In the world, Modo's emotions, only one word "love" makes people uncomfortable. Love is the simplest but most complex emotion, the happiest but the most painful, there are too many people in the world, some people really say they love you, but you don't know, some people deliberately play with you, but you take it seriously. Happiness, sweetness, pain, sadness, many human emotions, can all be dominated by love!
Lin Xi has a lyric that says that I can meet you in my lifetime, and it took me all my luck. Yes, it is already my greatest blessing to be able to meet you in the vast sea of people, how dare I ask for a deeper contact with you?
Therefore, I also understand that if the person I love also loves me, it is a blessing, a rare smoke; if the person I love does not love me, it is also a normal, there is no sadness to be sad!
To be able to have such a state of mind, I think I can also manage my feelings rationally and soberly. Your love will also tend to be perfect.
But that being said, it is so simple and easy to say, how to do it specifically?
For example, if a man jokes with you like this, you have to examine it carefully, because he may have real feelings for you!
There was a Japanese writer named Shunji Iwai who wrote a book called "Love Letters", and there was such a story in it.
The hero M loves a girl, and his fiancée loves him deeply; at the same time, M's good brother N loves M's wife; and it is at this time that there is another girl who is also in love with N.
This story sounds like a dog's blood, but in real life, why not?
You may be deeply in love with someone, love but can't, you feel sad and depressed, but at the same time there is another person who loves you, love but can't! Under the heavens, there are countless cases of crush and unrequited love, and it happens all the time.
So, if you want to determine whether the person is in love with you, carefully analyze what jokes he has made with you? Adult jokes can not be underestimated, and many truths are told in the form of jokes.
Don't be sad, he doesn't love, don't have me! Really not, let's make it up?
Jokes are jokes, but generally speaking, jokes have a degree, if you can't really like you, you won't be open enough to say such a thing, right?
He is just ashamed to express, and he wants to use this matter to test your inner thoughts, in order to avoid embarrassment, he also leaves a back road and chooses to tell it in a joking way.
When women face this matter, they can judge according to his previous approach to you and your true thoughts about him in your heart, if you think he is very good, then answer him seriously, his eyes must be fully focused on you at this time, he can fully see the sincerity and hope in your eyes, in the days to come, he will treat you more carefully, and the love in his heart will spread to you to a greater extent.
But if you are still foolishly perfunctory to him, at this time, he will definitely feel bad in his heart, and the man's face will not be there! You will feel that if you don't love him, perhaps, he will keep a distance from you and gradually drift away.
Of course, this is mainly based on you, what is your inner thoughts? If you think he's good, don't answer perfunctorily, you'll hurt someone who really loves you! Wouldn't it be a shame to miss it?
If someone in life really jokes with you like this, you have to take it seriously. Some likes are difficult to say, just expressed with some details, people who are good at capturing details often gain true love, are you the same?