Life is alive, one person and one way to live.
Through reading and self-cultivation, you can improve the realm of life, avoid muddled nightmares, and thus live meaningfully and be inexhaustible in your life.
People with high realms, do something, do something, prefer to eat a mouthful of peach, rather than nibble on a basket of rotten apricots, reflecting a kind of spiritual nobility.
Specifically, people with high realms have eight noble faces:
01
Dignified and heavy
A gentleman weighs his majesty, standing with a standing posture and sitting with a sitting posture.
As the saying goes: men are poor, women are poor. Sitting dishonestly, shaking your legs, this is a.
The ancients believed that walking lightly and steadily was noble, and people who walked in a hurry and did not have feet on the ground would not develop.
There is also a situation called "snake walking and jumping", that is, walking like a snake does not walk in a straight line, swaying left and right, or jumping and jumping like a bird and a bird, the ancients believed that this was a failure and would be poor for life.
02
Be courteous and courteous
Be humble to people, not humble, respectful and courteous in words and deeds.
The ancients said, "No matter what kind of person you are, you must never be snobbish; no matter what kind of karma you are practicing, you must never be careless." ”
Humble and low-key, everyone loves; arrogant, rude and rude people, everyone hates.
03
Good start and good end
No matter how big or small it is, we must do it with a beginning and an end, a beginning and an end, down-to-earth, and perseverance.
Speaking and writing articles should be organized and logical, which reflects that a person has a clear mind, and when dealing with things, he will naturally know the priorities, busy but not chaotic, tight but not panicked.
04
Kindness and compassion
Kindness is the greatest "noble face".
If a person's mind is not right, other things are not worth mentioning.
Compassion for sentient beings, gratitude for others, that is, the ancients said "heart to save things", care for others, treat all things well, this pattern is big, the so-called "adults have a large number", and a person only thinks of their own selfish interests, there will be no success.
05
Honesty and trustworthiness
Integrity is the foundation of being a person, the so-called "gentleman repeats the promise", words must be counted, and things must be reliable.
Talking cloud mountain fog cover, a moment is "dragon chasing pigs", the next moment is "pigs chasing dragons", doing things pointing east and west, before or friendly cooperation, in the blink of an eye turned face does not recognize people, and finally suffered a big loss can only be their own.
06
Daguan is free
Human feelings are cold and warm, the world is hot and cold, and the world is always unsatisfactory.
To look down on it is to see through it, and to be calm is to be free.
I was not born to chase deer, dumen lazily sat on the golden platform, asked the jun what he wanted, and laughed at the autumn leaves and winter snow buried.
07
Gentle
Gentleness and elegance is an intellectual beauty, an elegance that is revealed in the thick bookish atmosphere.
Gentle and elegant is the "gentlemanly demeanor" of ancient Chinese: piano, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and song; killing thieves on horseback, and reading on horseback.
08
Be careful and alone
The ancients said, "The way of self-cultivation is not difficult to cultivate the heart; the difficulty of cultivating the heart is also to be cautious and independent." ”
Gentlemen are cautious and independent, do not deceive others on the outside, do not deceive themselves on the inside, do not deceive the heavens on the top, are consistent in appearance and inside, and are bright and upright.
People have a herd mentality, which is easy to get lost in the group, and it is easy to fall in the bad social atmosphere.
Therefore, a gentleman guards himself, guards his mouth in all places, and guards his heart alone, and he must be cautious and independent, but also "cautious of the crowd."