Three years ago I went to a place to do an expedition, and when I came to this place, I found that it was a place with a particularly beautiful scenery, but the economic level of the people was relatively low.
Later, in this place, I met a woman, and when this woman chatted with me, she always mentioned how rich she was in her home, and said that she had herself, so her home would be so good.
At that time, there were not many people in contact, so I believed this woman's words, but Director Wang next to me did not believe the words of the other party, Director Wang, who looked at the other party at that time, said to me:
"What this woman said is all false, and by virtue of her external image, we can already see her real level situation and real living situation."
Later, after we all finished inspecting, we found that the other party's family was very poor, but the other party hit the swollen face and became fat, and Director Wang was not wrong at all.
This also shows that well-informed people will understand a truth:
The outward image of a woman properly exposes her true level.
01.
Temperament proves everything
When I was inspecting, this woman talked a lot, but this woman's temperament was not good at all.
If a woman has a good temperament, it means that there are many things in this woman's belly.
There are many women, family conditions are better, so the level of this woman will also be very high, then, such a woman will learn some hobbies and other things, naturally, their temperament will have some changes.
Just like when you see a woman on the street who often draws, you find that the other person has a particularly elegant temperament; when you see a woman who dances a lot, you will find that the other woman has a neck longer than the others, and is a mentally capable woman.
Every woman doesn't go out at home all day and doesn't have the money to travel, but she doesn't study herself, so her temperament is a little worse than others.
In fact, sometimes poverty in the family is not terrible, the terrible thing is that this person is also relatively poor in his brain, he has no talent, and pretends to be very hierarchical.
When you do this, not only can you not give yourself extra points, but you will also make your current situation worse, because you have been living in your own dreams, so you have not improved, and others will give you a deduction.
If a woman has defeated a lot of women in terms of external temperament, it means that the level of this woman is relatively high, because sometimes the temperament is also accumulated with her own rank and money, which is not a natural thing.
02.
Speech is a person's cultivation
Between words and speech can expose a woman's cultivation, which is also a form of expression of a woman's external image, just the right amount of speech will make others think that this woman is a high-level woman, and will make others very willing to approach this woman.
In most cases, if a woman has no education, this woman will be exposed between words and speech, of course, this is not absolute, sometimes some women are not educated, large characters do not know a few, but people are very kind, the family education is better, so it is also a cultivated woman.
But if the family is relatively poor, it is impossible to raise such a woman, so if a woman has not read books, but is still very cultivated, it means that this family is not bad.
Just like when I went to investigate, this woman talked to me and always said how rich she was, such a woman is actually a woman who is not cultivated enough, because this woman does not know how to be subtle.
When a woman reaches a certain height, women will not brag, these women are particularly conservative and introverted, spending their own money, no matter what others think, there are some, so there is no need to punch a swollen face and be fat.
Now there is a kind of woman who is particularly terrible, this kind of woman's family conditions are not very good, her own level is not high, and her thoughts are not on that one level.
But such a woman is very means, pretending to be a celebrity, packaging herself very well, and posting some high-end things in the circle of friends, trying to take shortcuts in this way and marrying herself to a good person.
The woman drove a Porsche, pretended to be very fan-like, and was particularly domineering when she first came to the unit, and many people had different eyes on this woman.
However, with the deep exchange, I found that this family was particularly poor, although the other party did not say it, but later when we filled out the form, everyone had already found out, although we already knew, but no one said it thoroughly, and the other party thought we did not know.
When you package yourself as a rich person or a high-level person, you have lost, because you can't do it yourself, and others will think that you are a person without a rank, few people are willing to be friends with people like you, and in the end, you package yourself for face, but you lose face because of your packaging.
03.
People who are really rich don't show off their wealth
If a person is really rich, this person will never show off his wealth, and if a person is with you and talks about it, he feels that there is such a person in everything in his family, but in fact, there is nothing.
Our family's grandmother is also like this, our family's family situation is relatively poor, but my grandmother always tells people that our family has a lot of money, resulting in a lot of people coming to our house to borrow money, in fact, our family has nothing, and finally my grandfather lent some of the remaining money in the family to others, just to show off their wealth, and now this money will not come back.
In fact, really rich people never dare to tell others that their families are particularly rich, because such people are actually very discerning, and it is not easy for these people to make money, so they are very afraid of others coming to their homes to borrow money, and they will never tell others about these things.
A woman, if the family is very rich, may be generous when playing with the little sisters, but when chatting with others, it will show that her family is actually very poor, the real celebrities will never show off their wealth, and those who show off their wealth are actually not celebrities.
The more a person lacks something, the more this person cares, the more he praises anything, so people who really have the ability will never praise their own things to others, because these people know that they have reached a certain height, even if they do not say it, others will know, so they do not care about those things.
Man cannot be disguised, and water is incomparable. But sometimes it is born from the heart, so the external image of a woman also exposes the level and position of the woman, and sometimes it cannot be too rigid, do not feel that a woman is poor and has no level.
In fact, although some women are poor, there is a spiritual level, but some people are poor in their bones, not only do not have their own material level, but also do not have their own spiritual level.