Every time we talk about reality, we will always habitually pull out the earth sign first, and it is undeniable that the people of the earth sign do pay attention to reality, but this does not mean that other signs do not pay attention to reality.
In fact, the real reality is not the earth sign, but the wind sign, which you may not realize yet.
But this is really an ironclad fact, the reality that the earth sign focuses on is the law of reality and all kinds of rules and norms, and they act according to these logics.
And the reality of the wind sign is not to go according to those logics, but only to go according to their own logic, let's not joke about a point, when a wind sign does not feel for you, what will he do? What can you do with him?
Reasoning or emotion? Is it useful? This is the real reality.
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So when it comes to the true love concept of the wind sign, we must first put out the realistic concept of the wind sign as the premise.
Today it is the turn of Libra, Libra has a special typical, but also a special wind elephant, whether Libra male or Libra female, the status and position of the first love in their hearts are very high, this life will not forget.
But Libra's can't forget is different from the concept that other constellations can't forget, can't forget it, and occasionally can continue to be friends, can you do it with other constellations? Except for the wind elephant, ordinary people really can't do this thing.
You may be curious about why Libra can do it, in fact, the reason is really uncomplicated, that is, there is nothing, quite normal, this is Libra's own view.
But if we look at this from an objective, deeper perspective, the outcome will be different.
The first is a crucial question: Libra's concept of love and hate is not deep.
And if these concepts are more profound, it is a special case.
Why? The reason is very simple, because when Libra is getting along with people, it is good to chase people or to be chased, and what they need is not how the other party likes themselves, how the other party is crazy for themselves.
These things are, at best, some of the initial feelings.
What they really care about and pay attention to is the feeling of two people together, notice that the feeling here refers to Libra's own feelings.
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Then there is a corresponding problem when they have their own feelings, and when the scale thinks or feels uncomfortable and uncomfortable with a person, they will choose to avoid some troubles or avoid some problems.
You may feel that it is not good to escape, but in Libra's view, is there an easier way to solve it than when you encounter trouble and contradictions? Without.
It can be said that as long as you don't find the trouble of Libra, Libra will not find your trouble, libra where has this kung fu to find trouble with you?
Aren't you happy listening to the song yourself? Isn't it comfortable to watch a movie by yourself?
So where did the two-person problem end up? It's in the air.
Extending backwards:
It is precisely because of the habitual treatment of Libra, so some problems are basically difficult to have the conditions and possibilities to make a big fuss here.
Then in the emotional relationship, the love and hate are often because of some big problems, big contradictions, but in Libra here is obviously a lot less.
On the other hand, because Libra pays attention to their feelings and sensations in the emotional relationship, their emotional efforts will also follow this feeling.
If you feel good, you will pay more, if you feel bad, you will pay less, and you can't talk about taking the initiative to pay.
Friends who have been with Libra should know that Libra can't understand your code words, but when he is with you, you have what you need and want him to do, as long as he brings it up, he will do it.
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If you don't mention it, there are some things that he doesn't notice himself, or even if he notices it a lot of times, he won't notice it.
Therefore, from the perspective of personal emotions, Libra does not pay so much affection, naturally there is not so much unbalanced psychology, love and hate these emotions are much less.
So, where is Libra's true love?
Wind signs focus on feelings, this is understandable, Libra is the same, the heart may like someone, or several different people, but does this have anything to do with true love? It doesn't matter.
The concept of true love of Libra is actually very simple, if you discuss with Libra with the conventional concept of true love, then you will not be able to discuss the results.
Because Libra himself does not know, the basic words he says are utopian ideas that have not been practiced.
Therefore, after knowing it, I felt that Libra would find out after being with a person for a long time, "It turns out that I can't do without him, he is my true love."
That's right: Libra's true love is the concept of "used to having you", used to being with someone.
The premise of habit generation is a comfortable atmosphere, a comfortable rhythm of getting along, people who are not so much troublesome on both sides, and who can continue to be together after the test of time and events.
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So before this kind of thing comes up and is finalized, it doesn't make sense for you to talk to Libra about true love, because they can't decide on the concept of true love themselves.
They have to look at the reality, to see how they feel and feel in reality, and with the results and answers in these aspects, they can have the awareness of true love.
After saying this concept, we will solve the answer to the original question, why Libra can't forget the first love, Libra will be friends with the first love, in addition to the essential reason we analyzed above, there is another reason.
It is because Libra is familiar with his first love, or has developed some habits for his first love, so he can't forget it, especially when he encounters something, when he is uncomfortable, he will think of the person he is familiar with for the first time, the person he is used to.
But it doesn't affect his relationship with the guy he's with right now, you know.
The most important thing to do with Libra is to "get along well", talk less about what you love or not, talk about it in vain, get along well, Libra has a feeling, then you can even cultivate the right results.
Get along badly, Libra feels bad, feel turbid, then you love him no matter what, people should be able to see this fact clearly.
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