In November 2022, on the stage of Xichang City, Sichuan, Pu Cunxin, a famous actor, is performing a symphonic poetry drama of the classic play "Welcome to the World".
Pu Cunxin, who was sitting in the audience, looked at the wonderful performance on the stage, and his heart was filled with infinite joy. And this joy also stems from the fact that he witnessed the warm figure of his daughter Pu Fang and son-in-law Han Jinkai and his family of three watching this play.
Looking back in a blink of an eye, her daughter Pu Fang has been married to this man from a rural northeast for 10 years. 10 years have passed, and the relationship between the two is still as loving as ever, and Lang Lang Qiankun is the best testimony of their hand in hand.
Pu Cunxin looked at her daughter's happy married life, and her heart was extremely gratified.
Recalling the age when her daughter Pu Fang first grew up, Pu Cunxin can be described as meticulous and caring for her love life. Whenever this topic is mentioned, Pu Fang always says disappreciatively, "I understand, Dad, don't worry."
Her smart and lovely demeanor often makes Pu Cunxin smile and feel her daughter's respect and cherishment for herself.
Unexpectedly, when Pu Fang went to study in the United States, Pu Cunxin suddenly received a call from her, and there was a hint of panic in her tone: "Dad, I have a boyfriend, and he is very beautiful!" This undoubtedly brought a huge shock to Pu Cunxin, who knew that his daughter's love too early might affect her studies, and he couldn't help but worry about it.
Despite this, Pu Cunxin did not reproach his daughter, but just hurriedly replied with a sentence of "take good care of yourself" and quickly hung up the phone. Subsequently, he immediately sent books on physiology and hygiene and some protective equipment, hoping that his daughter would be used with good intentions.
This kind of delicate and considerate care is the best testimony of Pu Cunxin's deep love for his daughter Pu Fang.
A bloody first love experience
By chance, Pu Fang suffered from the pain of his menstrual period. As a woman, this kind of physiological pain is something that everyone experiences and deserves the thoughtful care and attention of heterosexuals.
However, what is unexpected is that Pu Fang's foreign boyfriend turned a blind eye to this and did not give the slightest sympathy and love at all. To make matters worse, when Pu Fang was thirsty and wanted to drink water due to severe pain, he actually handed her a cold drink, which simply added fuel to the fire.
Faced with her boyfriend's behavior that lacked basic common sense, Pu Fang couldn't bear it anymore, and finally made up his mind and severely reprimanded him for his ignorance and inconsiderateness. Before the words were finished, the two young men had already fallen into a tense quarrel, and the contradictions between the two sides continued to escalate, and the dispute became more and more intense.
In the end, after a saber-rattling quarrel, Pu Fang angrily proposed to break up, and her boyfriend agreed without hesitation, turned around and left, without looking back.
Looking at the back of her boyfriend, Pu Fang's heart was like a knife, and tears came out of his eyes. She once thought that she could rely on this relationship to find solace, but unexpectedly it only added to the pain and disappointment.
Although Pu Fang sincerely hopes that her boyfriend can realize her mistake and take the initiative to save the relationship, she doesn't want to wait until the last moment, and the other party will turn a blind eye. Pu Fang's tears became even more sad because of this, and she could only hide in the quilt and rely on lonely crying to relieve the bitterness in her heart.
For a few days, Pu Fang was depressed, hoping to find a confidant worth talking to, but she didn't want to be surrounded by half a confidant. So, she decided to write her heart into a long text message and send it to her dear father Pu Cunxin, who was far away.
After receiving her daughter's complaining text message, Pu Cunxin did not rush to comfort her, but thought about it repeatedly and thoughtfully. After some time, he replied with hundreds of words of intimate advice.
Pu Cunxin pointed out that in the relationship that just ended, Pu Fang has been focusing on asking for his own needs and ignoring the other party's feelings, which is very inappropriate.
He guided Pu Fang to realize that love needs mutual understanding, mutual consideration and two-way dedication to each other in order to last for a long time.
A vibrant marriage
After reading his father's wise and rational exhortation, Pu Fang finally stepped out of the haze, regained his confidence and vitality, and focused on his studies. After months of hard work, she was radiant, smiling like a flower, and regained her youthful atmosphere.
At this time, a new marriage quietly came into Pu Fang's life. It was in 2007 that Pu Fang went on vacation to the Buli Ski Resort in Northeast Asia and met a tall man by chance.
It turned out that the man named Han Jinkai was born in an ordinary rural family in Heilongjiang, but he was an excellent skier.
The scene of the encounter is still vivid. At that time, Pu Fang showed the exquisite skills she had accumulated over the years of training on the ski slopes, and completed difficult movements gracefully and freely, attracting the admiration of the people around her.
Feeling so proud, she decided to show off her skills on a steep slope, only to lose her balance and tumble.
Seeing that Pu Fang was about to fall into danger, Han Jinkai rushed forward regardless of his body, tightly protecting her body with his arms, and the two rolled down several meters together before stopping.
When Pu Fang came back to her senses and found that Han Jinkai had used her body to resist the impact of the impact for her, she hurriedly thanked the hero sincerely and asked to leave her contact information.
The appointed banquet date arrived, and when the two met, you came and went, talking freely, and gradually narrowed the distance between each other. Pu Fang found that although Han Jinkai was serious, he had a sense of humor between his words, and they had a good understanding of each other, and Pu Fang was frequently amused by the funny stories he told him.
Since then, Pu Fang and Han Jinkai have come and gone more frequently, and their relationship has become more and more intimate. Han Jinkai took Pu Fang to visit the secret base of the ski resort and enjoy the superb scenery of the sunset.
Gradually, Pu Fang developed a deep love for Han Jinkai. And when she chose to return to China after graduation, it was entirely for the sake of being able to marry this beloved man forever, and she was understood and recognized by her father Pu Cunxin, which made them feel extremely happy.
A generous and selfless grant
When Pu Cunxin learned that his daughter Pu Fang was in love with Han Jinkai and planned to enter the marriage hall, he actually had mixed feelings in his heart. On the one hand, Pu Cunxin is pleased that her daughter has finally found her favorite lover; On the other hand, as Han Jinkai, who was born in an ordinary rural area, his family background is obviously very different from the Pu family, which makes Pu Cunxin inevitably have some concerns.
However, after some in-depth understanding, Pu Cunxin quickly dispelled his doubts. He found that Han Jinkai was sincere, humble, and noble, and more importantly, this young man has been actively engaged in social welfare undertakings and repaid the society with practical actions.
Pu Cunxin sincerely admired his selfless spirit, so he readily agreed to the marriage of the two.
When Han Jinkai sincerely proposed to Pu Cunxin, Pu Cunxin solemnly stated: "For me, my daughter's happiness is always the most important. No matter what the family background of the partner she chooses, as long as he has the spirit of responsibility and responsibility, even if he is too poor to eat, I will gladly accept it.
Hearing these words, Han Jinkai's heart was extremely excited, and even if he knelt on his knees, he couldn't calm down his inner emotion for a long time. He assured his father-in-law from the bottom of his heart: "Please rest assured, I will definitely honor you with the same spiritual attitude and love Fang Fang for the rest of my life."
In order to sincerely repay Pu Cunxin's trust, Han Jinkai even resolutely gave up his original lucrative job and joined the company run by Pu Cunxin, just to be able to take good care of Pu Fang.
Seeing his son-in-law so attentive, Pu Cunxin was once again impressed by his character.
In order to express his sincere blessings to this family business, Pu Cunxin handed Pu Fang a bank card worth up to 500,000 yuan, and instructed: "This is your bride price, don't use the savings of the other party's family, they are earned by hard work, you should live frugally."
When Han Jinkai learned the news, the shock and emotion in his heart could not be described in words. He immediately rushed to Pu Cunxin, knelt on his knees, and couldn't calm his excitement for a long time.
This deep friendship of helping each other will always be engraved in Han Jinkai's heart.
A husband and wife friendship that is as gracious as a mountain
In the years after marriage, Han Jinkai fulfilled his solemn promise to Pu Cunxin bit by bit with practical actions. At the end of a busy day, when he stepped into the house, he was always greeted by his wife Pu Fang, who was full of happy smiles.
Han Jinkai will first give her a warm hug and use this to express his inner affection.
After the hug, he quickly plunges into the kitchen and starts preparing a hearty dinner. Watching the pots and pans flying in his hands, Pu Fang's heart couldn't help but feel a warm current.
She knew that all this hard work was supported by her husband's deep love for her.
When the delicious food is served, Han Jinkai will pick up the little daughter from the crib, shake and coax, and tell the story of the parents in a soft voice, until the little one falls asleep, then he puts down his work and concentrates on eating.
Looking at the peaceful appearance of his daughter sleeping soundly, the happiness in Han Jinkai's heart spontaneously arose. After a hard day's work, he can finally relax with his lover at this moment.
Every now and then, Pu Fang would remind with concern: "You have also worked hard today, hurry up and rest after dinner." But Han Jinkai always responded with a smile: "It was not easy for you to get pregnant and give birth back then, and now it's my turn to serve you well."
Hearing these sincere love words, Pu Fang's heart was full of happiness. She is extremely glad for her original choice, Han Jinkai is really a good man who can be considerate.
Time passed little by little, and before I knew it, a full 10 years had passed. In the past 10 years, Han Jinkai's thoughtful care for Pu Fang has not diminished at all, and he is determined to use his life to repay his father-in-law Pu Cunxin's kindness.
In order to allow Pu Fang to live a more prosperous and healthy life, Han Jinkai kept most of his salary income. Han Jinkai single-handedly covered all the living expenses of their family, from monthly rent, water and electricity bills to three meals.
Day after day, year after year, Han Jinkai took care of almost all the household chores in the family, and he thoughtfully relieved Pu Fang from these heavy labors.
The fruit of a father's wise education
When the symphonic poetry drama "Welcome to the World" came to a successful end in Xichang City, Pu Cunxin, who was sitting in the audience, felt extremely comforted. He witnessed the happy married life of his daughter Pu Fang and his son-in-law Han Jinkai, which is the best fruit of his unique parenting philosophy over the years.
Looking back, Pu Cunxin never pointed fingers at her daughter's love life, but guided her to establish a correct outlook on life and values with a generous mind and wise insights.
When Pu Fang stepped into the road of love, Pu Cunxin did not blindly dissuade her, but patiently instructed her how to treat feelings correctly and how to distinguish between right and wrong.
It is with this understanding and tolerance that Pu Fang was able to avoid detours on the road of affection, and finally met a good marriage worthy of lifelong trust. If Pu Cunxin obstructed her daughter's relationship at the beginning, I am afraid it would only make her more secretly in love and keen to rebel, thus missing out on the good fate.
When Han Jinkai, a man from an ordinary rural family, appeared in front of Pu Cunxin, Pu Cunxin did not have prejudices against him because of the difference in family background. On the contrary, he gave him the opportunity to fully understand and communicate, and was finally impressed by Han Jinkai's kind character and selfless sentiments, and sincerely accepted this family business.
What's even more admirable is that in his daughter's marriage, the famous film and television performance artist generously donated 500,000 bride price fees, and never asked the other party's poor family to bear a penny.
Pu Cunxin's broad-mindedness and noble sentiments made Han Jinkai unforgettable for life, and also moved his daughter Pu Fang. Now, witnessing the happy life of her daughter after marrying into a wealthy family, Pu Cunxin is extremely gratified.
This gratification stems from the fact that his unique parent-child education concept has brought the greatest reward. As a father, he used his actions to explain what true love is.
He always used tolerance as his heart, gave his children enough tolerance and understanding, instead of arbitrarily denying and interfering, and finally achieved a happy life for his daughter.