1. Be yourself and don't be too nosy.
Everyone has their own path, you just have to go your way. It's like a river, no matter how the scenery next to it changes, it always flows forward. Don't always think about how others will go, your path is the most important thing. Focus on your interests and goals, focus on your own growth and well-being, and don't let other people's gossip get in the way.
2. Don't care too much about what people think of you.
You can't please everyone, so just be happy. Think of the great men of history, who also had many detractors. But they stood by what they believed in and eventually made a difference. Life is not a stage to please others, but a journey to be true to yourself. Your worth is not something that can be defined by other people's evaluations.
3. There are some things that you can't control, so let them be.
Providence is unpredictable, and it is most worry-free to go with the flow. Just like the weather, you can't control whether tomorrow will be rain or shine, but you can choose to bring an umbrella or enjoy the sun. It's the same in life, don't push too much on things you can't control, so that you will be more relaxed and at ease.
4. Let the past pass, don't always think "what if...".
"The boat is naturally straight to the bridge", there is no need to always think about twists and turns. It's like walking a rough road, and looking back, it's become a part of your life's journey. Don't let the setbacks of the past hold you back from the present. Everyone has an imperfect past, but what matters is how you face the present and the future.
5. No one can say for sure what will happen in the future, but living in the present is the most important thing.
Grasp the present, and the future will naturally be good. It's like planting a seed, you can't immediately know what it will look like, but you can choose to start watering and fertilizing it now. Enjoy every moment of the present moment and cherish the people and things in front of you, so that your future will be brighter.
6. Trust your choices.
As long as you feel right, then rush forward and don't hesitate. Every decision is a turning point in your life's path. Just like driving, sometimes you need to quickly decide whether to turn left or right. Trust your instincts, even if the road is far away, as long as the direction is right, the end will always come.
7. Everything in the world has a reason.
Everything that happens to you is an experience and a lesson for you. It's like a rainy day, which may cause some inconvenience, but at the same time, it also gives moisture to the earth. Every challenge and difficulty is an opportunity for you to grow and a hone to make you stronger.