Do education with temperature

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Most of us do something wrong and have experiences of being scolded or beaten by teachers and parents. Speaking of which, when you are beaten and scolded, you should take the initiative to realize your mistakes, but there are many exceptions, and there are many children who are beaten who not only do not admit their mistakes, but also feel very wronged, and even hate them a little!

The reason is that their education methods are too simple and rude, too tough and unreasonable, and finally the purpose of education is not achieved, and even has a counterproductive effect, so that children become rebellious.

At this time, we parents should reflect on our own inappropriate words and deeds, and we should educate our children with the wind and rain. Use a warm heart to warm the child's heart, help the child analyze where he is wrong, how the parents and teachers want him to do, hope to see how he grows, let the child also stand in the perspective of adults to look at and analyze the problem, understand the good intentions of adults, so as to warm and move children, in order to achieve the fundamental purpose of education.

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Home is a place of affection rather than reason, warm heart is warm, warm heart is smooth, the child's success will be in reason, become a natural thing.

A well-known story of Edison's coming-of-age gives us some inspiration.

How did Edison drop out of school in three months of elementary school and be a hearing-impaired child, growing up to be the world's greatest inventor? We all know that it was Mother Nancy who gave him a great influence. Nancy did not have a profound cultural background, and there was no scientific educational method or advanced educational concept to guide her at that time, but how did Nancy educate Edison? The details of it are unknown, so I paid special attention to collecting some information in this regard, and I found that the relationship between mother and son made me feel the most, that is, to embrace everything about the child with unconditional love and warmth, and the child's soul will be supported, and such support will become a treasure of the soul for life.

When it comes to Edison's home education, we have to start with Edison dropping out of school. As for the reason for Edison's withdrawal, everyone knows that it was because Edison asked "Teacher, why is one plus one two?" The teacher said, "Edison, if you take a pencil and add a pencil, won't that turn into two pencils?" "But teacher, take the water from two cups and put it in the other cup, and the water will be concentrated in one cup, how can one plus one be two?" The teacher didn't know how to answer. "Teacher, two pieces of mud stuck together is a piece, why one plus one is two, maybe one plus one is one." At this time, the teacher was angry: "It's really annoying! Think for yourself. So the teacher continued to attend the class. Edison raised his hand again, "What's the matter, Edison?" The teacher pressed the fire and asked." Teacher, why is the wind blowing? "Teacher, why do eggs hatch chicks?" The teacher said, "That's because the hens are heating the eggs." "Teacher, why do you heat your eggs to hatch chicks?" Edison asked many more whys, what "Why don't fish drown?" "Why is the sky blue?" Waiting why the teacher finally couldn't bear it, scolded him fiercely: "It's really annoying, bastard, honestly learn your arithmetic!" Are you a fool? Reading like you is also reading for nothing. Edison went home crying.

The mother listened to her son's story, took Edison's hand to the school to find the teacher, and questioned the teacher: Do you mean that my son is a fool and stupid, and reading is also a white reading? The teacher was speechless. "I understand, my son has my own education, don't bother the teacher, goodbye." Taking her son's hand and going home, Nancy thought as she walked, "Teacher Engel forced the child to memorize the textbook in its entirety, and the son felt disgusted, and the two of them fell into a stalemate." I don't force him, I want to enjoy the joy of thinking with him. Memorize the content of the textbook and go to hell! Memorizing textbooks is useless when they grow up, and aren't living textbooks everywhere? Nancy secretly vowed: "To give her son a try and never lose the education of other children." Thus began the family education of Edison.

Edison received endless love from his mother, and in his heart, no matter when and on any occasion, he could feel his mother's tolerance, warmth and encouragement. The maternal love that was rooted in Edison's heart supported his soul throughout his life. According to the diary recorded by Edison, after losing his mother at the age of 24, Edison's soul has been talking to his mother in the depths of his heart, when he is happy, when he is lonely, when he is in pain, Edison will talk to his mother in his heart and soothe his soul, especially when the research goes into a desperate situation, and when he encounters setbacks and troubles, he will miss his mother's smiling face and get comfort in his mother's smiling face and wordless encouragement. When Edison's invention of filament failed ten thousand times, the assistants wanted to give up, the investors wanted to withdraw the remaining funds, he fell into a desperate situation, he was depressed and almost unable to stand up, just this night, he dreamed of his mother, heard his mother's laughter, "mother" Edison pounced on it, his mother held him tightly in her arms, and Edison cried like a child. When he woke up the next morning, his mother's voice sounded in his ear: "Try again." Edison continued to devote himself to the experiments, still failing one after another, until fourteen thousand experiments he succeeded, and the filament made of tungsten reached the ideal thousand hours.

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Edison's childhood was unfortunate. Because there are no good teachers in the school who appreciate him, and there is no soil suitable for Eddie to grow up. Therefore, the mother who wants to be strong takes on the heavy responsibility of raising her child. "I don't force him, I want to enjoy thinking with him."

Such an educational mentality gives children the space for rapid development, and also gives children the opportunity to feel the whole process of success, laying the foundation for Edison's success.

If he had been in school, Edison, the genius inventor, would have been overwhelmed by the teacher's indifference and lack of loving and warm education, and Edison's good fortune lay in the fact that he had a mother who gave him love, warmth and tolerance unconditionally.

Successful flower buds bloom in the warm education of mothers like a spring breeze!

I don't know if it is a coincidence that Edison, Einstein, these outstanding historical figures have a "love" in their names, which is also very interesting!

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Therefore, from the above examples, we cannot help but sigh: education should be hot, not cold; it should be convincing people with reason, not coercing people; it should serve the end, not skillfully use means!

There is a saying that filial piety comes out under the stick, and I think that even if there is filial piety, the filial piety under the stick will be psychologically deformed, and it will also be an impersonal filial piety! Such filial piety will not come out!

Because there is temperature, because there is love, the effectiveness of education will be sharply magnified, education will become self-education, criticism will also become self-criticism, greatly improving the consciousness of education, so that education will achieve autonomy!

On the contrary, if we blindly ignore warm education and are cold and textbook-style rigid in children's education, children will stand against their parents, and they will have hostile psychology, distrust and resistance. Because it is simple and rude, children do not even know where they are wrong, not to mention that sometimes even if they know that they are wrong, they will selectively ignore their mistakes and knowingly commit them, which will cause parents headaches.

An education without temperature is pathetic, it is the opposite, but also in disguise to pull hatred, such parents are failures, children will not get the attention and respect they deserve, can not get the warmth of family affection and let themselves go, and give up on themselves.

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We came into this world from the warm arms of our mother, and the people and things around us were already too cold and lonely. Each of us longs for warmth, longs for family, friendship and love, longs for understanding and communication, and desires happiness and harmony, so is it interesting that we ourselves artificially create high cold and create contradictions?

As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world!

The world needs education, education needs temperature, education without temperature is not called education called a lesson!

Thousands of rivers and mountains are always love, is it okay to give a little warmth?

From today, from this moment on, do education with temperature!