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Author: Nanlu Fat Fish, Starting Point Chinese Network Contracted Writer. After the 90s, a book student, thank you for the love and support of all readers, this content is updated to "starting point reading", "QQ reading", included in "the distant galaxy is hot, you are the ideal of the world", the new book "The world is like a book, love and hate crowning" on QQ reading to meet with readers, this book continues to update.
Introduction to this book: Knowing how to delete and accept leaving are compulsory courses, paying attention to everyone, every song in the song list, every photo in the collection, every drama you want to see, every item in the shopping cart, everyone who has accompanied you in a certain period of time.
Time will make you lose them actively or passively, and then no longer remember or occasionally appear in the sigh of two o'clock in the morning.
#爱原来是要见面才能维持 #
I don't know what love is, I just know that I always miss you, want to share everything with you, I am happy when you reply to my messages, and I am sad when you ignore me.
I want you to know that you are not my choice after weighing the pros and cons, but the firmness of me after I am thrilled, knowing that I can't do it, this is my great sincerity for this feeling, comfortable love is my message to you, I am not worried about you not looking, nor worried about whether you will return, I know you are busy, I know that you have time will definitely return to me.
I have no sensitive suspicion, nor am I cautious and afraid of saying the wrong thing, we can say anything calmly between us, you make my heart move, I make you feel at ease.
Because if you really love someone, you will want to meet.
After all, who doesn't want someone they like to be with them, just like when I was with my ex before, every time I went on a business trip, I couldn't wait to see her, and the feeling of wanting to see her quickly would overflow my whole heart.
If you like a person too much, you will feel that you don't have enough time together, and you want to see her all the time and guard her for a lifetime.
This kind of feeling will not dissipate after the hot love period, but will slowly form a habit and dependence with time, until this life can not be separated.
More and more I feel that it is not easy to fall in love, because everyone has too many choices. It's so easy to get to know someone, everyone is constantly trying it out, and no one wants to spend money on a cake.
Feeling that the previous love was hide-and-seek, everyone shyly hid the unspeakable careful thoughts, the two people went around, looking for and seeking, patience but never exhausted and could not be spent.
Now love is the back of the hand, the two each stretch out a hand, run slow is to lose, so everyone quickly withdraws, quickly leaves, no one wants to be the one who is hurt.
The low-threshold social network of a well-developed network seems to be good, because it makes us surrounded by all kinds of people, but because of this, you and your loved ones are separated by a sea of people at this time.
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I find that girls are so easily moved in their feelings.
Every time the sisters around me fall in love, I am always particularly envious of listening to their descriptions.
The other half of their mouths is gentle, funny, romantic and thoughtful, as if they have been fortunate to meet such a perfect person in their three lifetimes.
But after I actually met the guy, I found out that he was just an ordinary boyfriend, and there was nothing remarkable about it, why did it sound so good to them?
Later, I realized that in fact, the beauty is not this relationship, nor the legendary excellent boyfriend, but the girl herself. It is that they are careful enough to be sensitive enough to be keenly aware of every detail of getting along, constantly whitewashing each other's relationship, infinitely enlarging a little light on each other, and then forming this figurative love.
Therefore, most of the perfect relationships presented in this world have a person who is full of warmth in her heart who is trying to record and embellish, and it is she who weaves the feelings between you into this intimate relationship. You were originally just a mortal, and because of her liking, she gave you a layer of light.
I think that being in love is actually a limited luxury.
Luxury is not the number of uses, but the ability to love, love also has a law of diminishing marginal utility, more and more repetitive processes, patience, enthusiasm, sincerity, will disappear.
The day before yesterday, my friend said that one of the things he regrets now is that when he was young, he thought he had a lot of time and space and love, constantly changing objects, constantly breaking away, in fact, now let him choose, he will choose a person who can go on at the beginning.
But many people have difficulty understanding before, thinking that the time is still long, thinking that the future is still far away, thinking that the mental strength is still there, and it is more convenient to change people than to run in.
Later, you will know that those moments that have cried bitterly, who have been ecstatic, who have tossed and turned, are all limited time limits, and there will be no better situation on earth.
Now I have slowly realized that most of the relationships we will face, most of the patterns, most of the objects, there is no fundamental difference.
These truths have been told by others many times, and the moment they hear them can be fully understood, but the wonderful place is here, the detour that should be taken is still not less than one meter, only when you have walked through it, can you truly realize that it will not change with individual differences, it is an irrefutable truth.
I used to think that I was a life experienceist and enjoyed the process of wholehearted devotion, but when I grew up, I understood that every time I grew up to a stage, my understanding of love would be very different.
At the age of 22, I have deeply realized that compared to whether others like me or not, who do I like or dislike, whether I like myself or not, is the most important thing.
There is a limit to the number of times you love. Don't splurge, don't be casual, don't be willful.
The next time you decide to enter a relationship, it will definitely be because of complete determination, complete trust, and only rush to the final result.
Slow down, don't rush, get to know each other steadily, don't be black and white, don't over-invest, don't waste the ability to love.
Compared with the strong heartbeat, long-term companionship, down-to-earth mutual dependence, and quiet mutual observance in the ordinary world, it is the most worth cherishing.
"I'd love a slower relationship right now."
Two people spend time chatting, making sure to come out together one day to watch a movie and have dinner.
Find out what they like to eat and which type of movie they prefer
Instead of saying two love words and making phone calls for a few days, like rushing to find someone to get rid of single, just rushing together, is to let the word "like" want to say it several times, and then swallow it back, and finally when you really can't hide it, tell you again, want a process that is familiar with you, and want to love you in my way. ”
I feel like this passage has reached my heart.
What I want is not a guy chasing me for a few days and I softly agree
Gradually, he disliked me more and more, and I loved him more and more
I am really afraid of this kind of boy who does not know how to cherish.
I think I will meet a person who loves me in the future, whether I have long hair or short hair, whether I am thin or fat, whether I am wearing makeup or facing the sky, he will love me as always, can tolerate my small card, I can also change my bad temper for him, we are not for anything else, just simply because of love and together, it doesn't matter if you appear later, but when I met, I hope that the rest of my life will be you.
I think in feelings you have to love yourself first.
Many people think that as long as they are hard enough, sincere enough, and hard enough, they can move a person. But in the end, all you can touch is yourself.
But even if you are lucky enough to touch a person, but touching is touching, love is love, no amount of touching can make a person fall in love with you. Of course, not everyone is together for love, but at least you don't have to fool yourself.
I used to think that feelings can be spelled, can be snatched, and even can be chased, but in fact, from beginning to end, some people are waiting for you to chase, and some people have never looked back at you.
Not loving is not loving, and feelings barely come.
Just like mathematics, mathematics does not, just does not, love or not love, is predestined from the beginning.
In fact, you can also be loved, worthy of being loved, but you have not yet met.
I think a person only suffers from gain and loss when he loves you very much.
Because you think too much about a word, you will be suspicious, you will make yourself insomnia for you, you will be angry like a child who wants sugar, and you will be different from others.
In fact, I feel a lot of times that she is too troublesome to love me well, but heck, I usually like this kind of trouble.
I was passing by a pharmacy today and saw a small tip about a stomach problem. People with stomach problems can not drink tea, can not drink milk, can not drink beer, can not eat too much pepper cold drink cold food, can not drink coffee, can not eat aspirin, dexamethasone, indomethacin these drugs, these have a stimulating effect on the gastric mucosa, but also pay special attention to the law of life, can not eat fried food, can not eat sweet, too sour, too salty, too hot, too raw, too cold, too hard and other foods, drink more egg water, eat more banana honey, but also have a good rest. I don't have a stomach problem myself, but when I see these words, I can't help but think of you, and I still remember every word in my heart.
I was willing to calm down for her to delve into the recipe, to cross a bag in the morning to the sewage market and the market vendors because of a fish and a few tomatoes, willing to stop for her in front of the supermarket seasoning for a long time, carefully select salt soy sauce and oil-consuming chili sauce, and retrieve the exquisite and beautiful porcelain bowl to serve her soup and vegetables that she had cooked for several hours, and cook for herself. Love is to give her the side that you never know, as much as possible, without reservation.
She always didn't live seriously and lived like a child. After working overtime, I didn't know how to eat, so I continued to work hard. The weather is cold and I will not add more clothes, and I will say that I am fat. When you are sick, you will not take care of yourself, and you will only lie in bed and sleep. Then I am probably the little adult who is too stupid to see you.
Maybe I won't be able to spend a hundred years with you in my life, but I will spend all my remaining time with you and taking care of you. If life goes too smoothly and there is no trouble, then what does it mean.
Coming to Japan for a long time, I just want to love you well.