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Time flies, looking back on it is ten years ago. After the bitterly cold winter of 2016, March in Beijing still smells of frost. At that time, the 36-year-old Pu Fangzheng sat peacefully in the comfort of his living room, staring at the snowflakes outside the window, and his thoughts couldn't help but go back to that fateful encounter ten years ago.
In the winter of that year, more than two months had passed since her first encounter with Han Jinkai in Heilongjiang. In order to participate in the grand international ski festival held in Heilongjiang, Pu Fang, who has been enthusiastic about skiing since childhood, specially applied to the company for a vacation of more than a month in advance and flew back to his motherland from the distant United States.
She carefully planned and went all out to enjoy the endless joy of skiing in this feast of snow and ice. However, the world is unpredictable, in a very challenging attempt on the slopes, Pu Fang's center of gravity instantly lost balance, and the whole person rushed forward like an arrow from the string.
Seeing that a heavy fall on the cold snow can even lead to serious bodily injury.
At this moment of life and death, a young man who had never known each other stepped forward without hesitation and protected Pu Fang with his solid body, and the two fell into the steep snow slope together.
Luckily, during the tumbling, the stranger held Pu Fang tightly and resisted most of the impact for her, and when they finally stopped, Pu Fang raised his head and saw for the first time the true face of this brave life-saver—a handsome and extraordinary face, with a healthy posture, it was none other than Han Jinkai, a local acclaimed skier.
Pu Fang, who fell in love at first sight, was immediately deeply attracted by the man in front of her, and she took the initiative to invite Han Jinkai to dinner with her to express her deep gratitude. Who knows, this chance encounter turned out to be the prelude to a beautiful marriage across thousands of mountains and rivers in the future.
Pu Fang's father, Pu Cunxin, is an outstanding contemporary performing artist, and his mother, Wan Ping, is a gentle and virtuous housewife. As the sole seedling of the artist's family, Pu Fang grew up in a strong artistic atmosphere since he was a child.
However, because of this, it is inevitable that she will experience the haze of neglect of her parents when she is growing up.
Since elementary school, Pu has shown an introverted and sensitive personality. During her time at school, she rarely took the initiative to communicate with others, and spent more time alone and quietly immersed in the corner.
Teachers have said that she has a lonely and introverted personality, which is in stark contrast to the lively and cheerful personality that children of the same age should have.
At that sudden parent-teacher meeting, Pu Fang deeply experienced the painful feeling of inferiority complex and being left out. On that day, the teachers arranged a meeting that every parent had to attend, and Pu Fang's mother, Wan Ping, had made it clear that she would arrive on time.
However, there are unforeseen circumstances, and Wanping can't get out because of unexpected affairs, so she can only entrust this important task to a colleague to participate instead. However, unfortunately, due to various complicated reasons, the colleague did not find the class Pu Fang attended, and finally had to leave helplessly.
Pu Fang was alone and endured the blame from the teacher and the strange eyes of the whole class, and his deep self-esteem was greatly damaged.
After entering junior high school, Pu Fang's academic performance fell like a cliff, which made the teachers worried. After in-depth and detailed observation, the head teacher was keenly aware of the crux of the problem and decided to visit the home in person.
After an in-depth conversation, Pu Cunxin and Wan Ping finally realized that as parents, they had long ignored their daughter's desire for family companionship.
Feeling guilty, Pu Cunxin immediately wrote a solemn pledge, promising to spend precious time with her daughter every month. Wanping also began to actively adjust her work plan, so that Pu Fang could experience the warmth of family again.
Since then, the relationship between parents and daughter has been repaired, and Pu Fang has gradually shaken off the haze of loneliness.
In order to create a new living environment for her daughter, Pu Cunxin made a major decision when Pu Fang turned 16 - to send her to study abroad. For Pu Fang, who is still young, being alone in a foreign country is undoubtedly a serious challenge in life.
As expected, Pu Fang's life abroad has experienced ups and downs. Just a few months later, she was harshly criticized for violating school rules. It wasn't until the school sent a letter of complaint that Pu Cunxin and Wanping learned the truth of the matter.
It turned out that when Pu Fang participated in outdoor activities such as skiing, in order to show the courage and fearlessness of a "real woman", he resolutely refused to wear the prescribed protective equipment, resulting in an accidental head injury.
Knowing all the hardships that their daughter suffered in a foreign country, Pu Cunxin and Wan Ping, the two noble couples, were naturally worried and could not let go. The two gentlemen and ladies are like a pair of responsible "cockfighting parents", they have to make long-distance calls with Pu Fang several times a week, and ask about their daughter's situation in extremely euphemistic terms.
As the days of her daughter studying abroad alone became longer, the two elders became more and more concerned about their daughter. Especially when they learned that Pu Fang had invested a sincere relationship during his study abroad, their worries lingered in their hearts all the time.
They are deeply afraid that their daughter will be deceived and hurt by others because of her lack of ability to distinguish between right and wrong.
Thankfully, however, Pu Fang didn't let the relationship last long. Gradually, she turned her attention to her studies and her passion for skiing. In 2007, Pu Fang seized the opportunity to participate in the Heilongjiang International Ski Festival, carefully prepared several months in advance, and successfully completed all the coursework.
After arriving in Heilongjiang, she threw herself into the joy of the ice and snow world. It was in this event that she met the man she was destined to be - Han Jinkai.
Pu Fang fell in love with the well-known local skier at first sight. After parting, she frequently kept in touch with her lover through various channels, sending a letter full of longing almost every few days, or making a phone call across the ocean.
However, just because of the romantic feelings peculiar to young people, she did not reveal anything about her sweetheart to her parents.
When she graduated from university, Pu Fang received job offers from many well-known overseas companies, but she firmly decided to give up these exciting opportunities just to return to her home country and spend the rest of her life with her beloved.
Pu Fang was full of joy and expectation, held Han Jinkai's hands tightly, and embarked on the journey back to China. After years of wandering in a foreign country, she finally has the opportunity to return to her parents' arms and start a new chapter in her life.
When the couple appeared in front of Pu Cunxin and Wanping's house, the couple from an artistic family couldn't help but be stunned.
For Pu Cunxin, the prospective son-in-law who saw his daughter for the first time was naturally uneasy in his heart. Han Jinkai was born into an ordinary rural family, far from their elegant artistic atmosphere, and he really couldn't predict whether he would be able to integrate into the family quickly.
However, something amazing happened! Han Jinkai, with his passionate personality and keen insight, quickly narrowed the spiritual distance between him and the Pu family.
This heroic young man from the north not only behaves elegantly and generously, but his words are sharp and profound, and more importantly, he shows great respect and care for the two noble elders, Pu Cunxin and Wanping.
In the days that followed, Han Jinkai's careful care and noble qualities made the Pu family more and more impressed with him.
It was undoubtedly a time of joy and sorrow. Just when Pu Fang and Han Jinkai were newly married, the Pu family suffered a major blow in their lives. The family atmosphere that was originally full of laughter and laughter became heavy because of the death of the elder of the family, Su Min.
Su Min's widow Jia Quan was even more physically and mentally exhausted, and Pu Cunxin had to temporarily put aside work at this time and devote herself to taking care of her elderly mother at home.
In such a predicament, it is the best moment to test the character of the son-in-law. Han Jinkai did not hesitate to stand up and take on the daily chores of the whole family, relieving a lot of burden for the family.
Under his careful care, Jia Quan gradually came out of the grief of losing her husband. Since then, Han Jinkai's status in the Pu family has been increasing day by day, and he is known as the most considerate member of this big family.
Ten years have passed, and the years have passed like a white horse. In the blink of an eye, Pu Fang and Han Jinkai have worked together for ten years. In this marriage journey, they composed a symphony of harmonious and happy life with understanding, tolerance and forgiveness.
In the early days of marriage, the Pu family did not give much praise to this marriage that crossed the gap between the rich and the poor. For Han Jinkai, who came from a poor background, they initially had a certain degree of reservation.
However, this hot-blooded young man from the north quickly won the affection of the whole family with his sincere and enthusiastic personality and noble moral character.
Han Jinkai has always maintained a meticulous, filial and courteous attitude, and cares for Pu Cunxin, Wanping and other elders. When the festive season comes, he always cooks his own special food and cooks the special food of his hometown, and whenever the family encounters difficulties, he always tries his best to solve them.
Gradually, this son-in-law, who had been questioned, has become the most considerate and thoughtful candidate in the hearts of the Pu family.
At the same time, the Han family, who came from a poor family, warmly embraced the noble and elegant artistic atmosphere of the Pu family with great piety. Despite their humble backgrounds, they never felt any inferiority complex or shyness because of their financial situation.
On the contrary, they adhere to those simple and kind family mottos, inherit the warm and hospitable folk customs of the Northeast region, and always exude a unrestrained, humble and polite style.
The Pu family was deeply gratified by this and was full of joy in their hearts. Mr. and Mrs. Pu Cunxin will never despise others because of temporary material differences, and they deeply understand that as long as they share the same cultural philosophy, the family can easily understand and accept each other.
It is precisely because of such an open and inclusive mindset that the two families can live in harmony and become like a family.
Under the influence of such a family atmosphere, Pu Fang and Han Jinkai's married life naturally became extraordinarily harmonious. As a wife, Pu Fang is fully committed to supporting her husband's love of skiing and fully understands that he has to go out for long periods of time to train due to his professional nature.
And Han Jinkai did his best to love and care for his wife.
Even if there are occasional disagreements and contradictions, the two always tolerate each other with a peaceful and tolerant attitude, and resolve all disputes with sincere emotions. As Pu Fang said, she never cared about some criticism from the outside world.
For her, being able to spend the rest of her life hand in hand with her loved ones and experience joy and happiness in every detail of her daily life is the most precious treasure. Money, fame and fortune are important, but compared to a healthy and happy married life, they are undoubtedly only short-lived.