Many boys usually have less contact with girls because of the circle, so when they chat with girls they like, they are easy to become nervous, resulting in awkward chats and cold scenes during the chat process.
Next, Xiaobian will tell everyone the 4 skills of chatting with the girls you like, so that everyone can say goodbye to awkward chats and cold scenes during the chat with girls.
First, pay attention to the way information is exchanged
Many boys in the chat with the girl they like, because of nervous reasons, when exchanging information, the girl asks what to answer, there is no substantive interaction, just like the interview goes through the stage, and then gradually talk to the cold field in the process of awkward chat between a question and an answer.
Therefore, if you want to say goodbye and be cold when chatting with a girl you like, then we must pay attention to the way information is exchanged. Next, teach everyone how to exchange information correctly:
M: hi
F: Mm-hmm
M: My name is xx, you can call me a little x
F: Oh, okay
M: Oh, how can it be so rude
woman:???
M: Don't you tell me your name?
F: My name is xx, you can call me little x
The best way to chat with girls is through information exchange, say their own value, and then guide the other party to say their value, take the initiative to mobilize the girl's emotions, and create a relaxed and pleasant chat atmosphere, so that girls will be more willing to pick up your words, and the topic can be better continued, so that there will be no cold and awkward chats.
Second, look for commonalities between the two sides
Chatting with girls you like will have awkward chats and cold scenes, in addition to the reasons for their own nervousness, there is also a reason because the relationship between the two sides is not very familiar, so if you want to say goodbye to awkward chats and cold fields, we also need to learn to make connections. So how do you make a connection?
It's very simple, look for commonalities between both sides in the chat, talk more about things related to girls or things related to you, such as:
M: Talking to you like this, I feel like you're a very focused person
F: Why do you say that?
M: Because up to now, you've only been talking to me, and you don't know what my name is
In the chat, many times girls do not take the initiative to ask you personal information, indicating that they are not interested in you, at this time we need to shift the focus of the chat to ourselves and guide girls to pay attention to you.
Here girls may ask "what is your name" at this time directly tell the girl is useless, you can tease the girl, such as:
F: What's your name?
M: Is it my English name or Chinese name?
F: Oh, also English name
M: My name is tom, call Jerry online
"Tom and Jerry" I believe everyone has seen it, adding such a familiar topic to the chat can make the simple exchange of information more interesting, and can also deepen the impression and be more conducive to the establishment of familiarity.
Third, try to talk about life-related topics
Because they like each other, so many boys often choose some topics that girls like to talk about when chatting, trying to win each other's good feelings with these topics, and then because these topics they don't know much, so there are awkward chats and cold scenes when chatting.
In fact, chatting with the girl you like, there is no need to limit the topic to what she likes, people's personality needs to be congruent, so the nearest hot spots in the chat, information, the fun things you encounter, and the topics in life, can better establish a distance with girls, close the distance between each other. Like what:
M: The epidemic situation has been very serious recently, and there are too many infected people in the United States
F: Yeah
M: You still need to wear a mask every day, by the way, do you still have more masks?
F: It's okay
M: I've got a lot of it, and if you don't have enough, I'll send you some
Chat with the girl you like, we must be in order to be able to ask her to appear, so you can ask the girl out at the right time, of course, you must not be too deliberate, it is easy to expose the sense of need for the girl is rejected, but casually mentioned, in a tone of care and help.
Fourth, appropriate implantation of ambiguous emotions
I have been chatting with the girl I like for a while, but I still find that there will still be awkward chats and cold scenes, why is this?
A large part of the reason for this is that there will be no ambiguous emotions implanted in the chat, and the other party cannot be emotionally fluctuating, resulting in girls not having the desire to chat, and lack of interaction in the chat.
Therefore, when chatting with the girls we like, we also need to learn to properly implant ambiguous emotions in order to make girls have the desire to talk, in order to say goodbye to awkward chats and cold scenes, such as:
M: It feels so comfortable to talk to you
F: I think so too
M: Then you have to be careful not to fall in love with me
F: No
M: Really? I can read minds
F: I believe you are a ghost, you bad old man is very bad
M: Old lady, don't cook for me yet, I won't have anyone to play with you when I starve
Increase the darkness to the girl in the guide to suggest that the girl, you like me, and then add ambiguous words to the trend to establish some virtual couple relationships with the girl, although it is hypothetical, but it can fully interact with the girl and close the distance between each other.