Many times, the more successful a person is, the more he understands the truth of strict self-discipline and leniency toward others, and they are often like a spring breeze to the outside world, but they are more harsh on themselves.
Because most of them do not want to be soft on themselves, understand, find reasons for themselves, is a kind of irresponsibility, they often have ambition, but also have a heart, then, what are such signs?
01 Libra: I also have my own baggage inside
Look at Libra first, Libra people often have a tolerant attitude towards the outside world, they often show a mentality of not caring about many things, as if what others do, they can accept it.
Libras are also not used to tantrums, they know how to restrain themselves, and when there is no suitable occasion, they can swallow their own temper.
However, although Libra has a kind of appearance of being at ease with encounters, in fact, their hearts are often entangled, and even, they are very demanding of themselves.
Because Libra often has a perfectionist tendency, they often hope to weigh left and right, balance up and down, constantly seek the optimal solution, and try to complete their homework beautifully.
It can be said that Libra is not as dashing and happy as it looks on the outside, and it is very likely that they are pessimistic, with some distant pain, some regrets and sorrows buried in the bottom of their hearts, to continue to move forward.
It is precisely because Libra does not like to vent their emotions to others, and is not willing to tell some of the troubles and grievances of the past, so they will also have heavy baggage.
But this heaviness, on the contrary, is the strength of their own stronger and stronger, which will make their hearts harden, rational and detached, and they are often stronger than imagined.
02 Cancer: Often reluctant to let go of yourself
Looking at Cancer again, Cancer people tend to have a kind and humble side to the outside world, and they often prefer to sacrifice themselves rather than be harsh on others.
Cancer has a tendency to cooperate, they are not used to taking the initiative to show their own ideas and personality, willing to adjust themselves according to the words and deeds of others.
Therefore, Cancer is also passive, the kind of person who treats others with leniency, but Cancer is often unwilling to let go of himself, and they sometimes prefer to keep their sadness to themselves.
Because Cancer is sometimes a little harsh on the self, they don't let go of themselves, for example, when Cancer does something wrong, they often blame themselves continuously, and even time is difficult to erase this feeling.
Or, Cancer will toss and turn inwardly based on one of the actions of others, even if they know it doesn't make sense, they can't refuse to do it.
It can be said that Cancer's harsh responsibility for the self often motivates himself to move forward, with a weak body, through the darkness, relying on his own courage, standing on a high point.
Cancer is the kind of person who can turn the tables against the wind, but also from them to reflect, to blame themselves for the mistakes they have made, with time and effort, a little bit of redemption, a little bit of compensation, in order to let go of their hearts, so the more they are in the dark, the more powerful they are.
03 Aries: Don't expect too much from others
Aries people are often able to laugh at the harm of many people, and they don't like to be angry about some things in the outside world.
Even if some people and things really put themselves in a place of doom, they don't want to blame others, and they don't want to immerse themselves in this kind of blame and live a depressed life.
Aries are often dependent on themselves, they are very demanding of themselves, accustomed to competing with themselves, and do not want to rely on others.
Even if Aries can obviously show weakness, just in exchange for some help and resources, but at the thought that others may sympathize with them, or they feel that they can't afford to reduce their personality and dignity for this help, they will justly refuse, and even pretend that they are not hurt at all.
It has to be said that Aries are strict with themselves and lenient with others, because they do not expect too much from others.
Aries wants an experience, a courage to brave the "uninhabited island", so how can they expect help? Keeping up with their pace is naturally good, and if they can't keep up, Aries will go on their own.