.
"When I first started playing, I didn't play very well.
But I am more diligent, setting a goal of 1,000 goals a day, and not going home until I finish playing! ”
When a reporter asked if family, music and golf were more important in his life.
Sun Nan answered the golf without hesitation.
"If my body allows me, I'm going to fight until I'm ninety!"
Sun Nan's love, I am afraid that even golf professionals will feel ashamed of themselves!
Unlike Sun Nan's dashing, buying red sisters is living more and more tired.
Sun Nan can go out to play golf every morning at dawn, go home after dark, and then fall asleep.
Can buy red sister can not do, she faces every day, not only has a child who has been crying, but also can never finish the housework,
And these, no easier than work, are enough to drag down a woman.
Under this pressure, but can not get half of the comfort of the husband, buying a red sister is inevitably a little depressed,
Later, recalling that time, buying Red Sister said:
"He and I don't look like a couple, we're more like a co-tenant who live together!"
And all this accumulation of depression, finally in the purchase of red sister for the second pregnancy, completely exploded.
In 2007, buy red sister for the second pregnancy.
But Sun Nan still goes his own way every day, and in addition to work, the rest of the time is still all about golf.
Looking at her husband's behavior, Buy Hongmei finally couldn't resist the grievances in her heart and quarreled with Sun Nan.
In the face of the anger of buying red sisters, Sun Nan was shocked,
In his opinion, the wife has always been a very gentle type, how can it suddenly be grumpy?
He didn't understand how his wife, who had once been so understanding, had suddenly become like this.
However, Sun Nan can't understand, and won't think about it.
What is it that makes buying red sister into a "yellow-faced woman" who makes him extremely annoying.
In 2008, the second child of the buy red sister was born.
But Sun Nan did not have the joy of being a father, nor did she have the joy of being a mother when she bought a red sister.
For that period of life, Buy Red Sister only wants to use the three words of "mess" to describe.
Originally, a child had already made her heart tired, not to mention that now there was an additional one?
Therefore, buying a red sister just finished coaxing the big one every day, and had to go to the small one non-stop.
When both were coaxed, the dishes on the stove were mushy again.
And when Sun Nan came home, when he looked at a table of "confused" dishes, he would complain to her: "Even this little thing can't be done well!" ”
In 2009, when Sun Nan played a game, he met Pan Wei, the host of a golf tournament.
Looking at the other party's youthful and energetic appearance, Sun Nan inevitably did not feel angry.
At that time, he was already tired of buying the appearance of the red sister "yellow-faced woman", so he boldly confessed to Pan Wei.
Just like he did when he bought the red sister.
At that time, how could the red sister not think,
A husband who once loved him so much would transfer his tenderness to another person.
Sun Nan's relationship with Pan Wei progressed very quickly,
So much so that when a divorce agreement was placed in front of the red sister, the latter was completely ignorant.
She didn't understand what she had done wrong to make her husband centrifuge.
She began to hold on and began to plead, hoping that Sun Nan would give her another chance for the sake of her two children.
Sun Nan, who can fall in love, will care about the feelings of a "stranger"?
So he waved a big hand and gave thirty million in cash and five houses of assets.
"These are my chips to redeem my freedom!"
It turned out that for Sun Nan, this unhappy relationship had long since become a shackle and a cage.
"All right."
This time, buying red sister did not refuse, looking at Sun Nan showed a smile of "sure enough", buy red sister also could not help but smile.
If so, then it is too impolite to love again.
04
In 2009, Sun Nan and Buy Hongmei agreed to divorce, and not long after, the former married Pan Weixi.
After leaving Sun Nan, Mai Hongmei chose to be alone and take care of her two children alone.
Although Sun Nan promised thirty million in breakup fees when she divorced, such a large amount of money transfer obviously takes a long time.
In the years of living with Sun Nan, the savings before buying the red sister have long been subsidized by the family and exhausted.
So the red sister who had no financial resources had to "go out of the mountain" again and began to return to the show business circle.
However, Jean Buy HongMei did not expect that it was her move that actually gave Sun Nan an opportunity to take advantage of it.
In 2010, Sun Nan took his ex-wife To hongmei to court with a piece of paper.
On the grounds that the other party was busy with work, he asked the court to photograph the child to him.
Probably to create momentum, Sun Nan said in an interview with the media before the trial,
It was not she who broke the marriage between the two, but the ex-wife who bought the red sister.
The various evidences that followed pushed the buying red sister to the cusp of the storm.
Obviously, this time Sun Nan was prepared.
And this also made the buy red sister be pushed into the abyss.
"It was probably the hardest day of my life, and I once had the idea of taking my own life."
Later, the red sister recalled that at that time, she still had some difficulties.
She couldn't have imagined that the man who had once said he loved her would do such a great job.
She is tired, really do not want to tangle, love to this point, in addition to the old and dead do not interact with each other, where is the other ending?
Therefore, The red sister gave the eldest daughter who was already sensible to Sun Nan, and the younger son who was not yet sensible was taken by her side.
After all, the child's world view is given by the parents, and she hopes that she will accompany the child through this road.
And their relationship is also marked with an end.
Since then, Sun Nan and Mai Hongmei have opened their own different lives.
In 2011, Buy Hongmei partnered with "Dongzi" Guo Donglin and returned to the Spring Festival Gala stage to announce his return.
In this year, Sun Nan and Pan Wei also had a new love crystal for each other.
Obviously, both men have a "bright" future.
Later, buy more and more red sister films,
Like "Look Up and See Joy", "Double Happiness Yingmen" and so on, her fans have also re-gathered.
Although the fame is not growing fast, it is good to go steadily step by step.
This state is not much better than running up and falling on the heel.
In 2015, this year was a "watershed" for Sun Nan in his career.
In this year, a variety show of "I Am a Singer 3" sent him to the peak of his career, but it also made him fall to the bottom.
The "sudden withdrawal" in that final, which did not care about the feelings of others, discredited him.
At one point, there was a very stiff fight with the mango station, as a staff member said at the time:
"He never seems to know gratitude, doesn't care about others, and he feels that his success is taken for granted!"
Indeed, those who have strength will be respected by others,
But if you blindly consume the good of others, you will one day be abandoned by everyone.
Since then, Sun Nan has rarely seen news.
And the only time he returned, he was "scolded" by everyone.
In 2019, a news of "Sun Nan sent her daughter to female Durban" appeared on the hot search.
Although Sun Nan denied it extremely, he always said that it was just a "Chinese studies class", but netizens found that something was wrong.
"Husbands are wives, women should give everything in marriage, marriage and children are the natural obligations of women" and so on.
These various words and phrases reveal that this "Chinese studies class" is not simple.
In the face of the surging public opinion, Sun Nan's new wife Pan Wei stood up to excuse her husband:
"This is for the good of the child, this is to lay the foundation for her future life, she will definitely be a good wife and a good mother in the future!"
But when netizens asked if she also sent her children to study with her "sister", she suddenly lost her voice.
Because everyone knows that Sun Nan and Pan Wei's children are not around them, but study abroad.
Not long ago, the "Hui Orange Network" that Sun Nan had endorsed was investigated for illegally sucking funds, and Sun Nan was also scolded on the hot search.
Many netizens have accused him: "What kind of rotten money must be earned!" ”
But in fact, receiving such an advertisement is really Sun Nan's helpless move, after all, he has not been satisfied with the past two years.
For most musicians, opening concerts and going to the cave is undoubtedly the main source of income.
However, in the past two years, due to the epidemic, many activities have been forced to cancel, and the natural income is much worse than before.
And this is also the reason why Sun Nan has been crazy about taking variety shows in the past two years,
Among them, "Praise for The Song" is still a stage based on "competition", which can be compared with the "I Am a Singer 3" at that time,
The attitude of claiming to "give up the opportunity to young people and not want music to be relatively high" is very different.
Unlike Sun Nan, who has been controversial, buying a red sister has become more and more smooth over the years.
After experiencing a period of sinking, Buy Hongmei started her life again and began to contact new feelings.
And this also brought her another man who loved her- Sun Yulun.
Although he is an outsider who loves music,
And his musical attainments may be far inferior to Sun Nan's, but his love for buying red sisters is not weak at all.
Although there is not much news about the two getting along on the Internet now,
But occasionally revealed in the photos of the two playing, the smile that bought the red sister from the heart is definitely not fake.
She, now, is really happy to live.
Actually, life is like this,
On the road of life, we will inevitably meet people who make us sad, encounter things that make us sad,
But if you have been struggling with these things, you can't get out of these sorrows,
Then life will be as difficult as carrying a heavy burden.
As Mai Hong mei said: "The best way to retaliate against a person is to live better than him."
So, friend, if there is something or someone that makes you sad, don't stop for it, please be bold and go forward.
You, deserve better!