A man's scale determines how much he loves you

Text/BeiShu Source: Beishu Youyue (beishu2016)

In relationships, many women may have such confusion:

The love that a man says is somewhat credible; whether the vows made by men are sincere or not.

Sometimes, you may feel that he does love you, but you can't be sure how deep and how much this love is.

In fact, the degree to which a man loves you often depends on several scales, and the higher the scale, the deeper the love!

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Acceptance

The so-called acceptance actually refers to the overall acceptance of men to women's past, present and future.

If a man loves you, then he will be open to your past.

He knows that the past of few people is a blank piece of paper, and your past may be plain and simple, or it may be ups and downs, but it has become a cloud of smoke and smoke, and you don't have to pay special attention to it.

For him, his inability to participate in your past will only feel regret, not to be harsh on you for it.

What he is looking forward to is the present and the future with you.

On the other hand, if a man truly loves a woman, he can often accept anything you look like.

Maybe his ideal object should be a small family jasper, should be gentle and quiet, but you are obedient and eclectic, but this will not affect his love for you.

Whoever calls such a thing as feelings often does not know what to do, and has been deeply planted.

As the saying goes: Before I met you, I had many standards; after meeting you, the standard became you.

Loving someone is not an established idea of love, but no matter what you look like, he can accept unconditionally and love without reason.

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Inclusion

The degree to which a man loves you is also reflected in his tolerance for you.

No one is born with a good temper, but in front of the person they love, they are accustomed to tolerance and concession.

Therefore, even if you have so many shortcomings, you always play with the temper of a child at every turn, and sometimes even hurt his heart without saying a word, he will silently tolerate you.

No way, loving someone is not like this, you can easily forgive the other party's faults, willingly tolerate each other's shortcomings, can not become harsh on you.

To tolerate a person, of course, is not unconditional connivance, but because I love you, I can accept some small shortcomings and small problems in you.

Even if these problems can be a headache in the eyes of others, what is the more important thing than not being able to be with you?

The more tolerant a man is to you, the deeper his love for you is.

For love is so deep that it is impossible to reason; love into the marrow of the bones, it will surrender.

As Lin Junjie's "Remember" song comment section said:

"Believe me, you will meet the person who will no longer make you cry easily, he will put his arms around you in the crowd, smile and tell you, he will tolerate all your shortcomings, and will rush to your side as soon as you are unhappy." 」

He will make you the happiest and happiest person in the world, and he will let you know that all the sadness and loss you have ever had is worth it. ”

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Degree of effort

"What is the difference between liking and loving?"

"To like is to take, to love is to give."

If you like a flower, you may pick it and take it home, but if you love a flower, you will not be willing to pick it, but carefully water it and shelter it from the wind and rain.

It's the same in relationships. When a man truly loves a woman, giving becomes the most natural thing.

Whether it is material satisfaction, time companionship, or spiritual understanding, as long as he has it, he will willingly send it to you.

Zhang Ailing has a good saying:

"Whether a man or a woman meets someone he thinks he likes, he will involuntarily give everything for that person, to be unconditionally good to her, and only want her to be happy and happy." 」

Human nature is self-interested, and only in the presence of the beloved can it become altruistic.

Because of deep love, we are willing to give; because of giving, we become more and more deeply loved.

I read a quote in a novel: "Who cares about whom is actually a very difficult thing." Everyone is eager to get it, but not everyone can wait for that part. ”

In this life, someone has a heart for you, someone pays for you, and someone loves you so much, what a happy thing.

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Life is only a hundred years, all you need is three meals and food, there is home, and there are people who love.

We will meet too many people, who is sincere to you, who is false to you, with the eyes to see, with the heart to feel, you can be clear.

Look at a man's acceptance and tolerance of you and feel how much a man has given you.

Time will give you the best answer.

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