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Friends Xiaolu, the fate of the first half of her life was particularly smooth, until after marriage, she felt that her life was in a desperate situation.
When she had just given birth to a confinement, her husband suddenly lost his job.
In her opinion, the reason why her husband is unemployed is extremely funny, that is, her husband feels that the job is not what he likes, and the boss is too stupid, so he does not want to serve.
Originally, after the small road took maternity leave, the income and salary were reduced by more than half, and the family mortgage and car loan were all under economic pressure.
At this critical moment when the husband and wife were most needed to work together and the man was alone, he actually resigned.
Life has fallen into a trough, men are reluctant to go out to work, he has to start a business at home and do what he likes.
The family suddenly cut off the economic income, the salary of the small road, can only barely maintain the family mortgage, but the living expenses and car loans, completely unsupported.
Moreover, the in-laws and mother-in-law were originally rural households, no pension, no penny deposits, and also relied on two people like this, and the economic pressure of a family of five fell on Xiaolu's body.
After a long argument between the two men, Xiaolu finally found out that divorce was not what she wanted.
Although men are willful, they also have a sense of purpose, know their own responsibilities and pressures, work hard to do their own things every day, and dare not slacken off.
In such an environment, Xiaolu began to read books and began his own reading path, which was three years.
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That is, after embarking on the road of reading, Xiaolu's life has undergone earth-shaking changes.
Later, she often said in the circle of friends that if a woman is in a low valley, she must study well.
Remember not to waste time, on arguing with men, and don't waste things on accusations, because it really doesn't make sense.
These complaints and negative energy, to solve your own life problems, do not help, will only make you fall into a bigger desperate situation.
Later, Xiaolu read more and more books, and she also did a side job, and in recent years, the income of this side job has gotten better and better, and it has completely exceeded her own income.
And her success in her side business today is all related to reading, and it is also brought about by reading.
Therefore, Xiaolu flipped his life and best explained the meaning of why women should read well when they are at a low point.
When women are at a low point, only reading is the best way out of your life, and it is the easiest tool for you to reverse your life.
Someone once said that the biggest benefit of reading is that you can get rid of mediocrity, one day early will have more wonderful life, and one day later will have more mediocre troubles.
For women, the benefits of reading are too many and too many, and in real life, some women basically choose to terminate their growth after marriage.
Completely position yourself as a mother, a wife, but completely forget that you are the woman herself.
You have your own ideals and dreams, you have your own career and future, not dependent on family existence.
No matter what stage of your life, books will directly give you wisdom and inspiration, and will provide you with the most valuable experience in life.
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You have to believe that when you are in a low valley and you can see the starry sky as soon as you look up, it must be the book you are reading at the moment.
When a woman is at a low ebb, she should most calm down, and when you can calm down and read a book, you are adding value to yourself.
Women read to improve themselves, not to live to be what others like, nor to live to be the inspirational version of others, just to enjoy the process and become what they like.
When you are in life, the more difficult it is to make a choice, when you are at a loss in life, you should sink your heart and look at a book in your hand.
Because books will let you find yourself, and it will let you find the direction of life.
Xiao lu said: A woman who focuses on improving herself, a woman who likes to read, even in the trough, can see the future she wants.
Real life is very bitter, very difficult, life is not satisfactory things, always nine times out of ten, and books are like a glimmer of light, bringing concentration to your life, blowing a breeze for your life.
The greatest significance of women's efforts is to see the larger world outside of themselves, to see a wider sky, to see more beautiful landscapes, to see those and their own, completely different life.
Because in this life, there is not only one way to live, only those who really stand tall can see the scenery farther away.
Someone said, "Reading is the best means for me to dispel the unpleasantness of life." There is no kind of distress that reading cannot dispel. ”
Someone put it this way: "The more you read without thinking, the more you will feel that you know a lot; but the more you read and think, the more you will clearly see that you know very little." ”
Another said, "Women should have their own thoughts." The reason why a person is different is because she not only has a different appearance, but also has different ideas. No matter how gorgeous a woman is, if there is no thought, people are cloudy, she will always be a flash in the pan. ”
Because of reading and working hard, women who improve themselves, and women who do not read at all and do not improve themselves, live two different lives, which is probably the greatest meaning for women to read well and strive to improve themselves.
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