Zhu Yuchen, 43, is still single. His mother had wanted Huo Siyan to be her daughter-in-law. Huo Siyan sneered, "I'm sorry, I'm looking for a husband, I don't want to find it."
Zhu Yuchen's mother once said: "Wherever my son goes, I will give him a warm kitchen." ”
This is selfless and unrequited maternal love, so warm. This kind of love has continued from Zhu Yuchen is still a small baby waiting to be fed to now to middle age.
However, after in-depth contact with Zhu's mother, you will find that her love for Zhu Yuchen has no boundaries at all, and everything must be done to make people feel oppressed and monitored, and Zhu Yuchen has properly become a "ma bao man." ”
Zhu Yuchen was already completely accustomed to his mother's big and small affairs, from eating and drinking every day to what kind of daughter-in-law he wanted to find, all of which had to be reviewed and controlled by his mother.
Zhu Yuchen was Tang Wei's first boyfriend, when Tang Wei fell in love with Zhu Yuchen at first sight and fell in love with him involuntarily. And Zhu Yuchen also liked Tang Wei, and the two rented a house together in Beijing not long after they were together, and lived a sweet cohabitation life.
However, when Zhu Yuchen's mother saw Tang Wei, she was not satisfied with Tang Wei, feeling that the gap between the two people was very large, and it was not appropriate to be together, and more importantly, she felt that Tang Wei could not take on the heavy responsibility of taking care of Zhu Yuchen at all, so she had always opposed the two people being together, and later the two people broke up.
Later, Zhu Yuchen made several girlfriends, all of whom were interfered with by Zhu's mother for various reasons, and finally broke up. During this period, Zhu Yuchen also thought about resisting and fighting, but her mother always used various "I am for your own good" reasons to make Zhu Yuchen's various independent consciousness disappear in the bud.
Zhu Yuchen looks not bad, the personality is very grinning and temperament is also very good, in a variety show, he showed that he is also a big boy who can take care of his life in an orderly manner, but it is such a boy, but many girls dare not marry, not because of anything else, or because he has a mother with a strong desire to control, married to him, although there is one more lover, but also one more elder who points out various points to his life, that feeling will make people suffocate.
Zhu Yuchen once said that he was actually quite delicious in cooking, and sometimes he wanted to cook by himself to experience the fun, but Zhu's mother never agreed to let him cook, saying that he would suffer in this way. However, for Zhu Yuchen, his mother's approach made him feel no love, and some were just bound.
This kind of love is actually quite terrible, has some aggressive nature, the person who gives love feels that he loves the other party wholeheartedly, and can give his life to the other party, but the beloved party has been asked, in the process of being shaped, completely unable to live according to his own will, which is actually the most painful.
Selfless love is great, but once there is no boundary, it will evolve into a desire for control, which is a disaster for the beloved party. The strength of love should be controlled, just the right love is the most suitable, too late. What do you think?