In the eyes of the previous generation, partners get along, hitting is love, scolding is love.
It is said that between couples, it is very normal for some bumps and bumps to occur, and quarrels are inevitable. However, we have to admit the fact that true love is fleeting, and it seems that everyone can hardly escape this spell.
Because no matter how many exquisite and complex philosophical or psychological theories we understand, even if we have more reasons to explain or analyze the various phenomena and behaviors in love, it seems that this can bring back the lost love and make love reborn, but it is still difficult to get rid of the failure of love.
It is true that when some people quarrel or when they are in conflict, they simply do not listen to the so-called truth, or even blindly want to turn over old accounts, even if they are attacking each other, it seems to be more comfortable than your sentence and my sentence.
It can even be said that the reason why some people turn over old accounts is not because they are stingy at all, but they completely want to retain the little self-esteem in their hearts. After that, let's talk about who such a constellation has.
Taurus
Taurus's attitude towards life is ultimately a sense of proportion, and at the same time, he also likes to chase people with a sense of ceremony. Therefore, in daily life, they need to achieve a certain simplicity and not texture, but also have some warm things. So, it gives the impression that they are simple, kind and real.
Therefore, if they are better for them, they are bound to double their returns, even a hundred times a thousand times back, and then they can pluck out their hearts and lungs and regard you as the most important person in their world. Because of this, they keep everything in mind, no matter good or bad, they will not pay too much attention to distinguish, but put it all in their hearts.
Therefore, once there is a so-called contradiction or unhappy thing, they will make a bad or bad impression of the past, and then say it one by one, and when they quarrel, they will not take into account each other's feelings. After all, when they are really uncomfortable or wronged, the real feeling of taurus is that they must also let the other party feel such grievances or pain.
virgo
Virgo people, what they do, and what kind of things they choose, are actually very responsible, and they were also meticulous at the time. They are more neurotic, because for many things, they must reach a certain level in order to pass this pass in their hearts.
Therefore, they will plan everything, and at the same time, they like to deal with it according to high standards and with an orderly attitude. Moreover, once you exceed your own tolerance range, or when you do not meet the standard at all, you will nag and talk to people.
Therefore, if this mentality or state is placed in the feelings, it is inevitable that when arguing with people, it will turn over old accounts with each other. In fact, when turning over old accounts, Virgo's memory is always surprisingly strong, so that it can always make the other party dumbfounded, until the other party surrenders with both hands and no longer dares to challenge Virgo.
Of course, Virgo is not a stingy person, many times, the reason why they choose to fight to the end, but also to keep their own bottom line, and this bottom line, is not willing to be wronged, to keep their dignity.
Gemini
In fact, we all understand that Gemini has always been a fickle personality and a rather contradictory being. You could say they're quiet, or they might become noisy the next second. They can become agile, but at the same time they may also show their conservatism. It can be said that at any time, Gemini is easy to give people a feeling of elusiveness.
Especially in feelings, they are prone to quarrels, so they simply quarrel, or they do not say a word and disappear directly. Such a personality makes it easy to think that such people are so insecure that when they are really unhappy, they are generally not blamed.
But Gemini is the type that seems to live thoroughly on the one hand, but at the same time seems to often like to be very determined and decisive in some things. Especially when arguing with each other inexplicably, then at this time, it is very likely that they are not quarreling for some reason, but simply for the sake of quarrelling.
If you think about it carefully, maybe when they feel tired and sad, they want to regain some so-called dignity and self-esteem for themselves, and not let themselves live so wronged.