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"Stop messing around?" The Internet is starting to teach people how to live again?

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I have been patient with not saying this matter for the past two days, but recently it seems that the anger is a little strong, I don't know whether it is because of the hard work of the previous two days to reverse the car into the parking space but was robbed by others, or because of the subway to see people who did not wear masks still running around and talking loudly... ...

Before brushing Weibo, I saw such a hot search - "Don't mess with yourself anymore". To prevent some friends from not knowing the meaning of the pendulum, here is an explanation: it means that since things can no longer develop in a good direction, they simply no longer take measures to control, but let it deteriorate and do not do it.

"Stop messing around?" The Internet is starting to teach people how to live again?

Therefore, this hot search probably means that I hope that some "rotten" people will stop self-sinking, get by and live, and face life positively. There is really no opinion on the content, but in this day and age, it is difficult for such remarks to gain the support of most people, especially young people.

Quite simply, this form of stuff mostly stays at the level of preaching, and most people nowadays are naturally anti-bone.

In schools, families, and workplaces, we accept preaching almost every day, so it is natural to stay away from this kind of light preaching on the Internet.

Yesterday I brushed a funny video, "Whenever I plan to do something, my mother tells me to do it."

It's a very interesting phenomenon, such as when I was about to take the initiative to wash the dishes, and my mother called me to wash the dishes, I would change my mind and refuse. There may be some exaggeration, but it is quite real.

Obviously, it was my own will, but it turned out to be because other people's teachings were good, as if I was considered to be lazy and incompetent by nature, so I didn't want to do it anymore.

"Stop messing around?" The Internet is starting to teach people how to live again?

Some time ago, the topic of "reconciliation with su yan" was the embodiment of this "presumption of guilt". This extremely bad Internet talk is like saying that everyone's plain face is ugly, and everyone who wears makeup uses makeup as a tool to escape their original appearance, otherwise why reconcile? Putting makeup and plain face on the opposite side in this way, it seems that makeup is a problem with the mind, creating facial anxiety.

But in fact, plain face and makeup are everyone's own choice, and there is no reason to belittle which one, the emphasis should be on self-confidence and true self-acceptance.

Similarly, "stop messing with yourself", this kind of superior Internet pulling and stepping on the phone, nails those who want to let themselves go to the column of shame.

If when you are facing the wave of internal rolls in modern society, stubborn resistance but no strength to resist, others say to you "don't mess up again", you will sound like you will feel that you are considered by others to be a waste without fighting spirit and lazy, but obviously this is not the case, you feel very wronged.

I have a small group of friends with a few very good friends, searching and swinging in the chat history, and I can probably jump a dozen times a day.

There are friends in a large company to do PR, every day tired like a dog, but also desperately absorb new things, every day is talking about the rotten, but the class is still added, the night is still staying up, because to earn money to eat; there are friends who are out of work for two years to study for three wars, but this examination is more than the mosquito coil, 400 points may not be able to enter the re-examination, even the adjustment failed, and finally said that the pendulum was rotten, gave up on the shore, looking for a job; there are friends and families with many contradictions, and parents have to have dozens of generation gaps, because the work of things quarrel every day, and now also say that the pendulum is rotten, Ignore the bizarre statements of your parents.

"Stop messing around?" The Internet is starting to teach people how to live again?

In fact, most people say that the pendulum is rotten, just start to learn to let themselves go, make themselves as relaxed as possible, and no longer drill the tip of the horn, which is a positive compromise on life. There is no need to criticize those who are frustrated when they are proud, no one can always be proud.

The May Day holiday is here, I hope you all have a happy holiday.

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