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Perhaps, when people are young, they will always feel that love should meet him, and since then they have a shy face, and if they look at him more, they will beat their hearts endlessly, as long as they see his figure from a distance, they can be happy for half a day.
Later, when you grow up, the more you understand that the original long-term love relationship should make you "feel at ease" and "gentle".
It's like, you are tired for a day, when you come home, you think of washing vegetables and cooking, your mood is more and more irritable, and at this time, he also enters the door, sees your dejection, sees your unhappiness, and immediately holds your hand, "Go, there is a new barbecue restaurant downstairs, we will try today, change the taste."
In an instant, your heart turned cloudy and happy.
Life is long, people in this life, there will always be many unsatisfactory, and this person around you, but will not give you "impatience", but "indulge" your bad temper, catch all your emotions, give you warmth, give you companionship.
-02-
There are always people who say that two people have been together for a long time, and their feelings have become weaker.
In fact, this is not the case, two people have been together for a long time, the freshness may be gone, but you will find that one of your frowns, he can sense the exhaustion of your heart; you learn to make a new dish, he will praise you to the sky.
Love, for men, is actually a kind of compatibility in the plain.
Some things, it seems that he does not care about you, but they are blatantly loved by you in the cold of the world, and spoil you naturally in the chickens and dogs of life.
Only because he longs for your love to be extended indefinitely.
When a man "doesn't care" about you in these three things, he must be deeply in love with you.
Don't care about your "past", just want your "future"
The person who really loves you, in fact, will not care about your past.
Just like the saying: the fool in love will fight with the past.
After all, people have lived for decades, more or less will have some past that they do not want to mention, do not want to dissect their hearts, and there will be some small secrets that want to sink in their hearts, and this person who loves you, if he loves you, must not want you to fall into those painful pasts, let alone want to cut you to the bottom, want to know your privacy.
He will clearly know that what he wants is your present, your future, and you are living together.
Therefore, some girls will still wonder why he never mentions my past, whether he does not love me, why he never asks.
In fact, if he asks you, will you tell you frankly? Not necessarily.
Therefore, it is better to live in the present.
After all, to live a life, it is necessary for two people to put the sour, sweet, bitter, bitter, happy and sad, taste together, and bear it together. If you live in the "calculations" of the past, those days will always be in the healing of the wounds of the past.
Who took off their clothes and didn't have a few scars? So why bother reminiscing about the scarred past?
The person who loves you, he only cares about the present moment you can be by his side, he wants to know whether you are doing well, those past ethereal, just let it go with the wind!
Don't care about your "willfulness", just want to calm your "anger"
There is a saying that marriage is a kind of righteous spirit of liver and gallbladder.
Indeed it is.
Two people have been together for a long time, and it is inevitable that they will expose their stinky temper, small nature, and various shortcomings to each other. But no matter how imperfect you are, no matter how human you are, he will be soft on you, tolerant of you, and caring for you.
In fact, if a woman loves a person, many times, her so-called "willfulness" is likely to be unintentional "love". Some men obviously see the uneasiness of women in this love, but they do not care about women's emotions at all, and even add fuel to the fire, do not ask women, do not answer, such men, most of them just want to play with her.
However, a person who loves you will see through the depression behind your irritability and the anxiety behind your temper, so whenever you are upset, he will give you understanding, and whenever you are wronged and need comfort, he will find a way to make you happy.
Love, often in these small details, let two people silently make up their minds in their hearts, and they must work with this person for a lifetime.
Therefore, those who live selfishly, greedily, and do not know how to be grateful, seemingly infinite scenery, girlfriends change non-stop behind, most of them, at a certain moment, they will lose the people they most want to love seriously, because he does not know how to cherish.
Life is long, inclusive, heartache, so that the love of two people, more and more perfect.
Let me ask you, when a woman gives her waywardness to someone else, what will she give you? It is likely that it is only false, contrived, unreal, and when one day, you ask her "what's wrong" and she answers you with a sentence of "I'm okay", then most of the time, you are not far from the end.
After all, the heart is cold, and no matter how thick the clothes, they can't cover the heat.
I don't care about your "getting old", I just want to live a life with you
In this world, there are two people who are most inseparable from you, one is a parent and a relative, and the other is someone who truly loves you.
In "Charlotte Troubles", Charlotte, who traveled back, finally chased the school flower Qiuya, who had a crush, but lost Ma Dongmei, who loved him the most.
When he was already very popular, he returned to the hut that had once given him warmth, and saw Ma Dongmei's that he once loved and hated again, the bowl of fennel noodles that made him remember the past infinitely, and he ate with tears.
Yes, none of them were the teenagers they once were, but he couldn't grow old with her.
Man, it is always after the loss that you understand that the skin bag is just an external, and the people who really make you love deeply are the people who touch your heart the most, and the people you want to live a plain life with her and slowly grow old.
Women, in this life, the most afraid, is that one day they will be "old", but the most unable to escape, is also "old".
However, when you have a person around you, he clearly knows that when you are old, he will also be old, and love will make the affection between you deeper and deeper with the flow of time, this person, he must be the person who loves you deeply.
The interaction between people is actually an exchange between hearts and hearts, and the role of the skin bag, in this love, is the process of each other being able to witness each other's old age.
The person who really loves you, he will see you smile, showing wrinkles, but also happy, because you can still be like a child, around him, let him feel that you are still as beautiful and moving as when you first saw you.
One day, both people will have loose skin, a rickety figure, and go out to support each other, so true love should be that he will be very at ease with your company, and he will be grateful for the care of heaven for himself, and can meet people who stay with each other for a lifetime.
Once in the flower before the moon, said a good life together, then one day old, do not want you to feel lonely, said a good life, this life will not give up.
-03-
Perhaps, love is a kind of care.
He cares about your sorrows, cares about your sorrows, cares about your vulnerability, hurts your tears, and hurts your sorrows.
Love, on the other hand, is also a kind of indifference.
He doesn't care about your past, doesn't care about your tantrums, doesn't care that you will be old one day, he just wants to warm your heart, just wants to touch your eyes.
Therefore, in this era when everyone emphasizes that we must be "independent" and "live ourselves", one cares, and one "does not care at all" are so precious.
So, when you can give him a "I'm not happy" without hesitation, it is estimated that you are already bathed in love.
Two people together, that is, you are good to me, and I feel sorry for you.
In this way, we can make every day worth looking forward to.
Finally, may every woman meet a good person who is really good to you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you.
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!