Recently, some netizens posted behind-the-scenes photos of Pu Cunxin, Xu Fan and other stars on social platforms.
On that day, it may be due to modeling and other reasons, Pu Cunxin's brain door is too bright and slippery, it seems that the face is somewhat puffy, making people call out "unrecognizable".
In recent years, Pu Cunxin is mainly active in the drama stage, rarely film and television works, he has also laughed at himself: "I have no chance, film and television works do not have my work, and the things I act are not watched." ”
But what we want to say is that every role played by Pu Cunxin has always been alive, and it is still amazing to turn it out a few years later.
In October 2021, the famous performance artist Pu Cunxin turned 68 years old, and his granddaughters were 7 years old.
In his old age, he still has to do filial piety to his elderly mother. Five years ago, Pu Cunxin's father Su Min died of illness, and his mother Jia Quan suffered from Alzheimer's disease due to excessive grief. With love and filial piety, Pu Cunxin helped the old mother create the miracle of life...
Pu Cunxin recites "Farewell to Kangqiao"
Pu Cunxin was born in Beijing in 1953, and his father Su Min (formerly known as Pu Sixun) was a famous actor and director of the Beijing People's Art Theatre.
In 1986, after Pu Cunxin transferred from the Air Politics Repertory Theatre, he entered the Beijing Renyi work.
He and his father were both colleagues and close friends, and they talked about everything.
Grief flows into a river: the mother suddenly suffers from Alzheimer's disease
Early in the morning of February 23, 2016, Pu Cunxin received a call from his mother:
"Your dad has no strength and a few lumps on his body."
Her mother's voice was urgent and anxious, and Pu Cunxin's heart couldn't help but tighten.
Half an hour later, Pu Cunxin appeared next to his father, Su Min.
I saw the old father wearing a down jacket and a thick cotton hat crooked at the head of the bed, and his eyes were unable to open.
Pu Cunxin did not say a word, and went downstairs with his father on his back, and his mouth turned over and over to comfort him:
"Dad, don't be afraid, there's me."
Pu Cunxin rushed his father to the hospital.
In the emergency room, the doctor gave Su Min first aid, and his condition improved.
The doctor told Pu Cunxin:
The patient developed diabetic complications and required hospitalization.
Pu Cunxin's heart was as heavy as lead...
On the occasion of his father's death, Pu Cunxin put his face on his father's emaciated face and said with tears, "Daddy, I love you."
Su Min was speechless at that time, and two lines of tears welled up in his eyes.
In a "I love you" uttered by Pu Cunxin, his father closed his eyes peacefully.
Due to old age and organ failure, in the early morning of August 28, 2016, Su Min died peacefully in his sleep at home at the age of 89.
The death of his father brought grief and devastation to the family...
In particular, Pu Cunxin's mother, Jia Quan, has been with her wife for more than 60 years, and now her heart is empty.
In just a few days, Pu Mu seemed to have changed into a person: emaciated, gaunt, insomnia, anorexia, and reluctance to go out.
In order to help her mother get rid of the grief of widowhood, Pu Cunxin accompanied her to reminisce about the warm years she had walked with her father.
Who knows, the more he talks about his father's past, the more sad his mother is.
On October 19, 2016, Pu Mu pulled out more than 10 photos with her wife from a drawer and said to Pu Cunxin:
"If I leave one day, please let me take these pictures with me, and I'll look at them with your dad in another world."
The mother's pessimism and negativity stung Pu Cunxin's heart.
Pu Mu's state was getting worse and worse, and she often looked at a place with fascination and muttered to herself.
On October 27, Pu Cunxin ordered a bowl of green onion noodles for his mother.
The mother looked at him in shock and asked hoarsely:
"Who are you?" How's it going to be in my house?"
How did the mother suddenly become like this?
Back then, my mother was shrewd and capable, was the backbone of the bank of China's business, and was the advanced unit every year.
Pu Cunxin did not dare to be sloppy, and when he took his mother to the hospital.
The doctor asked Pu Cunxin about the before and after the onset of the old man's illness, and after a one-on-one communication with Pu's mother, he responsibly said to Pu Cunxin:
"Your mother has Alzheimer's disease, commonly known as Alzheimer's disease."
At present, there is no mature treatment for the disease, and Pu Cunxin has to take a lot of medicines for her mother and let her go home to maintain treatment.
That night, Pu Cunxin called his sister and brother to his mother's house, and the sisters and brothers discussed taking care of their mother.
The three decided to take turns caring for their mother for two weeks each.
Sister Pu Ye said that she was the boss and should be held responsible first.
The next day, she brought a change of clothes from home and moved to her mother's house.
Pu Ye was a professor at the Capital University of Economics and Business before his retirement, and he was 66 years old.
She suffers from occupational diseases, a bad throat, knees, and high blood pressure.
Every morning at 6 o'clock, Pu Ye got up to take care of his mother's three meals a day, bathed her mother, combed her hair, cleaned her, and was busy until 10 o'clock in the evening.
My mother slept less, often sleeping at 1 a.m., and Pu Ye had to accompany her.
After holding on for two weeks, Pu Ye's body could not eat.
After Pu Ye left, he should have been taken care of by Pu Cunxin, but he rehearsed a drama in Beijing Renyi for several days, and his brother came to be on duty.
The younger brother's son died of illness a few years earlier, because the blow was too great, the younger brother's health has been not good, and he has been tired after taking care of his mother for 10 days.
If the sister and brother had any accidents because of the care of their mother, the family would be even more chaotic.
Pu Cunxin said to his sister and brother:
"You don't have to take turns taking care of your mother in the future, just come to see her once in a while, and Wanping and I will take on this responsibility."
The sisters and brothers did not want to go, but they were really unable to do so, so they had to agree.
Filial piety is passed down from generation to generation: a family takes turns
Pumu's house is a small two-bedroom apartment of more than 60 square meters, with no elevator.
Mr. and Mrs. Pu Cunxin lived in the second bedroom, which was piled high with clothes, boxes and books.
Pu Mu is usually quieter, eating like a well-behaved child.
However, once the disease occurred, she sentenced them to two people.
One day, when Pu Cunxin was taking care of his mother to take medicine, her mother fell ill and threw the medicine all over the ground.
Wan Ping helped her mother-in-law to the sofa and grabbed her hand.
Pu Cunxin bent down to pick up the pills one by one, wiped them with a paper towel, and then put them into the medicine bottle.
After a while, Pu Cunxin coaxed his mother to take medicine like a child:
"You ate these 4 pills, and I'll buy a sugar gourd for you later."
Pu Mu was like a 3-year-old child, smiling and looking at Pu Cunxin, and then obediently took the medicine.
At 1:00 a.m. on April 6, 2017, the door of the living room suddenly made a loud noise, and Pu Cunxin was awakened. He went to his mother's room and found that the old lady was gone!
Pu Cunxin's heart mentioned the throat eye, and quickly took the flashlight and went out with his wife to look for it.
More than 20 minutes later, the couple found Pumu by the flowerbed in the community.
The mother refused to go back, muttering to herself:
"Now that I have Elm money, I want to make Yu money to cook and eat."
Pu Cunxin coaxed his mother:
"It's the middle of the night, you go home with me, and when dawn comes, I'll accompany you to collect the money."
The mother stood still, and Pu Cunxin and his wife talked about evil before persuading her to go back.
Having experienced this time, Pu Cunxin did not dare to be careless.
Worried that his mother would run away again at night, Pu Cunxin bought a single folding bed online the next day.
Every night, he propped the single bed next to his mother's bed and guarded her all night.
Pumu sleeps less and often falls asleep in the early hours of the morning.
In the middle of the night, she rolled over many times, got up to drink water, and went to the bathroom.
As a result, Pu Cunxin's sleep was seriously insufficient, and he could only sleep for three or four hours a night.
In mid-June, Pu Cunxin's body reacted violently: he was dizzy, his legs were fluttering, and he often vomited, nausea, and loss of appetite.
Wan Ping said to her husband in pain:
"You can't stay up like this anymore, and from this evening onwards, I'll stay with my mother."
Pu Cunxin reluctantly agreed.
A month later, Wan Ping couldn't stand it, after all, she was also over sixty years old.
After discussing with his wife, Pu Cunxin decided to invite a female nurse to come to the house to take care of her mother at night, and he and Wanping were responsible for the day.
On July 5, 2017, Pu Cunxin hired a female nurse in her 30s from the home economics center, with a monthly salary of more than 5,000 yuan.
The female caregiver is a native of Henan and cares for the elderly in Beijing all year round.
The female nurse came for 3 days, and Pu Cunxin's heart became entangled.
It turned out that the female nurse slept too deeply at night, pumu got up at night to drink water, the female nurse was unconscious, and as a result, pumu slipped and fell to the ground, breaking her elbow.
Pu Cunxin had no choice but to dismiss her.
On the day the female nurse left, Pu Cunxin's daughter Pu Fang and son-in-law Han Jinkai took the baby to visit her grandmother.
Knowing that his parents-in-law were physically weak in taking care of their grandmother, Han Jinkai took the initiative to take responsibility:
"Dad, Mom, I'll come over at night to replace you and take care of Grandma."
Pu Cunxin disagrees:
"The child is still young, and the burden on you and Pu Fang is also very heavy, and I can't add to the chaos for you."
PuFang said:
"Dad, it doesn't matter, I can take care of my daughter alone, if you and your mother are tired, I am even more uneasy."
Han Jinkai is a native of Heilongjiang and the same age as Pufang.
Han Jinkai, who was born as an athlete, had a particularly good physical fitness, and he stayed behind to accompany his grandmother that night.
At 7 o'clock the next morning, Han Jinkai rushed to work at the company, and Pu Cunxin and his wife took care of their mother.
At 8 o'clock in the evening, Han Jinkai rushed over again.
His filial piety was no less than that of Pu Cunxin and his wife: as long as Pu Mu had a little noise, he would wake up, and then pour water for grandma, find medicine, and coax her to sleep.
In order not to disturb the rest of his father-in-law and mother-in-law, Han Jinkai spoke softly with his grandmother.
With the help of their son-in-law, the burden on Pu Cunxin and his wife was greatly reduced.
There is an elderly mother in the family, Pu Cunxin and a large family are all around her, and everyone's life is not easy.
Live again with your mother: I dare not grow old before you are cured
Han Jinkai came to accompany his grandmother at night, and it was not easy for Pu Fang to take care of his daughter alone.
Every day after work, she picked up her daughter from kindergarten and quickly cooked.
After the husband went to his grandmother's house after dinner, Pu Fang accompanied his daughter to do various homework such as handicrafts and paintings, and then took care of her to wash and sleep, and it was more than 10 o'clock in the evening.
At 9 p.m. on August 13, Pu Fang was drying clothes on the balcony.
The daughter was thirsty and got up to find water to drink.
Pu Fang just warmed a glass of milk and put it on the bedside table to prepare her daughter to drink before going to bed.
When my daughter got out of bed, she accidentally spilled hot milk on her arm.
Hearing his daughter's heart-rending cry, Pu Fang rushed to see her daughter's left arm burned red.
Pu Fang quickly dipped the milk on his daughter's body with a towel and took her to the community hospital.
The doctor medicated her daughter's burns.
While blaming Pu Fang:
"You parents are too careless, and your children are suffering a lot!"
Her daughter had been crying, and Pu Fang's eyes were red.
She tossed and turned until after 11 o'clock in the evening before she took her daughter home.
The next day, when Han Jinkai returned home, he learned of his daughter's injury and felt guilty.
That night, he kept his daughter to sleep before rushing to his grandmother's house.
The son-in-law arrived more than an hour later than usual, and Pu Cunxin asked worriedly:
"Is there something going on at home?"
Han Jinkai swallowed back to his mouth, and Wan Ping was anxious:
"You and Pu Fang must have something to do, so tell us quickly."
Han Jinkai told the story of the before and after his daughter was burned, and Pu Cunxin and his wife listened to it and were heartbroken.
The next morning, when Han Jinkai got up in the morning to leave, Pu Cunxin seriously said to his son-in-law:
"Your little family needs you too, and I discussed it with your mother." From tonight onwards, you won't have to come over and spend time with Grandma. ”
Han Jinkai was not assured:
"Dad, I'm worried that you and mom won't be able to eat it."
Pu Cunxin said:
"It's okay, I'm working shifts with your mother, I can stand it."
In the difficult process of protecting his mother, Pu Cunxin was deeply aware that when he reached his old age, his energy and physical strength had declined, and he must have a healthy body in order to support the old age of his elderly mother.
Pu Cunxin guarded his mother while he began to exercise and exercise.
In November 2017, after Pu Cunxin insisted on exercising for 3 months, his physical fitness improved significantly.
Physically and energetically, he took care of his old mother even more dedicatedly: he took care of her to take medicine, cooked soup for her, and carried her downstairs to bask in the sun.
When his mother was in a good mood, he also taught her to sing...
Nourished by Pu Cunxin's love and filial piety, in June 2018, Pu Mu's Alzheimer's disease was effectively controlled.
The interval between her seizures is getting longer and longer, and she can get to know the people in the family.
As long as her mother got a little better, it was Pu Cunxin's greatest relief.
In March 2019, Pu Cunxin learned from the Internet that there are a small number of elderly dementia patients abroad.
After the treatment of doctors and the warmth of loved ones, life has basically returned to normal.
This made Pu Cun Ting see hope, and he also had the confidence and determination to lead his mother out of the disease.
In order to restore her mother's brain power, Pu Cunxin often bought ten pounds of walnuts.
Every morning he and his wife used walnut clips to open one walnut after another, and then put the walnut kernels into the dish.
He said to his mother:
"The doctor said, walnuts to supplement the brain, you must eat more."
After saying that, he picked up a piece of walnut kernel and fed it to his mother's mouth, asking:
"Is it delicious?"
The mother nodded like a child and said:
"Delicious."
Pu Cunxin placed a plate of walnuts on the window sill of his mother's bedroom and the coffee table in the living room, so that his mother could eat at any time.
At the same time, Pu Cunxin also bought back several boxes of literacy and counting cards from the bookstore.
After breakfast, he moved two small mazas and put them in the living room, sat face to face with his mother, and taught her to read and count.
He held up the small card in front of his mother and asked her to read out the numbers exactly.
Pu Cunxin still recognized it the first day, and the next day she answered it incorrectly, and Pu Cunxin patiently taught her mother to read it over and over again.
Immediately after, he taught his mother to recognize characters, and at first she only knew a few simple Chinese characters, and Pu Cunxin took her to slowly read some difficult characters.
After more than 4 months of hard training, by July 2019, Pumu could basically recognize the numbers and Chinese characters of several boxes of cards at home.
In November of that year, Pu Cunxin rehearsed a play in Beijing Renyi, and he brought his mother to the theater.
At noon he called his mother from the canteen and ate with her. Pu Cunxin asked:
"Is it delicious?" What about the food you ate when you were working at the bank?"
The mother smiled like a child:
"Delicious, delicious."
After lunch, many colleagues gathered around and talked and laughed with Pu Mu, and a happy smile appeared on the old man's face.
In January 2020, the outbreak of the new crown epidemic caused Pu Cunxin and his wife to isolate at home with their mother.
Because he could not rehearse dramas in Renyi, Pu Cunxin often performed for his mother at home alone.
He performed fragments of classic dramas such as "Li Bai", "Tea House" and "Thunderstorm" to his mother.
After acting a few times, he asked his mother to say which play he was acting in and what the protagonist's name was.
At first, the mother always said wrong, but after Pu Cunxin's repeated reminders and guidance, the mother gradually became able to distinguish clearly and rarely said wrong again.
In mid-September, when the epidemic in Beijing was under control, Pu Cunxin accompanied his mother to re-embark on the road of love with his father.
At that time, her parents often dated in the park behind Beijing Renyi, her mother sat on a bluestone slab, and her father stood and read love poems to her, which was the most romantic and unforgettable scene in her mother's mind.
In October, beijing has a pleasant climate, and Pu Cunxin leads his mother to the park behind Renyi.
The bluestone slab where my mother sat was still there, and the old elm tree next to it grew into a thick hug.
Pu Cunxin let his mother sit on the bluestone slab, and he imitated his father, standing under the elm tree and reciting to his mother Xu Zhimo's "Farewell to KangQiao" Shu Ting's "To the Oak Tree" and other love poems.
While reciting it, Pu Cunxin peeked at her mother with the afterglow, only to see that she was calm and numb at first, and gradually, a smile appeared on her face, and finally tears welled up in her eyes.
The mother murmured to Pu Cunxin:
"At that time, your father was wearing a Zhongshan suit and wearing a coffee-colored scarf, which was more handsome than you are now."
Listening to his mother's words, Pu Cunxin excitedly shook her hand and said:
"Mom, can you remember the past?"
Mother grinned:
"There are some things that I remember, and many things that I can't remember."
It was a miracle that my mother could recover to this.
Since then, under the guidance of Pu Cunxin, her mother can remember more and more past events, and she has also known some neighbors, and some can still call out names.
In October 2021, Pu Cunxin took his mother to the hospital for a review.
After communicating with Pu Mu, the doctor could hardly believe that she could recover to this and praised Pu Cunxin for creating a medical miracle.
The doctor told Pu Cunxin:
"If this continues, your mother's memory may be further restored."
Pu Cunxin is full of confidence...
Pu Cunxin, who is now 69 years old, although his face is deeply rooted in the traces of time, the literati style is becoming more and more intense.
At the same time, he also plays the three roles of husband, father and son in his life, and he often appears in public welfare activities.
Pu Cunxin is the representative of virtue and art shuangxin, because he has been practicing the 8 words of "drama is bigger than the sky, and virtue is as thick as the earth".
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