"I want to sell kidneys, I have to climb to Hong Kong, I want to accompany my daughter to find Andy Lau."
This is what Yang Lijuan's father said in the show.
Yang Lijuan was once a die-hard fan of Andy Lau, and her father sold his kidneys for money to let his daughter go to concerts in order to support his daughter's star chasing.
In the end, the father also let Andy Lau see his daughter alone and committed suicide by jumping into the river.
Why did Yang Lijuan's father dot on his daughter so much, willing to sell his kidney and even commit suicide for his daughter?
Life is so worthless in their eyes?
Yang Lijuan was born in Lanzhou, Gansu.
Her father was a chinese language teacher and a middle-aged woman at the age of 40.
Her father was very fond of her, holding it in his hand for fear of falling, and holding it in his mouth for fear of melting.
Yang Lijuan also likes her father.
When she was young, she often sat in the doorway of the building waiting for her father to leave work.
Seeing her father coming from the corner, she rushed into his arms.
The feelings of the father and daughter envy others.
This also laid the groundwork for her father to spoil his daughter excessively in the future, to support his daughter to chase stars, sell his kidney and even jump into the river to commit suicide.
It is said that Yang Lijuan's mother had a bad temper and often beat her.
"When her mother was in a good mood, the two people had a good relationship, but once her daughter made a mistake, she was beaten to death."
"Once her mother hit her daughter with a wet towel and knocked the skin off her face."
Relatives of Yang Lijuan later said in an interview.
But neighbors and friends have different opinions.
"Her mother was very domineering and tyrannical at home, and often scolded their father and daughter."
"Yang Lijuan was pampered and arrogant, and scolded them at every turn, and they both did not say a word."
Another person said, "Mother and daughter often quarrel and fight, and her father fights in the middle."
Anyway, no matter what the truth is, there have never been relatives, friends or street offices to persuade the fight.
It can be seen that Yang Lijuan's childhood was unfortunate.
On the contrary, Lai Wenhui is also a fan of Andy Lau, but her childhood was very happy.
Lai Wenhui was born in 1982 in Guangdong Province.
She has loved dancing since she was a child, and her parents are very supportive of their daughters.
Signed her up for a training class, and every day after school, her parents took her to dance classes.
Lai Wenhui is highly talented in dance, and with unremitting efforts, her basic dance skills are very solid.
This also laid the groundwork for her to become Andy Lau's dance companion in the future.
Yang Lijuan and Lai Wenhui are both vegetarians, but the opposite childhood has brought them different fates.
In 1994, Yang Lijuan was 16 years old.
One night, she met a man in a dream.
In the dream, she said to the man.
"Who are you?"
"We will meet with true feelings." The man said.
Yang Lijuan woke up from the dream.
She didn't take it to heart at the time.
The following year, by chance, she saw Andy Lau's poster in the commissary.
It was the man who appeared in the dream.
Yang Lijuan's love dou first opened, looking at the husband in the dream, she secretly decided in her heart.
"Andy Lau, you are my future husband, you are waiting for me, I will definitely come to you, will definitely make you fall in love with me."
She began to be madly infatuated with Andy Lau, and even proposed to drop out of school to her family in order to concentrate on pursuing her future husband.
Faced with his daughter's irrational demands, the father did not say a word, agreed to his daughter's request, and gave her daughter a withdrawal from school.
It can be seen that her father's doting on her has no end.
The father was a language teacher, and as a people's teacher, he educated people, but he did not raise his daughter well.
If the father had persuaded his daughter, wouldn't the tragedy have happened?
As his daughter dropped out of school, the father left school with his daughter.
Later, Yang Lijuan talked about the reason for her father's departure in the program.
"At that time, there was a professor who wrote an article, which gave us a kind of public opinion pressure, and under pressure, my father would leave his job."
It is said that after her father left his job, he was paid a retirement salary, but did not return to school to teach.
In 1997, Yang Lijuan's father spent 9900 yuan to sign up for a Hong Kong tour group for his daughter.
Let the daughter go to Andy Lau.
At that time, his father could only take 2,000 yuan a month, which cost him half a year's salary.
The family can only live in abstinence.
But the father never complained to his daughter.
This Trip to Hong Kong did not let Yang Lijuan and Andy Lau talk.
Her purpose has not yet been achieved.
So I began to plan my next meeting.
When Yang Lijuan was painstakingly pursuing her dream lover,
Lai Wenhui had a chance to get close to Andy Lau.
In 2002, Andy Lau's dance partner had a temporary problem at the concert and could not be present.
Lai Wenhui was recommended to Andy Lau by her teacher because of her excellent dance skills.
She felt like a Cinderella chosen by the prince.
Lai Wenhui is also a die-hard fan of Andy Lau, and she is glad that she has been practicing dance since she was a child.
To be able to stand by the side of one's idol in such a way is a lifelong wish.
With a pious attitude, she stepped onto the stage and stood by Andy Lau's side.
The performance ended smoothly, and her soulful dance was deeply appreciated by Andy Lau.
Later, Hua Tsai invited Lai Wenhui to join his team and dance with him.
At that time, Lai Wenhui was only 16 years old, and she felt that she was an ordinary person, and Andy Lau was a big star with great brilliance.
Do fireflies also dare to compete with the sun and moon?
Lai Wenhui refused the invitation of her idol.
When Lai Wenhui rejected Andy Lau infinitely, the situation of Yang Lijuan's family was getting worse and worse.
Her parents sold their family house to support their daughter in pursuing her dreams.
The family moved into a small rental house with a monthly rent of $400.
In 2003, Lai Wenhui participated in Andy Lau's concert.
Hua Tsai on the stage saw the girl who rejected her at a glance.
After the performance, he once again invited Lai Wenhui to join his team.
This time Lai Wenhui did not refuse.
Lai Wenhui has since stood by the side of her idol, while Yang Lijuan is still on the road of chasing her husband.
The following year, Andy Lau came to Gansu to shoot a new drama "No Thief in the World".
He and Yang Lijuan are in the same city, but the identities of the two people are very different, but they are doomed to not see each other.
Since then, whichever city Andy Lau goes to, Yang Lijuan will follow him and pursue her dreams.
She chased her dreams for ten years, chasing the thoughts in her heart and the obsessions in her heart.
But her parents, for the happiness of their daughters, are in debt.
Once, my mother broke her leg, and the family had no money to see a doctor, leaving her disabled.
The father helplessly said that he was going to sell the kidney, which led to the opening paragraph of the article.
In the face of her father selling kidneys to support herself, Yang Lijuan was not touched by this and gave up the road of chasing her dreams.
If she had the slightest hesitation, perhaps her father would not have killed himself in the end.
In 2007, at Andy Lau's concert.
Lai Wenhui danced with his song "MuDi".
The two men dressed as lovers and played the role of cowherd weaver girl.
Andy Lau officially introduced to everyone that his 3 million annual salary hired dance partner, Lai Wenhui, .
The dance of the two people is full of emotion, and their affectionate look at each other envies a large number of fans.
Later, when Andy Lau sang "Love You for Ten Thousand Years", his emotions reached the extreme, and he shouted "I love you" to the audience.
After saying that, he turned to his dance partner Lai Wenhui and said, "I love you too."
Lai Wenhui's eyes were full of tears, and he felt that he had no regrets in this life.
Although there is no chance to go to the door of love with Andy Lau, but to be a pair of stage partners with him, there is no regret in this life.
After becoming famous, many companies paid high salaries to dig her to dance, and even bid ten times the price, and Lai Wenhui refused one by one.
A reporter interviewed her and asked her if she was already in love with Andy Lau.
She replied helplessly, who doesn't love him?
When Lai Wenhui was full of spirits, Yang Lijuan ushered in a heavy blow of fate.
- She threatened with her life that she had to see Andy Lau.
The father, afraid that his daughter would do something stupid, asked the media for help at the suggestion of a friend.
For a while, the news of "father selling kidneys to help his daughter chase stars" became headlines.
There was an uproar in society.
Suddenly pushed Andy Lau to the cusp of the storm.
Some media said that they could help them, but they found Hua Tsai imitators, and the family was immediately angry and felt that they had been deceived.
At this time, another media outlet claimed that it could help.
This time, the father borrowed 11,000 yuan from the loan shark to help his daughter meet Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan finally got her wish and took a photo with her dream lover.
In the photo, she smiled brightly and looked at Andy Lau affectionately.
In my 20s, I like the opposite sex and want to share a whitehead with each other, which is a very normal thing.
But unfortunately she chose the wrong person.
After Yang Lijuan took a photo with Andy Lau, she was immediately ousted from the stage and did not even say a word.
Subsequently, she and her father wrote several letters asking for a private meeting with the idol, but they all fell into the sea.
Outside public opinion has also fallen to Andy Lau, thinking that she is delusional and dreamy.
They all feel that she, an ordinary person, is not worthy of Andy Lau.
In the face of the pressure of public opinion, Yang Lijuan's father was sad from the heart, wrote a 7-page suicide note, and committed suicide by jumping into the river.
Later generations commented that her father could write so many words, and the emotions were certainly not at the highest point, but still very rational.
If there was no pressure from public opinion, if someone had found out that he wanted to take his own life and gently pulled it, a life would not have been lost in vain.
As soon as the matter came out, in the face of Yang Lijuan's request to meet privately, Andy Lau did not agree.
"I think people should think she doesn't need help."
He said at a press conference.
In the end, singer Yang Chengang pitied the mother and daughter and sponsored them for 20,000 yuan.
The two returned to their hometown in Lanzhou with their father's body.
Yang Lijuan sprinkled her father's ashes into the Yellow River, and she would go to the Yellow River every year to worship her father.
The dust has fallen on her side, but Andy Lau has received threatening phone calls from fans many times, forcing him to meet with him.
As a last resort, he canceled all concerts and fan meet-ups and disappeared before people.
During that time, Andy Lau even thought he was suffering from depression and went to see a doctor.
Although Hua Tsai did not meet with Yang Lijuan in the end, he still secretly helped the little girl pay off the loan shark.
Yang Lijuan and her father's actions have affected many people.
It has an impact on Andy Lau and also on Lai Wenhui.
With the cancellation of hua tsai concert, she also faded from people's vision.
When she was dancing with Andy Lau, she broke up with her boyfriend and is still single.
Lai Wenhui is 40 years old this year, she has been alone, it is said that she is for Hua Tsai to guard the jade.
And Andy Lau did not live up to her feelings. After his wife, Zhu Liqian, gave birth to a daughter.
Hua Tsai named his daughter Liu Xianghui.
Maybe two people appreciate each other and have feelings for each other.
Lai Wenhui's ending is still relatively beautiful and happy, so how is Yang Lijuan living now?
She now lives with her mother in a rental house with a monthly rent of 1,000 yuan.
The mother and daughter are dependent on each other for their lives, and their lives are very simple.
There is no refrigerator at home, and two people can only cook a little less, no leftovers.
Yang Lijuan works during the day, and her mother prepares meals at home and waits for her daughter to come home from work.
She also went home early to eat with her mother as soon as she got off work.
The night view of Lanzhou is beautiful, and many people drink beer skewers by the river.
Yang Lijuan's mother and daughter were curled up in a small rental house, eating their own meals.
Her life is now very plain, but it is also beautiful.
Every time her father's death day, she would carefully go to the flower shop and carefully select chrysanthemums for her father, and she would have bright colors and no black spots.
Yang Lijuan took chrysanthemums and sprinkled them on the Yellow River to pay tribute to her father and miss her father.
Some people don't know how to cherish until they lose.
Everyone has the right to pursue love, but different ways lead to different results.
Too much paranoia will only pay a greater price,
Where in the world comes the Two Perfections, everything is only half satisfactory. Respect for oneself is the best respect for oneself.
I hope that Yang Lijuan can get out of the haze of the past as soon as possible and learn to love the world.