Wen Yining Jiang Zuo Mei Niang
Zhou Zhengwen is a single father who has been living with his daughter Pepe alone since he was 2 years old. In order to facilitate the baby, he quit his job, started a business, and opened a crayfish shop.
But unexpectedly, suddenly encountered the epidemic, so he was in a street, the business is very bleak, but he has a brain, active thinking, open vision, he began to shoot short vibrato videos, do group buying, his daughter also became the spokesperson of his store, so his business slowly began to flourish.
Now the monthly sales of crayfish in his shop are measured in tons, and her daughter is 9 years old, not only has excellent grades, one of the best in the class, but she can also act as her father's little assistant, and every holiday, she will come to the store to help her father do business.
This father-daughter experience really made me wet my eyes, it turned out that the father who loved the child was mostly very lucky.
01. Fathers who love their children will harvest their children's sincere feedback
The story of Zhou Zhengwen and his daughter's inspirational struggle reminds me of another story of a single father with a baby on the explosive network some time ago. The single father returned home after the night shift and pushed open the door for a moment, which made countless netizens break the defense. In addition to the messy and simple furnishings, the most eye-catching thing is the sleeping child on the bed, and the meal placed on the coffee table, next to the meal is a note, and the child writes the instructions and love for his father in childish handwriting.
"Dad, I slept first, my homework was done, and I remembered to eat when I got home from work." I love you. ”
Listening to this single father's words, I learned that he himself left work at 10 o'clock every night, and when he got home, his son would make the meal ready, but when he returned, if he came back early, the father and son would have dinner together, and if he came back late, he would leave this note for himself.
Oh my God, in this era, there are still such sensible children?
Many people say that most of today's children have ideas and are difficult to manage, but do you see such children? Learn to learn without worrying about the father, life and life can take care of themselves, and even take good care of the father, so that children who do not add chaos to adults, where to find?
And myself, even if I am bitter and tired, the moment I push the door home every day, I will feel extremely happy and warm, and all the bitterness and tiredness are nothing.
Yes, it is no wonder that netizens have left messages saying: "Such a child is here to repay the favor, no matter how tired and tired he is, he is very happy." ”
But why can such a child come to repay the favor?
Some people say that when divorced, there are definitely more women who are willing to have children than men who are willing to have children, one from nature and one from kindness.
In my opinion, there is also a result of carefulness and habits. Women with children, all kinds of details for the sake of children, she will notice, and men are mostly rough, coupled with women from childhood in the traditional culture of the ear, they are indeed more than men can bring, which also reflects from the side, men with children, it will be really difficult.
However, even if it is difficult, the man is still willing to bring, willing to give, to love, we can all think of how much difficulty he will face, how much embarrassment he will suffer. And the harder a father is, the more he will move his child, because what he feels is true love.
In The Art of Love, Fromm points out:
The basic element of true love is first of all "giving" rather than "getting."
Yes, even if you are a drag, a burden, and a lot of difficulties for me, the moment I see you, I just want to take care of you and take you with me.
For children, life is difficult, but the father has supported this family with his own strength, and his hardships, how can I not see it in my eyes? How could I not think of doing something for my father?
Just like Zhou Zhengwen's daughter, why does she attract business? How good are the grades? That's because soliciting business will make the family's business better, and his own grades are excellent, so that his father can rely on him in his old age.
You see, the father who loves his child will reap the child's sincere feedback, and the child's excellence is not his greatest fortune in his later years?
02. If true love is there, will money be far away?
Coincidentally, in the city where I live, there is also another single father with a similar experience, who registered an account on the Douyin platform - "Grandfather Mobile Barbecue".
This single father lives with his 4-year-old son, he has delivered takeaways, the winter is very cold, the father would rather freeze himself, but also to bring his own hat to his son, he wants to hold the handlebar with one hand, and the other hand to protect his son's young face from the cold wind. Dad also drove a large truck, in order to take his son, he built a small nest for his son in the back seat of the truck, driving in front of himself, and his son played with toys in the back.
Although the days are hard, the father's love has never been absent. Nowadays, dad relies on mobile barbecue stalls to support his son, and his videos have been encouraged and supported by many netizens after being released to the online platform, and even many netizens will deliberately find his barbecue stalls to eat and skewers, so that their business and financial resources will roll in.
And whenever I brush such a short video, I will unconsciously like and pay attention, because it makes me feel: the seemingly thin love of the human world, in fact, true love is always there. And true love is there, will money be far away?
Thinking of a short video story that I have seen before, the same post-90s single father Ah Yu, in order to give his daughter a different childhood, he made a crazy move, with his 4-year-old daughter in a pocket, cycling from Guangdong to Tibet, the whole journey is more than 4,000 kilometers.
This road is the wind and food in the eyes of others, it is a wandering street, it is a combination of wind and rain, and it is a place of uncertainty.
However, in the eyes of Ah Yu and Dou Duo, the scenery along the way is charming, it is the breeze that passes by the face, moisturizing the heart field, the bird's whispering in the ears, the murmuring, the tranquility of the wilderness, and the rice fragrance of the wheat field.
Riding all the way, when they reached the end, although they were already tired and their clothes were torn, in the hearts of this father and daughter, the companionship, laughter and encouragement of each other on the journey were better than all.
When Ah Yu encounters an uphill road, the little pocket will be very sensible to get off the car and walk, reduce the burden on dad, and will also use childish language to encourage dad to persevere.
For Doudou, in addition to the beautiful scenery and snacks along the way, what benefited her a lot was her father's love and such a rare childhood experience. These will plant the seeds of hope and perseverance in her young heart, no matter how much suffering she encounters in the future, I think she will be able to face the difficulties and not be afraid of the hardships of the future.
After Ayu later posted a video of himself riding with his daughter on a short video platform, it attracted a lot of comments and attention from netizens, although some people said that single fathers were too risky and the children were too young to ride at all. But more people say that fathers give their daughters a romantic and meaningful education, and their daughters will remember this unforgettable experience when they grow up. Their videos are also a mess.
In the business society, many people say, where is there any true love? True love has become a means, a strategy, but in fact, our pattern is too small, and we understand true love too narrowly.
Thinking of Fromm's point in The Art of Love:
"Giving" is the highest manifestation of strength, and it is precisely through "giving" that I can experience my strength, my "wealth", my "vitality".
Yes, love, in fact, is an invincible force, a priceless resource, when this love is sincere, then it will converge into a huge energy, will stimulate each other's strength, but also touch the hearts of each of us, naturally will harvest a rolling source of wealth.
So, you see, no matter how difficult it is, they can bravely rush to the next mountain and sea under the illumination of this true love.
Life may reserve its own suffering for everyone, but as long as you love and be loved, you can bravely bear it, because you will know that those sufferings are actually paving the way for a more beautiful romance for our future.
03. Mei Niang said
Dong Yuhui said:
"Some people are destined to carry the weight forward, just like turtles and snails, can not be without shells, they can be very slow, but they can be very firm, pressure makes people miserable, but pressure makes them firm, painful people are deep, profound people are firm." 」
And I want to say, why do we have to carry the weight forward? Because we have love, love is the answer to everything. #单亲爸爸月售3吨小龙虾养女儿 #