When you truly love someone, the love in your heart for that person must be single-minded, loyal, and consider each other's future. If in the process of getting along, while thinking about maintaining this relationship, while your own mind is not in this relationship, then in the end, this relationship is bound to collapse. And this person's attitude towards feelings is just play.
For women, after starting a relationship, the heart must hope that the man really loves her and really wants to have a future with her. If women know from the beginning that men are playing with each other, they will definitely protect themselves and stay away from such men. Even if the relationship is confirmed, the woman will not relax in the slightest on this issue, and will hope that she can clearly understand the man's mind.
Shakespeare also said, "Don't swear by pointing to the moon, it is fickle, every month is full of profits and losses; if you swear by pointing at it, maybe your love is as impermanent as it is." ”
In the face of love, no one wants to have an impermanent love, does not know what the other party's mind is, is not sure whether the other party truly loves himself, and there is no guarantee for the future of the two.
When meeting a man she likes, a woman must understand this truth, and it is even more important to know that a love can go to the end, first of all, it must ensure that two people really want to manage this relationship. When getting along, women should also learn to observe men's minds and understand the "secrets" hidden behind men's behavior.
Some women have a relatively simple mind in love, and do not know how to find answers from men's behavior, but are accustomed to listening to men's words. If you blindly treat feelings in this way, you will only be hurt in the end.
Women must understand that whether a man truly loves you is not manifested in those words that can be disguised, and if he really loves you, he will definitely take action, rather than blindly relying on words to fool you.
Because the love of men for women is hidden in these actions.
01 Knowing that you are not feeling well, you will definitely take action and will find ways to alleviate your pain.
Plato said: "I used to hear some women complain about men like this: "When I have stomach pain, he asks me to drink more hot water; when I am sick, he asks me to drink more hot water; when I am unhappy, he also makes me drink more hot water." ”
See, if a man doesn't care about a woman, he is not willing to pay even the simplest behavior, and only wants to rely on words to temporarily ease a woman's emotions. But for women, when they meet a man who can only speak, but will never act, such a situation will only appear a few times, and the heart will be cold, and the mind of the man will be almost clear.
Love, only love, can make people dare to give their lives for the people they love; this is something that not only men can do, but women can also do. ”
A man, as long as he truly loves a woman in his heart, will definitely take the initiative to dedicate his actions. In order to make women happier and more confident in this love, women do not have to take the initiative to ask for anything, men can take the initiative to guess women's thoughts, and use their own actions to make women feel his sincerity. Knowing that when a woman is unwell, men will definitely find a way to alleviate women's pain at the first time.
02 When a woman's mood is relatively low, men will find ways to make women happy.
Swedenborg said: "Love exists in the desire to give, and regards the happiness of the lover as its own." ”
When we don't care so much about a person in our hearts, we may use words to make the other person happy, but it must be only that, and other behaviors are often less likely to appear. If we meet the person who makes us worry all the time and makes us fascinated, every word and deed of the other party, every move will be in our eyes, and it will also affect our hearts.
The same is naturally true for men, once they have a person in their hearts, this person will affect their lives and affect the focus of their attention. Whether it is chatting or getting along, men will quickly feel the woman's emotions from the woman's tone, and at the same time, they will use their own way to coax women to be happy.
In such a process, men will take the initiative to guess the woman's heart, and at the same time use some obvious actions to coax women to be happy. From these actions of men, women can naturally feel whether he really cares about you and whether he really cares about you.
03 When giving gifts to women, they will take the initiative to understand women's preferences, rather than asking women what they like.
Sukhomlinsky said: "True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world." ”
Women should know that, in general, as long as men really care about you, they will definitely take the initiative to understand your inner world, including what you are thinking, what you like, what kind of lifestyle you want, and so on.
The most basic condition for a man to love a woman is that he is willing to understand the woman's heart and is willing to take the initiative to integrate into the woman's life, rather than not wanting to understand anything, and will only use sweet words to confuse women.
It's like at some special time, men will give women some gifts. If men don't care so much about women in their hearts, gifts are only given to complete the task. If a man truly loves a woman, he will definitely think about what the woman likes, and what he should do to give the woman a big surprise and let the woman feel his intentions.
Moloa said: "There is nothing in the world that can last long in oblivion and abandonment, the house will collapse when it is abandoned, the cloth will decay when it is abandoned, the friendship will fade when it is abandoned, the happiness will dissipate when it is abandoned, and the love will dissolve when it is abandoned." ”
Love, only under the premise of action, will become more and more intense, if there is not even the most basic action, this love will only be forgotten in abandonment.