During Zhang Xinyi's confinement period, her mother-in-law personally stewed a pot of lotus soup, but she did not expect Yuan Hong to immediately say to her mother after seeing it: "Mom, this soup has been poured, and she must not let Xinyi drink it!" ”
The mother-in-law looked confused, but when stewing soup, she accidentally put the pot lid upside down on the pot, and the glue on the pot lid melted, as for the pour, it was too wasteful.
However, Yuan Hong believed that this pot of soup was contaminated and could not be given to his wife Zhang Xinyi to drink, and in the end, Zhang Xinyi insisted on drinking the soup in order not to live up to the old man's heart.
It can be seen from here that Yuan Hong is really fond of Zhang Xinyi, and the marriage between the two of them is also proving to the outside world that the second marriage can also be very happy.
So whether the second marriage can be happy in the end, the answer is yes, because happiness has never had anything to do with whether the second marriage is or not, and those who have a relationship are only people who enter the marriage.
I remember that when Yuan Honggang and Zhang Xinyi got married, they said that they wanted to give the money to Zhang Xinyi for safekeeping, and Zhang Xinyi directly refused: I have money, I don't care about your money. It can be seen that economic independence is the foundation of women's marriage.
After the two of them got married and had children, the family division of labor has always been very clear, one day at the dinner table, Zhang Xinyi said that she wanted to go out to work, Yuan Hong's mother retorted after listening: You go out to work with children who bring. Zhang Xinyi did not answer, Yuan Hong rushed to answer: I bring ah.
Then Yuan Hong's mother said that the child should have been taken by the mother, Yuan Hong went out to work, Zhang Xinyi still did not directly refute, but Yuan Hong rushed to say that the child should be taken by two people together to be reasonable, one person went out to work, the other person should take the child at home, there is nothing that must be brought by anyone.
It can be seen that good marriage men bear a very important position in it, know how to deal with the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, of course, this is entirely because Zhang Xinyi and Yuan Hong have reached a common agreement on family responsibilities, the two bear it together, and the husband and wife have achieved absolute participation in the family, and such a sense of participation will make the sense of family responsibility of the two people stronger and stronger.
This can also explain why some family mothers love their children more than their fathers, and they are more reluctant to let the family be broken, because the mother is the absolute giver of the family, and most of the fathers are like invisible people, without paying, how can they cherish it?
This is the way to get along with marriage, women are economically independent, men are willing to stand in the perspective of women to help her solve problems, no matter what the two sides are, they can do business, the two share family responsibilities, common progress, such a relationship can be long-lasting.
So now, do you know why happiness and first marriage are not directly related to second marriage?
