Our cognition of the small bunting flag is not stuck on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala.
As soon as it comes to the small bunting flag, we will label her as a genius girl and Yang Liping's niece, and even many people will attribute all her achievements to her aunt Yang Liping, after all, Yang Liping's status in China is too high.
But in any case, if the little bunting flag does not have any ability, even if the people around him help no matter how much, they will not stand out. This has to do with the time and place.
The success of the small bunting flag has paid a heavy price
At the 2014 Spring Festival Gala, there was a spinning dancer in one corner of the stage that caught everyone's attention, and from the moment the party began, she spun up, during which she showed no sign of stopping for several hours.
Even for a while it will give us the illusion that this is really a normal person? Which ordinary person can resist the laws of the body, normal people just turn a few times and then faint, why is she so powerful, it doesn't matter if she can even turn for a few hours?
In fact, she will also faint, tired, and even complain, in such a family reunion, not only can not eat or drink, can not be reunited with the family, and even can not enjoy the program of the party, how unbearable!
Therefore, Yang Liping also repeatedly confirmed that she was competent before she played, and if her body could not support it, she could choose to stop at any time, even if she terminated the rotation, no one would say anything.
However, the attitude of the little bunting flag is very resolute, I stand on the stage to represent time, how can time stop? This sentence made Yang Liping very moved and deeply proud. The little bunting is terrible!
However, since the Spring Festival Gala that year, it seems that she has never seen the figure of Xiao Bunting again, and she should have taken advantage of the victory to pursue and show her skills in the dance world, but why did she choose to disappear? This move is somewhat surprising.
In fact, her dream is not to be a good dancer like her aunt, but to become an actress.
After 8 years, look at the little bunting: no longer being a "genius girl", she lives out the way she wants
On the one hand, because the outside public opinion voice is too complicated, disturbing Xiao Caiqi's own heart, everyone can only see the label of Yang Liping's niece attached to herself, not her own efforts and talents.
On the other hand, Xiao Caiqi did not want to make herself the second Yang Liping. Yang Liping has not married or had children in her life for the dance career, and even in order to maintain an elegant posture, she has not eaten a normal meal and has eaten flowers all day.
These sacrifices are all seen by The Little Bunting Banner, if you really embark on a dance career, you may make the same choice as your aunt, but is this life really what you want? The answer, of course, is no.
Therefore, after she and her mother expressed their ideas, her mother also respected her choice and silently helped her a lot, after all, she began to practice dancing with Yang Liping at the age of 3, never went to school for a day, and the gap in cultural knowledge was too big.
Moreover, after Yang Liping learned of Xiao Bunting's decision, she did not obstruct too much, and also voted in favor. Believing that she is not only supporting her spiritually, but also expressing something in terms of material economy.
Children who can pursue their dreams are happy
Many children do not have the right to pursue their dreams
In the eyes of many parents, the child is the continuation of their own life, is the opportunity and possibility to realize their dreams, even if they can not be the realization of the established dream, the child can help themselves to achieve it.
In this way, the parent will give everything and do everything to help the child follow her own established principles, and she never asks what the child's wishes are, even if the child is very unhappy. They have no right and right to say no.
Children are also independent individuals who deserve to be respected
When a child is born, it is a separate individual, with its own independent thoughts, independent behavior, and even the right to pursue their dreams, even if their ideas are naïve, they should be worthy of parents' attention.
If his parents always blindly suppress him, it will only make him more and more rebellious, and gradually open up the relationship and distance with his parents, until one day, the child is like a kite, flying farther and farther.
Today's summary:
Do you think it's worth it for The Little Bunting to give up its original advantage? Feel free to share your thoughts with us!