Now many people are a little disgusted when they hear the word "entertainment industry", "showing off wealth, no acting skills, and earning millions a day" are all labels on many popular stars now.
However, there are good people and bad people in any profession, and you can't kill everyone with one rod.
When a group of stars in the entertainment industry began to show their harmonious family personalities in order to win the favor of the audience, some stars have been practicing filial piety since their debut.
Tong Dawei awakens his vegetative father
In 2004, as soon as "Jade Guanyin" was broadcast, the audience remembered the cynical big boy in the play.
"This guy acted well, is he a Beijinger?
This is the opinion of many viewers about him after watching the TV series at that time, but none of these views can match Tong Dawei's experience.
Tong Dawei is a native of Liaoning in Northeast China, different from the hanging child Langdang in the role, Tong Dawei took on the family early before his debut.
On February 3, 1979, the day before the beginning of spring, Tong Dawei was born. The first half of his life is also like a birthday, the day before everything recovers, half in spring and half in winter.
Tong Dawei was very happy when he was young, he had an older sister, his father was a policeman, his mother was in the library, and his family was superior, if he really grew up in this environment, maybe he would also take over from his father and become a people's policeman.
However, accidents are always unexpected, and when Tong Dawei was 6 years old, the happy and comfortable family suddenly changed.
"Mom, what's wrong with Dad? Why do you sleep all the time?" Tong Dawei, who was only 6 years old at the time, couldn't understand why his father, who had said goodbye to him in the morning, suddenly entered the hospital and lay on the bed with tubes inserted all over his body.
Tong Dawei's father was injured in the line of duty and was rescued, but he couldn't wake up. The doctor told Tong Da to prepare for their family, and he might never wake up.
"Your dad is too lazy, you have to talk to him more, call him. The young Tong Dawei remembered his mother's words and persevered.
The first thing he did when he came home every morning and evening was to talk to his father, and this insisted on it for ten years.
After graduating from junior high school, Tong Dawei knew the difficulties of his family, and in order to reduce the burden on the family, Tong Dawei applied for the technical secondary school without telling his mother.
Tong Dawei's mother found out that it was too late, "What do you want to do if you don't go to school?" "I didn't go to school, the secondary school package was distributed!"
Tong Dawei's words made this strong woman cry silently, thinking that her son had to go home early at a young age, wipe her husband's body, help the family carry the gas canister, and even buy rice and noodles was all carried back by her son, she felt sad.
My son's childhood has been deprived of playtime, will they have to work all their lives in the future?
But even if she sat down for a night, she still couldn't think of any solution to the problem.
Tong Dawei still went to study secondary school, in order to make his mother no longer feel guilty, he said jokingly, "My grades are average, and the secondary school I applied for is a package allocation, so you don't have to worry about it." ”
But fate is so wonderful, when Tong Dawei went to secondary school, he was photographed by the crew and played a role, and Tong Dawei, who was praised by the director, had the idea of learning acting.
When she heard that her son wanted to go to university, Tong Dawei's mother was very supportive and immediately agreed to her son's decision, "Don't hesitate, give yourself a chance to choose, and don't let yourself regret it later." ”
Tong Dawei was admitted to the drama very smoothly, and soon after graduation, he became popular with "Jade Guanyin".
At this time, Tong Dawei realized that being a star makes more money than many professions, he wants to be popular, he wants to make more money, help his father send to a better hospital, and let his father wake up.
Tong Dawei is not like a young man in his early twenties many times, as long as the script is okay, he will take it, and when there is no script, he will take his father's case to visit doctors in major hospitals.
When I heard a patient's family chatting in the hospital, "There is a person in our hometown who has been paralyzed for many years and has been awakened by acupuncture." ”
This conversation gave Tong Dawei an idea, he went to many acupuncture and massage Chinese medicine shops to study, and every day after the shooting, he used needles of different lengths to test on himself.
After years of hard work, Tong Dawei finally saved enough money to buy a house in Beijing, which fell into his sister's name and took care of the whole family.
The first thing he did after marrying his father was to take him to major hospitals in Beijing to see a doctor, but the doctor's reply was still the same for decades.
Tong Dawei decided to try acupuncture, and despite the opposition of his family, he began to give acupuncture to his father.
During that time, as long as he finished filming, he went home to take care of his father, and in 2006, a miracle came.
"Mom, come here, Dad has opened his eyes!" The father, who had been paralyzed and in a coma for 21 years, finally woke up that day.
His father performed a medical miracle and was even called by many nurses in the hospital "filial piety touched the heavens." ”
Tong Dawei has debuted for many years, and has been very low-key, except for his works, he rarely appears in front of the news media, and now he has become a father of 3 children, a family of five, and he is happy.
Pu Cunxin takes care of her mother with dementia
Speaking of the second generation of stars, many people now think of those who have stiff expressions, average appearance, mediocre acting skills and even spicy eyes.
However, many people don't know that in fact, many early old drama bones are also the second generation of stars, and Pu Cunxin is one of them.
Pu Cunxin's father is Su Min, the first generation actor of Renyi, and the well-known old actor Lan Tianye are classmates.
Pu Cunxin grew up in the heyday of Renyi, and he loves acting very much, and his acting skills are already instinctive, whether it is lines or other basic skills, he is very solid.
Pu Cunxin's father
Pu Cunxin has strong ability, but his entry into the showbiz is not as smooth as his father's.
Because of the special times, Pu Cunxin was unable to participate in the industry he loved normally for a long time after entering the People's Art Theater.
It wasn't until 1994, when he played Sun Ce in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", that the audience knew this actor.
After that, "Bath", "Breaking Kanto 2" and "Kintaro's Happy Life" made him more and more popular.
At that time, many people thought that Pu Cunxin must be very happy, but behind the identity of a well-known actor, he, like many middle-aged men, is facing the pressure of life.
Many people don't know that this tall and mighty man in front of the screen was a "cripple" who was ridiculed by the children in the family home when he was a child.
"When I was a child, I had polio, and I was on crutches since I was a child, and the children in the same family home laughed at me. ”
But fortunately, he has a tall and mighty younger brother, and the younger brother will always protect his brother, who dares to laugh at Pu Cunxi, he will definitely be beaten the next day.
Pu Cunxi was lucky, his illness was not serious, and with the care of his family, he gradually overcame obstacles, walked like an outsider, and also engaged in his favorite profession when he grew up, and appeared on the stage of the theater.
But just when Pu Cunxi and others were on the right track, Pu Cunxi's younger brother died in an accident.
Pu Cunxi's family couldn't believe it, and his father was even more devastated by the accidental death of his youngest son.
The old man, who was already in his 70s, couldn't hold it anymore and fell ill directly.
Pu Cunxi had to cut back on work to take care of his father.
There is no elevator in the old family home, and Pu Cunxi, who is in his fifties, has to carry his father up and down the stairs every day, because the doctor recommends that he breathe more fresh air and accompany the elderly to exercise more.
Seeing his son working so hard to take care of him, and Pu Cunxin and others carrying suitcases and his younger son's children to take care of, the old man gradually regained his spirit.
But when I'm older, it's only a matter of time before I leave.
In the early morning of February 2016, Pu Cunxi suddenly received a call from his mother, "Come and help me, your father suddenly can't turn over." ”
Pu Cunxi rushed to the old family home in a panic, picked up his father and went to the hospital, the doctor no longer recommended hospitalization.
Su Min's symptoms deteriorated rapidly, and in August 2016, the 90-year-old man closed his eyes peacefully in his sleep.
Pu Cunxi's father's departure made his mother unacceptable, and the old lady fainted that day.
When he woke up again, Pu Cunxi and his sister didn't dare to mention their father's affairs, for fear that their mother would not be able to bear it.
However, when they brought her home, they found out that her symptoms were wrong.
Pu Cunxin's mother, Jia Xuan, suddenly became very emotional from an optimistic and cheerful old lady in the past, crying from time to time.
Not only that, but her memory is getting worse and worse, often just saying that she wants to do something, and then forgetting it in the next second, and often insomnia, unable to sleep in the middle of the night.
It wasn't until his father left for a month that Pu Cunxin's mother suddenly disappeared.
Pu Cunxin was not at home when he was going to film, so Pu Cunxin's eldest sister took care of her mother. Everyone fell asleep that night, and Pu Cunxin's sister suddenly heard the sound of the door opening.
She suddenly woke up in a daze, thinking that something was wrong with her mother recently, she hurriedly got up from the bed and ran to her mother's room to see that her mother was indeed no longer in bed.
Pu Cunxin's sister had to call her brother in a hurry, everyone turned over the community and didn't find the old lady, and when she was in a hurry, the children at home saw her grandmother huddled in the flower bed.
Pu Cunxin and his wife
Finally found their mother, but as soon as they couldn't help but blame, they found out that their mother didn't know them, and sent them to the hospital for examination, only to learn that their mother had Alzheimer's disease, which is often referred to as Alzheimer's disease.
From that day on, they took care of their mother more attentively, for fear that one of them would run away from home again if they did not pay attention.
Pu Cunxin's sister is also old, and her body gradually can't bear to toss like this every day, because she doesn't dare to sleep at night, which causes her blood pressure to become high, and finally faints.
Seeing her sister in her 70s being tossed like this, Pu Cunxin decided to take care of her mother.
He discussed with his wife that the two of them would take turns to sleep with his mother, for fear that his mother would suddenly go out again, so Pu Cunxin tied a rope to his mother and him when he slept.
Every day, as long as I have time, I talk to my mother, talk about the past, and try to awaken my mother's memory.
After years of companionship, Pu Cunxin's mother finally gradually regained her memory, got to know her family, and recalled a lot of things.
Now Pu Cunxin is 70 years old, and he still insists on exercising every day after he has already become a grandfather. Faced with the reporter's inquiry, he replied frankly, "I don't dare to get old, I still have a mother to take care of." ”
epilogue
Even if it is a star, it will still face the same state of old and young as many ordinary people, "I dare not grow old" may be the voice of many post-70s and post-60s generations.