In this life, if you want to make yourself gradually into a better state and become a better self, you must find a way to change yourself and make yourself continue to increase in value.
Although it is said that a person's spiritual beauty is more important than the appearance of beauty, a good appearance can still grab people first and impress people.
Therefore, maintaining a good appearance is also very important for a person, and it is also a key part of adding value to their lives.
Appearance includes congenital conditions and acquired factors, if born with a white, clean, beautiful, tall and large appearance.
Then, after that, it is only necessary to improve the internal quality, including knowledge reserves, speech and behavior, hobbies, temperament cultivation, and so on.
If the congenital conditions are insufficient, then we must find a way to work hard from the aspects of clothing, makeup, manners, and figure, and the bright and beautiful can also add points to us.
In addition to using appearance to enhance our external temperament, we also have to rely on hard learning to improve our inner quality.
There is no doubt that reading and learning are the only ways to really add value to our lives, and there are no shortcuts.
No matter how glamorous a person's appearance is, if there is no knowledge reserve, no wisdom filling, in the end, it is just a straw man, which makes people disdainful.
Those who live a life of inactivity, those who are drunk and dream of death and do not seek progress, are undoubtedly wasting time and wasting their lives.
Reading and learning may not be a hobby, but it is a skill that has no threshold, can make people continue to improve, and realize their dreams.
Of course, learning a technology or skill can also enrich our lives, broaden the value of our lives, and achieve our life goals.
In addition to reading and learning, there will always be things that interest or enjoy doing, and it is impossible to turn it into a technology or skill.
After all, people can not stay in place, you stop, there will be countless people around you to surpass you, and technology or skills, can also make us continue to improve.
For technology or skills, as long as we make efforts, we can also change our destiny and add value to our lives.
Some people say that good habits benefit people for a lifetime, and bad habits make people ruined, which seems to be exaggerated, but it is a fact.
Good habits are actually an indispensable part of a person's life value-added, so we must strive to get rid of bad habits and seriously develop good habits.
In short, if we want to make our lives continue to add value, we must study and learn for life, master a technology or skill early, and develop good living habits.
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Wen Ling, a freelance writer, has her works in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and reprinted with the author's permission.