Recently, Zhu Yuchen's new drama "Welcome" was officially broadcast, in which he played one of the "three brothers of the doorman", and he won unanimous praise from the audience for his superb acting skills.
In the first episode, at the beginning, when Zhang Guang, played by Huang Xuan, was introducing the dormitory environment, Wang Niulang, played by Zhu Yuchen, attracted a large audience to watch with a few simple actions and expressions of eating noodles and playing games.
Later, Zhu Yuchen's small expression after drinking a bottle of liquor at the barbecue stall made him suck countless powders.
In the play, he is 30 years old and alone, and outside the play, he is still alone at the age of 43, which is really "drama like life".
In fact, he once had sincere feelings, but unfortunately, under the mixing of his mother, all of them disappeared, and I wonder if he can still meet such a beautiful love as before in the future?
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In 1995, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei met in the Hangzhou Academy of Fine Arts in Zhejiang, they were both struggling for their dreams, and it rained lightly on the day of their first acquaintance, and when Zhu Yuchen saw Tang Wei's first glance, he was deeply attracted by this girl.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen was very timid, and did not show his heart to Tang Wei, he thought that he would not see him again, but he did not expect that the fate was so wonderful.
In 1997, the two met again during the Beijing exam, and this time Zhu Yuchen bravely expressed his love to Tang Wei and began to pursue.
In fact, Tang Wei also had a good feeling for Zhu Yuchen, a young man, and it didn't take long for the two people to come together.
Unfortunately, Tang Wei fell out of the list in the examination of the Chinese opera, but this did not affect their feelings, but made this relationship more intense.
Zhu Yuchen was going to beijing to go to school, Tang Wei went with him, she worked outside the home, while studying, those days were the happiest time for the two of them.
In 2000, Tang Wei was finally admitted to the Chinese opera, but her relationship with Zhu Yuchen was also on the verge of rupture.
If it is simply said that the problem between two people is not very accurate, it is very normal for two people to quarrel in love, and the biggest reason is actually from the interference of Zhu Yuchen's mother.
For Zhu Yuchen's future daughter-in-law, his mother has her own standards, that is:
"Can control Zhu Yuchen, life is regular, no small nature, do not drink indiscriminately", Tang Wei is obviously unqualified in his mother's eyes.
In this way, There is their own contradiction between Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei, and with the intervention of Zhu Yuchen's mother, the relationship between the two people will not be resolved.
After the breakup, Zhu Yuchen and Tang Wei seemed to not know each other, even if they met on campus, they were like strangers.
Later, some people said that Zhu Yuchen did not want to see anything related to Tang Wei again, because whenever he saw Tang Wei Zhu Yuchen, he would be sad, which showed that he really loved Tang Wei.
Zhu Yuchen's mother not only interfered in his feelings, but also mixed with his life, Zhu Yuchencheng was also because of her mother, and defeat was also because of his mother.
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Zhu Yuchen, born in 1979, is the only son in the family, and his birth made his mother Zhu Xiangling very excited, and in an era when there was still a serious idea of "son preference", Zhu Yuchen gained the greatest favor.
Of course, he has always been strictly required to carry the hopes of his family, after all, parents are looking forward to Jackie Chan.
When Zhu Yuchen was 4 years old, he began to practice the piano under the supervision of his mother, which was a very unbearable thing for him to play at a young age.
He had thought of various ways to end this life, pour water on the piano, pretend to be sick, as long as he could think of it, he used it, but it was not useless, in exchange for a piece of "bamboo shoot fried meat".
Under this strict requirement, Zhu Yuchen is also much stronger than children of the same age, otherwise he would not be able to be admitted to the Central Academy of Drama.
If the maternal love of childhood is a bucket of sweet honey, then when Zhu Yuchen has his own thoughts, this heavy mother has become a harmful poison.
The reason why Zhu Yuchen went to school in Beijing was to get rid of his mother, and in the days when he was about to enter school, he fantasized about a free life after leaving his mother every day, and even wanted to embark on the road of studying alone.
However, on the day of the actual departure, my mother had already packed her bags and was ready to go to school with him.
At that time, Zhu Yuchen was already a 19-year-old boy, fully capable of taking care of himself, but in his mother's eyes he was a small child who would never grow up.
On the day of enrollment, Zhu Yuchen stood at the door of the Chinese opera, looking at the crowds coming and going inside, and he was thinking that he would definitely become a "big star" after 4 years.
But on the first day of enrollment, Zhu Yuchen became a "celebrity" in the dormitory, and the other students made their own beds, and Zhu Yuchen's mother was reluctant to let her son do anything, and she personally made a bed for Zhu Yuchen.
What's even more outrageous is that when the parents of the other students are gone, Zhu Yuchen's mother has not left, so she quietly looks at the other students and asks them in a surprising language: "Do you snore when you sleep?" ”。
Looking at the wall of creepers outside the dormitory, she was afraid that there would be bugs coming back to bite Zhu Yuchen in the summer, and she wanted to take hot water to burn those creepers to death, or Zhu Yuchen stopped her mother in time so that she did not put it into action.
Zhu Yuchen's mother's love for him has melted into her bones, and every time Zhu Yuchen leaves home, she will cry for hours, and when Zhu Yuchen comes home, she will smile and close her mouth.
The time passed quickly, and Zhu Yuchen also walked out of the campus and began to have his own acting career.
At first, it was fortunate that Zhu Yuchen's fame was not so big, he did not have much say in the crew, and his mother would not bother him in the crew.
Just watching the TV series he had acted in over and over again at home, the most incomprehensible thing was that his mother would copy down all the messages he posted on social platforms, almost to the point of being able to publish a book.
In 2007, Zhu Yuchen starred in the TV series "Struggle", with this TV series he became a hit, and then he received various film contracts and advertisements, and the time to meet his mother Zhu Xiangling was getting less and less.
This is not difficult for Zhu Xiangling, she picked up the pots and pans at home and chased Zhu Yuchen to the crew, every day will cook for him to eat, she is not tired of this.
She once said: "My aim is that my son will give him a warm kitchen wherever he goes."
She would boil soup for Zhu Yuchen every day, make various juices, and even divide the time to drink, Zhu Yuchen also rebelled against her mother's somewhat deformed love, but the effect was minimal.
However, because of her mother, Zhu Yuchen also ushered in her second relationship.
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It was in 2012, Zhu Yuchen and Jiang Yan met in the filming of "The Story of Time and Yin", when they were just nodding their heads.
Until one time Zhu Yuchen took back the dish that Jiang Yan made herself and gave it to her mother to eat, his mother was surprised when she saw the dish, so she asked Zhu Yuchen who made it.
Zhu Yuchen replied that it was done by an actress, and Zhu Xiangling immediately became interested, constantly asking how the actress was, whether she had a boyfriend, and how she looked.
Under the questioning of her mother, Zhu Yuchen told her mother about Jiang Yan's situation, and she felt that this girl was very interesting, so she instigated Zhu Yuchen to pursue others.
Not to mention that after some persuasion from his mother, Zhu Yuchen really had a good feeling for Jiang Yan, although Jiang Yan was smaller than Zhu Yuchen, but after Zhu Yuchen's unremitting efforts, he finally took down Jiang Yan.
In 2014, the love affair between the two people was exposed, for his little girlfriend, Zhu Yuchen is also very fond of, the feelings of the two people are very good, although there is some friction in life, but there is no impact on their feelings.
The public is also very optimistic about the relationship between the two people, and it is Zhu Yuchen's mother who instigated him to pursue it should no longer be like the previous Tang Only, but the relationship between the two people is still quietly ending.
There is no too specific statement about why they broke up, but there are rumors that Zhu Yuchen's mother felt that Jiang Yan's dress was somewhat exposed, so she advised her to be conservative, and Jiang Yan felt that this was a violation of her own life, so she and Zhu Yuchen decisively broke up.
The happiness that Zhu Yuchen had so hard to pursue had once again dissipated.
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In the face of the failure of her son's feelings, Zhu Xiangling did not find problems from herself, in her opinion, she just hopes that her son can live a better life, if not strict requirements, when she is old, who will take care of her son so carefully?
Zhu Xiangling also said in a high-profile way in a program that she knew every relationship of Zhu Yuchen, and often intervened.
Although Zhu Xiangling expressed her apologies to her son in some programs and told Zhu Yuchen that she would try her best to correct herself, each time it was a few days of heat, but then she returned to her previous style.
This kind of love is really depressing, in the program of "My Family's That Boy", everyone sees Zhu Yuchen's home refrigerator, everyone feels very surprised, in the eyes of many people, a boy is not so exquisite.
Indeed, everything in Zhu Yuchen's refrigerator was prepared for her by Zhu Xiangling, not only the ribs were cooked, but even the meat was cut according to portions.
Zhu Yuchen and his sister were single, and his sister was single because Zhu Xiangling taught her daughter to treat the family the same way she did after marriage.
Watching her mother's deformed love for her brother from a young age, Zhu Yuchen's sister may have long been afraid of marriage, and she told her mother that she could not bear so much responsibility, and she could only live her own life.
Zhu Yuchen once cried and asked, "What's wrong, why doesn't anyone want to stay by my side?" ”
If he had been looking for a girlfriend according to her mother's request, it would have been really difficult to get results.
Zhu Yuchen's mother was very fond of Huo Siyan, but Huo Siyan's words expressed her resistance, and in her opinion, Zhu Yuchen was not a good match.
Huo Siyan said in the program: "Like Zhu Yuchen's mother, I think it is easy for the old people to say that marrying a bride and marrying a bride is to marry a new bride, in this case, I am not very suitable."
Zhu Yuchen because of the broadcast of the "My Family That Kid" program, so that his career has also been affected, people often say that there is an old family, such as a treasure, but Zhu Yuchen's mother has become a piece of his heart disease.
From the day he was able to live independently, he had fantasized about escaping from his mother's control, but he had never really escaped, perhaps focusing on filial piety, perhaps cherishing his mother's warm harbor, or something else.
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Today, Zhu Yuchen is 43 years old and still has not married and had children.
However, recently someone photographed him and a strange woman going out to buy vegetables together, and after buying vegetables, the two returned to Zhu Yuchen's home together.
From the photos exposed by netizens, it is not difficult to see that Zhu Yuchen takes good care of this girl, and even the key things are not allowed to be taken.
In the face of the news exposed by the suspected Zhu Yuchen's girlfriend, it also caused an uproar on the Internet, netizens have complained about Zhu Yuchen's mother, threatening to let the girl run quickly, Zhu Yuchen's mother is too scary.
Some netizens even said that Zhu Yuchen should live with his mother for the rest of his life and not have to marry his daughter-in-law at all.
In fact, it does not have to be so, although Zhu Yuchen's mother has some deformities in her love for Zhu Yuchen, this does not mean that the old man is a person who does not understand things, presumably there is a reminder of Zhu Yuchen's two failed feelings before, Zhu Yuchen's mother must be very respectful of her son's wishes this time.
Although it was abandoned for a while, Zhu Yuchen's performance in his new work "Welcome" is still eye-catching, and in just a few actions, he has attracted countless fans for him, hoping that he can achieve a good result again through this opportunity.
For those netizens who chase Zhu Yuchen and his mother, I also hope that everyone can experience the love of an old man for his son, after all, everyone lives in different times, why take their own standards to ask others?
And "no one is a saint or a sage can be blameless", everyone will make mistakes, whether the mistake is good or bad, it is good to correct it in time, of course, different situations should use different methods, and the right medicine is the most important.
Finally, I hope that Zhu Yuchen can find the happiness that belongs to him as soon as possible.
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