The day before the daughter got married, Pu Cunxin secretly stuffed a bank card for her daughter: Child, there are 500,000 in this card, you give it to Jin Kai, it is not easy for children from the countryside to come out, pay attention to ways and methods when giving, do not hurt his self-esteem.
After many people knew about this matter, they laughed at Pu Cunxin: You see your father-in-law, everyone marries a daughter to receive a lot of bride price, how can you still be upside down!
Pu Cunxin only said one word, which made countless fathers-in-law and mother-in-law ashamed.
Pu Cunxin, born in Beijing in 1953, is a national first-class actor whose works include "Heroes Without Regrets", "Glorious Journey", "Public Security Bureau Chief" and "A Round of Bright Moon".
He is also an old actor with both virtue and art, a model figure in the art performance industry, who has starred in 10 excellent positive energy works and is deeply loved by the masses.
Especially since Pu Cunxin's debut, he is a decent person, there is no scandal, and he and his wife Wanping are the same at first sight, and they are kind and loving.
At the age of 24, Pu Cunxin entered the Air Politics Repertory Theater, where he ran dragon sets for five or six years, but attracted the attention of his wife Wanping.
Wan Ping was a cadre at the time, and at the age of 13, she entered the Air Politics Song and Dance Troupe, and was a prominent figure in the troupe, a goddess in the minds of many boys.
But she just fell in love with Pu Cunxin, who had a mediocre career.
Such a love that is not right for the family is naturally opposed by the world, but Wanping is not Pu Cunxin and does not marry, and Pu Cunxin is not Wanping.
At the insistence of the two, the parents of both sides finally agreed to the marriage.
In 1986, Wan Ping gave birth to her daughter Pu Fang, in order to take care of the family, invited to give up her dance career, chose to return to the family, and fully supported Pu Cunxin's development career.
Pu Fang is the pearl in the palm of Pu Cunxin, from a young age, he is well-behaved and cute, and smart, and Pu Cunxin attaches great importance to the education of children.
After graduating from junior high school, Pu Fang proposed the idea of studying abroad, and Pu Cunxin was reluctant to let his daughter go away.
But I couldn't resist my daughter's insistence, so I had to agree to her request and help her go through the procedures for going abroad.
When Pu Fang was studying abroad, he met her husband Han Jinkai, and the two met at the ski resort.
Pufang accidentally fell while skiing, and the ski instructor Han Jinkai quickly helped her up and helped her shoot off the snow on her body.
The more the two talked, the more speculative they became, and it didn't take long to establish a relationship.
After knowing that his daughter was in love, Pu Cunxin did not object, but he was a little worried.
Therefore, when Pu Fang returned to school after the summer vacation, Pu Cunxin secretly stuffed a box of condoms in his daughter's suitcase, and he felt the need to remind his daughter to understand the relevant knowledge and protect himself.
After the daughter saw it, she sent a message to her father: "Dad, rest assured! I've grown up, and I know what I can and can't do. ”
For Pu Cunxin's approach, many people expressed puzzlement: Are you not encouraging your daughter to have sex before marriage by doing this?
Pu Cunxin said: Not to encourage, but to let her daughter know how to better protect herself and stay away from the opportunity of infection.
This is really the deepest love of a father.
Han Jinkai's family is ordinary, his parents are working-class, and there is a big gap between him and the old drama bone Pu Cunxin.
Pu Cunxin and his wife did not interfere with their daughter's love affair, and did not ask their daughter to marry rich or expensive, the couple said that as long as it is good for my daughter, it is enough.
Han Jinkai had some inferiority, especially after seeing Pu Cunxin, he seemed very restrained, afraid that his future father-in-law would look down on him to prevent them from falling in love.
Pu Cunxin comforted him: "Pu Fang loves you, we will also love you and tolerate you, and will not have any opinion on you." ”
After Pu Cunxin's many enlightenments, Han Jinkai gradually gained self-confidence.
The two have been dating for 3 years, and finally ready to get married, Pu Cunxin knows that the conditions in the man's family are not too good, the bride price is not wanted, and secretly handed a 500,000 card to his daughter.
Pu Cunxin specifically instructed his daughter: "Give this 50w to Jin Kai, your marriage has cost his parents most of their hard-earned money, pay attention to his words, don't hurt his self-esteem." ”
Pu Fang took the card and nodded.
The son-in-law was even more in tears after learning about it, and such a good father-in-law was touched by his little boy, which was really a big luck.
When relatives heard about this, they all said that he was stupid, and they had never heard that marrying a daughter would have to pay so much money himself.
However, Pu Cunxi directly retorted: "Since they are all family, why do you have to distinguish them so clearly?" The son-in-law is happy, and the daughter is not also happy? No matter how important money is, is it important to have a daughter happy? ”
This sentence silenced all those who laughed at him.
Watching his little cotton jacket get married, Pu Cunxin's heart was very unhappy, and his wife Wanping wiped her tears even harder.
Unlike some father-in-law who asked his son-in-law how to treat his daughter, Pu Cunxin gave her a fire extinguisher and repeatedly told her daughter:
"Daughter, Daddy knows you're short-tempered. After marriage, there will inevitably be stumbles, I hope that you will control your temper in case of trouble, don't be difficult for Jin Kai, and the two sons should respect and love each other. ”
After listening to Pu Cunxin's explanation, all the guests present nodded their heads in praise and smiled heartily!
Father's love is like a mountain, and the iron man is tender and moving. #明星私下生活都是什么状态 #
After marriage, every time Pu Fang and Han Jinkai had a conflict, Pu Cunxin would first reprimand his daughter, and then turn around to comfort Han Jinkai: "Don't see her in general." ”
When I met such an understanding old man, I believe that no matter how big the contradiction between husband and wife can be resolved.
As the saying goes, people's hearts are long flesh, and if you respect me by a foot, I will respect you.
How can a son-in-law not be filial to his father-in-law because he exchanges his heart for the sake of his son-in-law, compare his heart to his heart, and always think of his son-in-law?
There is a saying that is particularly good, first there is a good father-in-law, and then there is a good son-in-law.
