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There has always been a saying that if you are in Guangzhou, when you see an uncle wearing big pants and flip flops, walking slowly on the street, you must not think that it is a person who is too poor to even wear a good dress, maybe people are a multi-millionaire or a billionaire.
This is not impossible. People who are really rich are not limited to the appearance of the image. Instead, they are more casual and dull.
A person who cares about his appearance is often for the needs of work, otherwise, he lacks confidence. This undertone is money, because of the lack of money, so he needs to use his appearance to cover up.
Yes, money is the real confidence of people. Although we always say that "money is not a panacea", you have to admit that in the real world, no money is impossible.
Some people are also born as human beings, some people are the second generation of proper money, and their lives do not need to be troubled by money, but run; some people have to fight for money all their lives, and sometimes even a hard life can only change food and clothing.
This is both a fact and a reality. Therefore, the same people, but also different people.
Many years ago, when online payment was not yet popular, a grandfather from the countryside carried a sack to the bank to deposit money. The bank's security guards wouldn't let him in because his feet were covered with dirt.
When the dispute was over, the uncle threw the sack on the ground, unzipped the bag, and bundles of yuan gushed out. The security guard was dumbfounded on the spot, because it was probably money that he could not earn as a security guard in his life.
The security guard inexplicably asked the uncle: You are so rich, why are you dressed like this? Still farming?
Uncle said: I can't dress like this if I have money? Who stipulates that if you have money, you can't farm?
Yes, who sets the rules for having money and not having money? There are no rules and no rules. Therefore, rich people don't care what others say or how to stipulate, just do what they like, can't they?
Yes, as long as he does not violate the law, who can control his clothing? The rules of this world are not for the rich, but for the people who don't.
Those who feel that they have no money in rags are the ones who live in the rules.
Buffett, known as the "god of stocks", is worth more than 80 billion yuan, lives in a house bought by more than 30,000 people, and drives 45,000 cars. He doesn't have a cell phone with him, and he doesn't have a computer on his desk.
BT's founder, David Goldway, is said to have a net worth of $2.4 billion, but his hair is always cut by himself because he feels that going to a barbershop is a waste of money and time. Moreover, he is extremely unpretentious about dress, and his clothes are bought in department stores, all of which are ordinary brands. Before retiring, he commuted on a bicycle, which required nearly 30 miles to and fro.
Therefore, people who are really rich do not care about their own image. On the contrary, those who have no money, for the sake of face, want to make a very rich appearance.
Recently watched the news, said that there is a woman who has been showing off her wealth in the circle of friends, in fact, it is very difficult in real life.
I always wonder why I have to show off my wealth since I have lived so hard? Just to satisfy your own vanity? How big a barrier between reality and virtual is to be crossed? Behind those virtual riches is the bleak truth of poverty. Doesn't people feel pain in such a life? Or, the pain of reality, she needs to make up for it with virtual pleasure.
If you really have money, people may not have to pretend that. Money is the biggest confidence of people. If there is money, the migrant workers will also become the bosses; if they have money, women will not be in the position of vulnerable groups; if they have money, the things that can be solved with money are not a matter.
At the end of the day, it's the role of money. However, money is in the hands of different people, and the meaning is different. Some people use money to develop their careers, some people use money to do good deeds, some people use money to show their abilities, and some people use money to do illegal things.
Money is a double-edged sword. Spending money in the right place makes you happier; spending money on the wrong path will only bring you more pain.
However, we can only see a person's appearance and behavior, at least he has money and no money, whether he takes the right path or the evil path, only time to prove.
But in the end, people who are really rich and open-minded will not care about their appearance and do not care too much about their own clothes and lives.