This article is from the WeChat public account (fish yearning life)
In interpersonal communication, even in intimate relationships, if you do not pay attention to the boundaries of communication, it is only a matter of time before you fall out.
Friends are willing to contact when they have time. When they are free, they should get along well. Don't do things that annoy the other person so as not to hurt the other person's feelings.
Some relationships, too close will hurt, too far away, and seem more distant. Only by maintaining an appropriate distance can a harmonious atmosphere be maintained.
Only by finding the right way to get along can you get a long-term and comfortable relationship. In interpersonal communication, we must pay attention to appropriate limits, otherwise it is easy to lose this relationship.
01. Friends should also have a sense of boundaries.
Some relationships don't need to be pushed too fast, but gradually getting closer to each other will last longer.
Keep a normal heart for the relationships and love around you, there is no need to be intimate, otherwise it is easy to be hurt, because it is easy to pay too much heart, and it is easy to lose the attention of the other party.
The best relationships are always going their separate ways, and so are the feelings between friends. No matter how good the relationship is, you must also have a certain sense of boundaries, and you can't rush to say what is most important to you.
Even if you are a good friend, you can't rush to say anything, otherwise you will complain in the end.
Between friends, there is a certain sense of boundaries and privacy. Even if you respect each other, you are responsible for yourself, and you can maintain your friendship.
True friends may not have that much time together, but when the other person has something to do, the friend will definitely be by your side.
True friendship is to remember each other, not to disturb each other easily, and to have their own living space.
02. When you get along with others, you have to learn to be respectful.
Friends should respect each other's privacy and do not easily expose each other's scars. If they know how to love each other, the relationship will last longer.
Friends need to respect each other and know each other's sadness, so don't touch it easily. It's a kind of wisdom in relationships.
Everyone wants to get comfortable in a relationship, but also needs a certain sense of privacy and intimacy.
True friends must respect each other and never touch each other's sorrows. Although they don't have much time together, they are thinking about each other in their hearts.
It is a great fate for some people to meet. To be a friend, we must learn to cherish and not do things that make the other party sad.
A sincere relationship, a relationship that can be spent together for a long time, but you must also know that in this world, not everyone is worthy of your care, but those who are not good to you, in fact, there is no need to maintain a relationship.
For the rest of your life, I hope you meet a true friend with someone to accompany you.